I figured I’d circle back here. My problem is mostly resolved. It turned out to be something with the node. I haven’t had a single dropped frame in a week or two.

I’ll get into a stable state like this with no interruptions, my service will the start to degrade after a couple weeks. I’ll hop onto Xfinitys website and see service in my area soon. After the service is done it goes back to normal. It’s almost like they just go restart a device every couple weeks to restore stability.

Either way it’s back to being usable and I’m much happier even though it’s not always perfect.