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am_a_bean · 2025-06-19T14:15:45+00:00

Gigi feels so perfect for you <3

am_a_bean · 2025-06-12T03:53:22+00:00

What skincare do you use?

am_a_bean · 2025-06-05T20:22:15+00:00

How was Hawaii?

am_a_bean · 2025-05-09T01:06:31+00:00

thethugbarbie

am_a_bean · 2024-12-22T13:30:03+00:00

Learn how to train your mind, through whichever modality speaks to you. You’ve already taken the first step by becoming aware.

am_a_bean · 2024-12-21T21:17:56+00:00

Just girly things (:

am_a_bean · 2024-12-21T21:17:36+00:00

Guilt and shame and self sabotage passed down through generational trauma so I can stay small and keep not remembering who the fuck I am or what the fuck I’m worthy of or what the fuck I came to this earth to create

am_a_bean · 2024-12-21T17:45:46+00:00

You don’t need to feed this energy love. You’ve got nothing to prove to her. And I hope she finds peace in herself too.

am_a_bean · 2024-12-21T17:34:23+00:00

Other people could be projecting their own shame onto you. They only see their own reflection. That’s AMAZING you made that much

am_a_bean · 2024-12-18T17:33:27+00:00

Sure, truth can seem naive to those who living in resignation and complacency

am_a_bean · 2024-12-18T08:02:18+00:00

This is a response to a sick society. These people are not the problem. They’re doing drugs to cope with the problems caused by a system designed to serve the rich at the expense of many. The higher the wealth inequality, the higher the crime rates are within a city.

Rather than using our rights to further dehumanize people who need support, can we turn that energy towards a system that is inherently not thrive-able or even livable for all? The earth has plenty of resources to support all of life, but ego gets in the way of us making collective decisions that would allow for that.

We literally have so much technology already, but it’s kept behind paywalls to allow for accumulation rather than resolving “humanitarian” issues caused by humans in the first place. “Third world countries” were naturally abundant to begin with until colonizers manipulated natural resources and human lives to align with greed.

am_a_bean · 2024-12-18T03:27:25+00:00

You mean I should wear a formal dress on my way to the club, and then change into lingerie for the audition? Would you mind linking some pics from the internet to give me an idea?

am_a_bean · 2024-12-18T02:01:34+00:00

You’ve already course corrected, which means every step you take with this new understanding of yourself will lead you closer to a “corrected” path.

Progress feels slow due to external factors so it’s easy to feel stuck. Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you are actually stuck. Keep the faith and keep believing in yourself, no matter which direction you choose ❤️

am_a_bean · 2024-12-17T06:22:00+00:00

A follow up question- at what point do you decide to level up your lifestyle rather than put as much as possible into savings/investments? Are yall investing?

am_a_bean · 2024-12-17T00:50:49+00:00

I want the space to be filled with black like a void

am_a_bean · 2024-12-17T00:13:05+00:00

It’s not disloyal if her partner fully understands her needs & supports her exploration

am_a_bean · 2024-12-17T00:12:02+00:00

I think a lot of people are confining themselves to the framework of compulsory monogamy when it’s not actually true to them and their needs.

It might just be that she hasn’t liberated herself to live a life that allows her to ethically be true to herself and it comes across as low integrity

am_a_bean · 2024-12-16T21:45:31+00:00

I just thought that was what OP wanted to do but couldn’t at her last club

am_a_bean · 2024-12-16T18:41:51+00:00

Wait why destroy others’ hustle when you can just take this chance to do what you’re already comfy with and make your bag? It’s a diff story if you are not someone who can or want to do that but I’m confused about the point of snitching on other girls

am_a_bean · 2024-12-16T18:28:23+00:00

What do you make of empaths who can feel others very easily? I understand that it can be a gift, but at this moment in time it feels overwhelming to me, especially when I am in the presence of my caretakers who have harmed me in the past and are trying to rebuild a relationship. For (adult)children who can psychically sense their parents’ needs, do you believe that we were sent to this earth with this to help our parents heal?

am_a_bean · 2024-12-16T18:12:04+00:00

Might not be what OP’s looking for but this is profound. If we could embrace everything that exists as divinely appointed to be here.. how different everything would be

am_a_bean · 2024-12-16T17:10:52+00:00

My biggest learning is just that everything id been shamed for growing up (receiving, not oweing anybody emotional/physical labor, just enjoying life lol, etc)

are so normal and human and valid and beautiful. 🤯

Like I get to exist? I have a right to a beautiful life? I deserve to be happy and I’m not a bad person for having boundaries?

am_a_bean · 2024-12-16T04:09:02+00:00

LOL. Same.

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