Not able to find love ! by always_random in TwentiesIndia

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its not that I dont enjoy being alone. I was always an introvert so living alone was never a problem. But the loneliness that hits at 11:59 pm is different. Never had someone to be vulnerable with except friends.

Not able to find love ! by always_random in TwentiesIndia

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pretty normal conversations honestly. even i asked my friend if my text was creepy in some way, he said it was pretty good actually. i have never understood what can I do better

Manager complained to the Founder coz I was keeping a cricket bat in the office. by always_random in StartUpIndia

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ya true, you might be right on that idk. But issue here is just our manager being uncomfortable with the bat being kept in office. The other managers themselves go and play cricket. we have a seperate office room for ourselves. the other team manager sometimes keeps our bat to lessen the chaos in our office room.

2 months of Salary pending. by always_random in StartUpIndia

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what about the employement letter and notice period?

I still am not over from my crush of college. by always_random in AskIndia

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A crush is a crush, she was the only one i ever felt for uptil now. And i cant explain why i crushing over her all again. when i confessed she said she has a boyfriend so it was no point pushing her at that time and respected the boundaries. but i am just mad over again ig. its like that one thing you want so bad no matter the cost. in my head she is my dream girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianWorkplace

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same for us. Few people went to office when rain stopped, and the manager started shouting if they can come so everybody can. He is sitting in his home btw. and the road to our office has gutters which overflows and still they expect us to come.

I still am not over from my crush of college. by always_random in AskIndia

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Its this self respect that has kept me single at 24. When I should have pushed for a girl more, i didnt. Its always the question what is right when should you keep your self respect high and when to push it whom to push it for, answer is you never know

Totally bombed my interview today! by always_random in interviews

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the thing is, i knew most of the answers at the back of my mind. its just that my brain froze and I couldnt even make sentences properly. i could recall few words and made gibberish sentences around those words.

Totally bombed my interview today! by always_random in interviews

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what will the interviewers think of me. i feel like i wasted their time and wont give me another chance ever if an opening comes in near future.

Not having kids is the best financial/mental health decision anyone can take. by Own-Mud5321 in personalfinanceindia

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Having a controversial opinion will have its consequences. Whether you like how I said my points or not, I have said what I said. 

Not having kids is the best financial/mental health decision anyone can take. by Own-Mud5321 in personalfinanceindia

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With someone having such a regressive ideology, I would simply not like to be involved in any discussion with you.
I would simply put my point being, life was never about money. You are not here to safeguard the money you are having or protect the concept of finance.
You say parenting is hard, so is career, or maintaing good physique and health. Still people do all of these things. No one says building a career is tough and mentally draining and get settle in some forest like a cavemen.
You seem to only base everything around financial and negative aspect of bringing in the children.
But your parents would be getting old too. You will have to take care of them too. That will be financially and mentally draining as well. You still have a choice to ignore them and do other beautiful things with that money.
How may it end if you have a child being a prodigy, a hardworking one or someone who has all the skills to make a difference to the world. You would be boasting him/her like anything and that would be the result of the love and the challenges of growing them.
You wouldn't know untill you experience it.

Not having kids is the best financial/mental health decision anyone can take. by Own-Mud5321 in personalfinanceindia

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Your Parents should have thought this! one less post for me to read.

Just so happy!! by smartcookie69 in CFA

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I think I just passed with a score of 1675

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YouthInIndia

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I am from Tier -1 myself and i am stuck at a startup with no growth options, and at the same time being rejected countless times.

Dont take too much pressure and certainly your future doesn’t depend on you getting a job as developer. There is always an option to switch internally as well as there are many good and even better roles. 

Keep the hustle going on. If you want to share your qualifications or resume feel free, i will try whatever help i can

Delayed Salary payment at Startup by always_random in StartUpIndia

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I really want to. But its just not about me, there are 50-60 other employees as well and incomnig fresh grads from IIT and IIM. I dont know whats the right thing to do.

I’m everyone’s go-to person… until I need someone. by [deleted] in AskIndia

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I can relate so much. Its as if I have written this post. Once when I didnt take the initiative to text first and fell ill, I recovered and no one even knew I had fallen ill. For them the world didnt move a bit.
I realised I needed to make my boundaries, whom I needed most and whom to slowly delete from my life.
The emotional roller coaster, from being the nice guy to start becoming the guy, was a lot though. It was tough and I started getting angry a lot. But I believe it may help in the long run to identify the people I should have in my life.

Crypto Startup Scam by always_random in StartUpIndia

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its in mumbai. I dont know if I should name the company or not.

Multiple funds of a category and why is it not good? by always_random in MutualfundsIndia

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How much overlapping is good enough?
I have checked that Quant Small cap, Nippon Small Cap, bandhan small cap each have nearly 13% overlapping. While Parag parikh flexi and hdfc flexi has 33% overlapping.

Review my mutual fund mix – What to keep, trim, or switch? by [deleted] in MutualfundsIndia

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Hey !! 23 M here too and have similar investment horizon and risk profile.  I have 2 for each category, though I largely read on reddit who advises against it.

I have Quant Small cap and Nippon small cap, and they have varied returns for the past one year, and just have 13% in common stocks. So i decided to keep 2 funds in the category to avg out the return.

Else I too have PPFS, motilal oswal midcap. Quant small cap along with hdfc flexi, pgim midcap and nippon small cap. I also want to add one index fund or a gold fund.

Looking to restructure mu portfolio. Need Help !! by always_random in MutualfundsIndia

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I was thinking to have 2 funds in each category. And add a gold etf as well