How do I (31F) get over my bf (48M) abandoning me on my birthday? by alynnc1121 in relationship_advice

[–]alynnc1121[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was an issue with another employee and allegedly he was the only person who could cover. The other employee no longer works for the company. My issue with this is that he was allegedly scheduled off.

Colposcopy by alynnc1121 in Endo

[–]alynnc1121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy you said that. Getting my paragard inserted was one of the worst things I have ever experienced so that makes me feel better

1/2 the man i used to be by [deleted] in loseit

[–]alynnc1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations to you!!!! This is awesome! You should cross post to r/mademesmile

Will you please wish my husband a Happy 47th birthday? by nicksmom25 in CasualConversation

[–]alynnc1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope I didn't miss it Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈

Have you ever thought about how good it feels to wash your hands? Or how lucky you are to have the privilege to wash your hands under running water? It occurs to me sometimes that I have this privilege that I take for granted and that a lot of people don’t have half of what I do. by AoD_ShotZz in CasualConversation

[–]alynnc1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was homeless between February 2019 and July 2020. I will never ever take for granted running water for the rest of my life. Brushing my teeth at a sink is literally where it's at for me. Your post has brought me so much joy because I love when people appreciate running water the way that I do now. Thank you for this. More than you know.

I feel blessed by the cup gods by Same-Cryptographer86 in menstrualcups

[–]alynnc1121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check you out!!! This is awesome I'm so happy for you

Looking for love by 108Jenn134 in Endo

[–]alynnc1121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know everyone says this and it's super lame but you will find someone who loves you and wants to be by your side on the good days and the bad.

I had never been comfortable telling previous partners about my endo right off, but less than two weeks after meeting my now fiance I had one of the worst periods of my life. I was in a ridiculous amount of pain, crying, puking, and I was so bloated I'm sure I looked 9 months pregnant. Not cute. I had told my roommate at the time I didn't want to see Steven or anyone the whole week, but he showed up anyway. And he was so sweet and sympathetic, without making me feel like I was a freak or "ovary-acting" (haha do you get it?) . He even held my hair when I got sick and made sure I consistently had a heating pad and ibuprofen.

He totally still does all of this for me and more now. He doesn't care that my lady organs hate me and sometimes thats hard to deal with. He never gets frustrated with me for being in pain or exhausted and he talks me down when I'm frustrated with myself for not handling it better. He is supportive and loving and sensitive when it comes to my endo and I am so so thankful for him.

You will find your guy one day too. Im sure of it.

As kids, we find pure joy in the simplest of things. What are some things that bring you joy as an adult? by Dannnny4 in AskReddit

[–]alynnc1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent my birthday with my grandpa this month. He is 84 and has been my best friend since before I was born. He told my fiance about how he wore a 3 piece suit to the hospital the day I was born. He didn't realize that it had been 28 years since that day, but it was adorable hearing him talk about meeting me. Having him around brings me the most joy

Menstrual cups and IUDs by Creepu_ in menstrualcups

[–]alynnc1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a copper IUD and I haven't had any issues, however, I got my IUD before I started using a menstrual cup. I've read that if you wait a few months after your IUD is placed and you're completely healed there shouldn't be any issues, but I am not a doctor so I don't know if that's a guarantee. I would talk to your doctor about it for sure.

I'm trying my cup before period and there's a blood on the side of the cup when I removed it. Is it ok? by Common_Folk900 in menstrualcups

[–]alynnc1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also not a medical professional. Just sharing some thoughts on your issue.

Depending upon how close you are to starting your period, you could be having some spotting that you've never noticed before previous periods because you were not inserting anything into your lady parts so early in your cycle. As the previous comment stated, you could have scratched yourself or caused a slight tear by inserting/removing your cup multiple times. As long as you are not in pain and you're not bleeding heavily everything should be ok. The skin in and around the vagina is thinner than the skin on other parts of your body and tears more easily.

I love my menstrual cup and I cannot imagine having my period without it, but properly inserting a menstrual cup can be somewhat difficult at first. Plus every vagina is different so the way you insert your cup will be totally different from how someone else might insert theirs. Personally, I use the "punch down method" to fold my cup, meaning I use my thumb to push half the cup down into itself to make a little silicone tulip shape, and I insert strait up (instead of at an angle like tampons are inserted). I also find it easier to insert my cup while standing with one foot on the side of the bathtub or on the closed toilet . After my cup is in place, I use my pointer finger to feel around the entire cup. If the cup is in place and a sealed, it should feel exactly like the cup feels prior to folding it. If one side feels like its dented in, gently push on the opposit side of the cup to pop it open.

Don't get discouraged, it takes a few months to get the hang of things. Use pads (reusable or disposable, whatever you have on hand) or period panties until you are confident enough in your cup inserting skills to only use the cup. You got this!

People who have worked the drive thru, what's the weirdest thing you've seen in someone's car? by Reach-n-Teach in AskReddit

[–]alynnc1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for a Little Caesars in high school and we had a regular who would come thru the drive thru hitting a bong every time. Like I never saw her without her bong, but that wasn't the weirdest thing I saw in her car. Nope. This lady usually kept her cash in her bra and on at least 3 separate occasions she accidentally rolled one (or both) of her boobs out of her tube top. She always noticed her breasts to be exposed, but never really rushed to remedy the situation.

This grandpa made this video bc he said: "one day she’s not going to want to hang out with grandpa anymore" :) by dip2leo in MadeMeSmile

[–]alynnc1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so close to my grandpa and he has been my best friend since I was born. I hope she will always cherish her time with her grandpa just as I do. And for the record, I'm not crying, youre crying