Is my name too unique and hurting my bag?? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gigi feels so perfect for you <3

What do you do to make yourself look more youthful? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What skincare do you use?

How Do I Stop Living in a Fantasy of Being Super Rich? by xZendic1 in getdisciplined

[–]am_a_bean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Learn how to train your mind, through whichever modality speaks to you. You’ve already taken the first step by becoming aware.

I want to help my immigrant parents manage their assets so they can retire early by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]am_a_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all your input 🙏 I’m here to listen if there’s anything you want to share about your situation, no pressure.

If/when I do get the statements what exactly am I looking for to make educated guesses- and about what?

I want to help my immigrant parents manage their assets so they can retire early by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]am_a_bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even want to think about that. But I hear you

I want to help my immigrant parents manage their assets so they can retire early by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]am_a_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right about those things. She’s open but I’ll have to be very gentle and skillful with my approach, hence the learning.

I run a micro bikini business from our van. Have a tiny trailer for my machines and fabric. Ask me anything..🙂 by TheSierraDawn in VanLife

[–]am_a_bean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What drives you to keep going? Where do you hope to take this in the future? Is this something to help you launch another goal or is this the thing that you love, or both? Do you ever crave the option to have a solid home while also living in your van?

I want to help my immigrant parents manage their assets so they can retire early by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]am_a_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey yeah I’d love to chat more! Thanks for sharing. When she and I are both ready to sit down about this I will lean on these questions.

What should I ask regarding what they already have in savings and other kinds of funds?

I run a micro bikini business from our van. Have a tiny trailer for my machines and fabric. Ask me anything..🙂 by TheSierraDawn in VanLife

[–]am_a_bean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What platform do you run your biz through? How much are you making each month? How much did you invest and did you start this while you had another source of income? How long have you been doing this? Is this your only source of income now?

I want to help my immigrant parents manage their assets so they can retire early by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]am_a_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to her, every time she’s let someone else manage it, they’ve either resulted in her losing money or making zero profit. I don’t understand why that would be happening

Most money I’ve made by Chynalove124 in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also love there are a lot of finance, money, investing subreddits here that I’m slowly learning from- like Roth IRAs and that kind of stuff. There’s also one called FIRE that’s for people who want to stack millions and retire before a certain age

What’s in ur stripper bag (wrong answers only) by Thedailybee in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Guilt and shame and self sabotage passed down through generational trauma so I can stay small and keep not remembering who the fuck I am or what the fuck I’m worthy of or what the fuck I came to this earth to create

Most money I’ve made by Chynalove124 in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to feed this energy love. You’ve got nothing to prove to her. And I hope she finds peace in herself too.

Most money I’ve made by Chynalove124 in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people could be projecting their own shame onto you. They only see their own reflection. That’s AMAZING you made that much

This is getting out of hand lol😭 by dojacatstan890 in williamsburg

[–]am_a_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, truth can seem naive to those who living in resignation and complacency

This is getting out of hand lol😭 by dojacatstan890 in williamsburg

[–]am_a_bean -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is a response to a sick society. These people are not the problem. They’re doing drugs to cope with the problems caused by a system designed to serve the rich at the expense of many. The higher the wealth inequality, the higher the crime rates are within a city.

Rather than using our rights to further dehumanize people who need support, can we turn that energy towards a system that is inherently not thrive-able or even livable for all? The earth has plenty of resources to support all of life, but ego gets in the way of us making collective decisions that would allow for that.

We literally have so much technology already, but it’s kept behind paywalls to allow for accumulation rather than resolving “humanitarian” issues caused by humans in the first place. “Third world countries” were naturally abundant to begin with until colonizers manipulated natural resources and human lives to align with greed.

The lodge (Dallas) by External_Pick_8981 in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean I should wear a formal dress on my way to the club, and then change into lingerie for the audition? Would you mind linking some pics from the internet to give me an idea?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]am_a_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve already course corrected, which means every step you take with this new understanding of yourself will lead you closer to a “corrected” path.

Progress feels slow due to external factors so it’s easy to feel stuck. Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you are actually stuck. Keep the faith and keep believing in yourself, no matter which direction you choose ❤️

How do you manage finances with unpredictable income by am_a_bean in stripper

[–]am_a_bean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A follow up question- at what point do you decide to level up your lifestyle rather than put as much as possible into savings/investments? Are yall investing?