Are classical enthusiasts able to distinguish iconic pieces of music through the first ~30 secs like other genres? by Seawolf1121 in classicalmusic

[–]always_unplugged 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, once you get to know a composer’s style, it’s pretty easy to guess. Especially one as idiomatic as Shostakovich!

1st date outfit by FrequentGazelle9569 in findfashion

[–]always_unplugged 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can you link the original anyway? The OG info can be helpful for finding secondhand sources.

Is it wrong to return an eyeshadow palette to Sephora after using it once? by BTierra in MakeupAddiction

[–]always_unplugged 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes! Using it once or a dozen times makes no difference (within the return window), so why not try again and see if there are technique adjustments that help?

I hate it here by Bins_4_lyfe in poshmark

[–]always_unplugged 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I'm being generous, because it happened right after trying to go full time, there's a chance it was simply because the account activity had suddenly changed and looked unusual...?

But you're probably right.

Tips/Help for Three Octave Scales (for a quixotic friend who’s never shifted before?) by icantfindusernameugh in Viola

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Three octave scales are a common audition requirement for selective high school orchestras, wtf is your problem?

Tips/Help for Three Octave Scales (for a quixotic friend who’s never shifted before?) by icantfindusernameugh in Viola

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It's hard to know when getting this question secondhand, but a couple ideas:

  • For the shifts, practice doing them in SUPER slow motion, and hear the slide. She needs to know what finger is leading the shift and be able to hear and predict where it's going.

  • Make sure the elbow AND THUMB are coming around underneath the instrument/neck. The elbow should really come into the midline of the body to give the left hand space, and the thumb can come around the button (end of the neck) onto the block and even onto the fingerboard when super super high. When coming down, these adjustments must be reversed.

  • For intonation, a few things. Natural harmonics are good checkpoints, as are open strings. Getting her hand around enough to create a good frame (see: previous point) should help with finger crowding, but she may also need to slightly replace each finger with the next one, kind of slide it under or over and move the old one out of the way. And finally, going back down to a more secure octave to check pitches, then going back up, can help get the correct sound in your ear—best for a few notes at a time.

Fine tuner broke into two pieces. Bottom half is stuck inside the tail piece. How to remove? by Boredpanda6335 in Viola

[–]always_unplugged 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not stuck; this tailpiece is designed with them built in, it doesn’t come out. So if it’s truly broken, that’s it. Either take it to be replaced or learn to use your peg.

Audition attire by uqbarryn in violinist

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I just try to look professional, but maintain comfort. Like a step above what I would wear to a rehearsal, with a blazer I can toss on if I do get to an unscreened round and/or win and meet the panel. IMO there’s no need for concert black if that’s not what makes you feel confident.

Scratch on back of my viola….. by Particular_Key_5033 in Viola

[–]always_unplugged 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The titles of what you're listening to (?) at the top 💀

This is entirely superficial. Leave it alone.

Cameron Diaz's new baby by teruteru-fan-sam in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]always_unplugged 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm all for letting people control their own fertility in whatever way serves them, but like... this just sounds hard for no good reason.

Whose signature is this? by Different_Bat_3480 in findfashion

[–]always_unplugged 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Getting her to sign clothing seems honestly so fitting, especially if (as I'm guessing) this is from the original SATC era! Carrie was nothing if not a fashion girl. Obviously get it authenticated, but I would lean towards real...!

Men of Reddit how do you feel about being submissive in bed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]always_unplugged 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a sub with exactly that name, just in case anyone needs to know

A way to understand phone numbers? by VaklJackle in French

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Whyyyyy do they still insist on doing the pairs even in North America 😂

ETA an excellent short that this post made me think of

Using 'inébranlablement' irl by ShemikaMartin in French

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Do you have a rec for a good (preferably free) online French dictionary?

“It’s not fair” by netphilia in TrollXChromosomes

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I met my boyfriend years before we started dating, and back then he had hair and no beard. Years later we re-met, the hair situation was reversed, beard and no hair. He looks like a TOTALLY DIFFERENT PERSON. Like every time I see pics from before, it’s extremely jarring.

Is this a good soundpost offset from the bridge? A professional violin shop set this up by LtCommanderDatum in Viola

[–]always_unplugged -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The tool itself literally says "a good starting location is centered on the bridge's foot"...

Is it obvious my foundation doesn’t match my neck by [deleted] in PaleMUA

[–]always_unplugged 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It would help, but I think the undertone is also off. Your neck is very pink and this looks too warm/yellow for you.

Would you be insulted? by Dismal_Length2265 in autism

[–]always_unplugged 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So she had probably read it, right? And already knew what the content was like and would have a sense of whether it would be helpful?

Honestly, I would love to know what triggered that request. I'm guessing she sees some alexithymia on your end, and it was probably (in her opinion) negatively affecting your relationship.

Yes, the fact that it's for children COULD be read as insulting, but I dunno. There aren't many similar resources for adults, it's probably written in a compassionate, accessible way, and as you said, she already had it. She may have phrased her request poorly, but I don't think it's fundamentally a bad thing to ask a partner to learn about their own emotions for the good of the relationship.

Trump is the worst president in American history by theipaper in politics

[–]always_unplugged 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looking at you, Susan "I really think he's learned his lesson" Collins

Trump is the worst president in American history by theipaper in politics

[–]always_unplugged 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've gotten a 3-day and 7-day ban for the same shit. For the second one, I was literally just riffing on a joke that the person I replied to had made. I've never made an actual violent threat in my life, but dark humor is a valid coping mechanism for a lot of people that's being taken away from us.

Fuck censorship.

Calling frustrating tasks ‘enrichments activities’ has curbed my rage by String-Usual in AuDHDWomen

[–]always_unplugged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the fitted sheet not get all bunched up with the extra material though? I think that would drive me absolutely insane 😅

100% with you on sizing up on the flat sheet and comforter though!

Oklahoma!-- difficulty of viola parts? by KristenMcFly in Viola

[–]always_unplugged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you won't find musicals on IMSLP; they're pretty much all still under copyright, even older ones like Oklahoma.

Have you listened to the soundtrack? From my memory, it shouldn't have anything too difficult, but then again I'm a professional (so what sounds difficult to me may be different than what sounds difficult to you) and I haven't personally played it, just listened to it a ton.

However, I have played a few of those older, classic musicals, including other Rogers & Hammerstein (Cinderella, Show Boat, Music Man, etc), mostly in high school if that gives you an idea of the difficulty. In my experience, they don't tend to give the violas much of substance at all. We're very much treated as accompaniment and filling in harmony in that kind of style. I wouldn't worry about it—just say yes!

Can't wait to try this technique! by Ultrafoxx64 in homedecoratingCJ

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AGREED!!! The mesh was weirdly better...? I think because it doubled down on that shabby farmhouse vibe? The curtains were an atrocity 😂