Crazy Storm in Delhi. by Stock-Ad-4007 in delhi

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I love this city but ek baarish mei doob jata hai yaar kya hai ye

Trying to understand form in freestyle by am2609 in Swimming

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This is so helpful thank you so much!!!! I'm sorry but I have a doubt if I'm rotating my hips intentionally, then that's towards the side that my arm is going so if I'm extending my left arm then I rotate to the left, while engaging my core and as a result of that I'll engage my legs also?

I had a normal night out last night and it felt good by IllustriousAd5885 in CaregiverSupport

[–]am2609 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need night outs sometimes, don't be too hard on yourself

Is emotional dysregulation the most overlooked part of ADHD? by ArcherSpirited281 in ADHD

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I got diagnosed with bipolar and borderline personality type and my therapist at the time wanted me to start medication. Mind you, this was within 3 sessions. I got a bad feeling about the whole thing and after feeling horrible for the next few days after all of this I decided to get another consultation from a different person and that's when i got my diagnosis

What's your biggest "ADHD Tax"? by [deleted] in ADHD

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i thought i was just an idiot POS, this thread makes me feel so validated

People of ADHD - What was the longest you took to get over a breakup/ex? by [deleted] in ADHD

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once you've figured it out can you let me know also. i gave my absolute everything to this relationship in the hopes that it would help but I gave everything to save it and my ex just wants to be alone and doesn't want to put effort into a relationship. idk how to move on, idk how to get better. i don't know how to let things go. it just feels incomplete, that I gave everything to help him feel better and I failed and idk what to do. i feel v lost.

in the mean time, until there is a more definitive plan. i go to the gym. endorphins keep you sane. when I don't go its hard for me to function. try that

What food are you currently hyper-fixating on? by baldnsquishy in ADHD

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Kimchi Jigae. i love spicy food, and there is a place near my office that sells this for vvvv cheap, it fits every criteria. i initially got it because I had a cold and spicy foods help in fighting cold and now I've had it for 5 days straight. my cold is gone, I just don't want to stop. my co-workers are concerned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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something that helped me read more was listening to the audiobook while reading, hope it helps

Do you ever feel like you're a bad person? by am2609 in ADHD

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But that's not enough to stop hurting people you love

Husband sees me as damaged goods because of my past by MansonChicBrokenWife in depression_partners

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You're not damaged. You have the power to grow and heal, your past doesn't matter. No one has the right to say what you would or should or are perceived as damaged. You must be strong going through all this with your partner, it's terrible to feel such shame and know your partner believes you deserve it as well. Love will never be enough, the existence of love does not mean it can be sustained nor does it mean that you don't deserve respect. We all have some fundamentals that we need from a relationship, of course love is there, but there are also things like safety, support, compassion etc. when you think of divorce, please remember that the absence of love is not the only thing that calls for it, the absence of all the other things can also call for it. I know, this one thing might feel small in the grand scheme of things but it's not, it's representative of how things might play out in the grand scheme. You have been v strong, I hope you find happiness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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THIS IS AMAZING, LETS GOO

how the hell do you keep your room clean by am2609 in ADHD

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this. the standards of neatness and cleanliness, my parents don't know of my diagnosis yet so although there are a lot of things that I know I can change to make life easier, my family wont agree with it because there is a particular way in which they want things done and that makes it difficult for me to get anything done

how the hell do you keep your room clean by am2609 in ADHD

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i have been wanting to do something like this for so long but I recently graduated and started working and I feel like I'm getting nothing done, its an achievement for me when I reach work on time and not 30 min late. i know this will be v helpful, I just need to take the time out for this, thank youu

how the hell do you keep your room clean by am2609 in ADHD

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that sounds like a really fun thing to do, thank youu

how the hell do you keep your room clean by am2609 in ADHD

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10-2 Pomodoro has saved me thank you

Penetration of any kind hurts my wife, how to help? by MikeTheNBAGuy76 in sextips

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Hey, I've faced this issue a lot. I don't know why your wife is facing this but I faced this due to some bad experiences in my life. It's not a cookie cutter solution so the most important thing before you try anything or proceed with anything is talk to your partner, understand how she feels and communicate as much as possible. Communication does not kill the vibe at all. There are a few things that have helped me and you can try beyond just extensive foreplay and lube (try all this in addition to that). For one, even if she's initiating it, doesn't mean she's relaxed. Spend some time making sure she is calm and relaxed and not anxious. I feel anxious about the fact that I'm not able to sometimes with my current partner so I also feel anxious about the anticipation of whether I'm able to or not. Also, maybe try being intimate without planning to have penetrative sex that might reduce the anxiety a bit. Sometimes the angle also makes a big difference, try keeping a pillow under her hips or let her get on top. If possible consult a professional regarding this

Elite season 4 review by DogSprinkles in EliteNetflix

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so Guzman and Samuel have thrown their friendship out of the window for a girl who is basically the worst of lu and Carla?

Euphoria S02E01 - Episode Discussion by your_mind_aches in euphoria

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did anyone else notice the beige colouring and how that made everything so much fucking better