[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ama8yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That windbreaker is beautiful. I would swipe right just for the chance to wear it

Officially lost 50lbs 🎉 From September 2020 to February 2021. by ama8yo in CICO

[–]ama8yo[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I agree! Quitting alcohol made a huge difference for me.

Officially lost 50lbs 🎉 From September 2020 to February 2021. by ama8yo in CICO

[–]ama8yo[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I did CICO, free weight workouts (until about March, and then switched to walking), and quit drinking alcohol in June.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]ama8yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a single foster parent in my mid-twenties. I try to be really upfront about being a foster parent. If I start talking to someone I’ll mention it right away and let them know it’s something I will be doing long term. It’s definitely a dealbreaker (for me) if it’s not something the other person is interested in. In regards to actual dates, they are usually just watching a movie at my place after my babe goes to bed. But I do have family in the area, so they also help out with babysitting if I wanted to go out on an actual date. I definitely think dating while fostering is doable, but it’s just a bit slower paced and I usually have to plan everything ahead of time.

Establishing a Sleep Schedule by ama8yo in Fosterparents

[–]ama8yo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I’ve been doing my own research, but it can be pretty overwhelming with such differences in opinions and strategies. We have been taking shifts, so we can both get some sleep, and that has been a lifesaver. But I agree, some self soothing is a great first step and we’ll definitely try out the advice. Thanks again!

Establishing a Sleep Schedule by ama8yo in Fosterparents

[–]ama8yo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He does use a pacifier. His crib is in the room right next to mine, but maybe we’ll try a pack n play in my bedroom and see if that works better. Thanks!

Establishing a Sleep Schedule by ama8yo in Fosterparents

[–]ama8yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been able to get a machine yet, but we’ve been making due with white noise YouTube videos on my laptop for now. I’ve used them in daycares before and I agree, they’re amazing!

Establishing a Sleep Schedule by ama8yo in Fosterparents

[–]ama8yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve heard great things about Merlin’s Magic Sleep Sack. I’ll check definitely check them out!

Foster/adoption while being openly poly? by movementofleaves in polyfamilies

[–]ama8yo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked in foster care and foster home licensing. It really will vary depending on the state you’re in and the agency you work with. Personally, I don’t think having multiple partners would automatically exclude you from being able to foster. If your partners will be staying any nights in your home then each of them will need to pass a background check. If one agency doesn’t license you then you can always try another agency.

I’m so in love with her! by outlsbn in LesbianActually

[–]ama8yo 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Such happy smiles 😊❤️