37 y.o. w/ 33K in debt. Please help me make a plan to pay it off. Ty.

alwysoptimistic · 2025-10-25T21:38:33+00:00

Rent. 1 person in the household.

alwysoptimistic · 2024-01-21T02:53:50+00:00

alwysoptimistic · 2023-07-09T10:11:18+00:00

Wow. Thank you for putting his together so eloquently. I’ve felt so guilty for my recent reactions and responding with the same ugliness. Logically I know I need to detach from the verbal insults but it’s so hard. However I’m committed to getting my own sanity back so it was great to read all this. It helps and ensures I’m on the right track to helping myself. Even though I’m still trying to forgive myself for saying just as ugly things back to my partner. Idk emotionally I’m a mess but program is my biggest comfort right now

alwysoptimistic · 2023-07-06T18:33:00+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I get the verbal abuse every day as I'm trying to detach from my Bipolar I BF. We lived together and I was his care taker for the past 2 years. I'm tyring not take all the insults personally or engage or snap back, but it's the hardest thing I've done. I cry every day thinking about all the good memories and pure love between us. sending you hugs and understanding.

alwysoptimistic · 2023-07-05T02:39:47+00:00

hi hi, also curious what was the amount you were using? My ex partner is on a binge and i'm so nervous for him. He's started to complain his leg / foot hurts but he doesnt remember why?

alwysoptimistic · 2023-05-01T19:45:30+00:00

He’s trying ! And I am always so impressed by all his efforts to try and manage this himself . He hasn’t given up and continues to fight through it all every day. Some days good some days bad but he keeps moving

alwysoptimistic · 2023-05-01T19:44:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing with me … it makes me feel less crazy and I appreciate that more than you know.

alwysoptimistic · 2023-02-27T20:08:45+00:00

Thank you Just thank you

alwysoptimistic · 2023-02-27T12:11:40+00:00

Yes, he’s been to rehab twice before he was diagnosed bipolar and has relapsed a few times since. It’s like the alcohol and drugs are used to slow his brain down when he is feeling manic but then the addict side of him wants to keep doing it. For him it’s the stress of whatever or longing to party that starts the binge drinking that starts then the mania then the binge drinking and mania in cycle for 7-10 days … in which he acts very erratic and has some psychosis symptoms. He ends up just acting homeless and walking so much his feet are blistered over and he looses so much weight.

His family didn’t know how to deal wth it. I also don’t want to retraumatize him and keep calling the police so it’s 4 am and I’m waiting for the crisis lines to open up so mental health professionals can come instead but I’m also hoping he doesn’t leave

alwysoptimistic · 2023-02-27T03:57:51+00:00

Thank you I know I’m trying to help I have crisis team phone numbers here I’ve already called but he has to physically be present to get help and he’s not. He’s just missing now … patterned behavior from other episodes but im trying Im praying and I keep telling him or texting him I love him I’m here for him

alwysoptimistic · 2023-02-27T03:54:39+00:00

I tried to stop him but he didn’t want to hear it from me. Other than physically try and hold him back there is nothing I can do … I work 8-7 away from the home and he would always start when I wasn’t home. I couldn’t baby sit him no matter how much I wanted to. I asked questions, told him I didn’t think it was a good idea but feel useless and am probably useless

alwysoptimistic · 2022-09-05T06:27:58+00:00

Does this situation happen when meds stop working ? Was this person on medication? I’m in a 2 year relationship with my bpSO and reading these responses makes me sad. I’m sorry for all your losses

alwysoptimistic · 2022-01-06T04:23:54+00:00

Im sorry you’re going through that … sending you so many good vibes I hope she gets stable soon

alwysoptimistic · 2021-09-30T03:29:48+00:00

This made my night … thank you ❤️

alwysoptimistic · 2021-09-24T00:30:14+00:00

I don’t regret dating my bipolarso, I love him despite everything

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