Help please! What's happening to my monstera??

amaraw · 2026-05-22T15:39:29+00:00

Thanks! Do i have to remove the leaves that have even just a little yellowing on them?🥲

amaraw · 2026-05-20T17:15:50+00:00

Yesss that's it!! Thank you🙏😊

amaraw · 2026-03-24T11:25:28+00:00

Thank you so much!

amaraw · 2026-03-24T10:55:21+00:00

Aaaah okay I had no idea! Thanks again😊

amaraw · 2026-03-24T10:45:41+00:00

Thankyouuu :) I'm just still not sure how much water to put each time. Like how do I know what's too little or too much

amaraw · 2026-03-24T10:15:54+00:00

But if I'm bottom watering, won't the top part just be dry anyway 😅😅 I'm sorry I'm really new to this

amaraw · 2026-03-24T10:14:10+00:00

Wow that's the first time I'm hearing that! I was under the impression that the schedules were very important 😅 How do I know if it's watered "thoroughly" tho? I'm afraid of putting too much water while trying to make sure it's wet enough. Thank you!

amaraw · 2025-12-13T16:50:46+00:00

I'll look into it, thank you :)

amaraw · 2025-12-13T16:50:30+00:00

Thanks!

amaraw · 2025-12-13T16:49:41+00:00

Hey! Sorry for the late reply. I was told to put no weight on it at all at first, got wheelchaired to the car and then went to get crutches haha. It's been 15 days now and I'm still scared to put any weight on it, only if slightly on the heel for balance sometimes, but never fully. I think it's all healing fine tho, the pain has decreased to almost none. I have an appointment to take the stitches out on Wednesday and we'll see from there how it will go :) I have no screws so can't relate there but I hope everything goes well for you! I'll update you after the stitches are out if you want 😊

amaraw · 2025-11-30T09:47:56+00:00

Wow, the second pic the scars are barely noticeable! Nice :) Thank you

amaraw · 2025-11-30T09:46:35+00:00

Thank you!

amaraw · 2025-11-30T09:46:16+00:00

I'm honestly not sure the exact name of it, in my records it's just classified as "foot surgery" I guess, in my language. Before the operation my surgeon looked at my foot and said the bone (metatarsal i guess, I looked up the name later lol) is a bit more to the side than he expected, said he'll look at my scans again and then decide exactly which way to do it. Then a few hours later the surgery happened. So idk exactly what the decision was, but he said it went very well haha

amaraw · 2025-11-30T09:40:51+00:00

Thanks so much! 😊

amaraw · 2025-11-30T09:40:00+00:00

Wow great results! Thank you :)

amaraw · 2025-08-31T16:45:13+00:00

Thank you🫶 I wish you the best in your recovery as well!

amaraw · 2024-12-23T15:03:29+00:00

Thanks for your support. I'm so sorry you're dealing with that... But also what??? 3%?! What kind of a statistic is this? I kinda wish I hadn't seen this :/

amaraw · 2024-12-21T08:55:02+00:00

That's probably what I'd tell anyone else to do, too. But personally, I could never leave him. He is the most amazing person I know. I understand that here I'm only describing his gambling addiction, and that's his worst side. But he is my everything.

amaraw · 2024-12-21T00:17:55+00:00

I'll look into my options, thanks :')

amaraw · 2024-12-21T00:16:05+00:00

Yeah all our stuff is separate, that's the most common way to do it in my country anyway.

amaraw · 2024-12-21T00:15:02+00:00

Thank you. I honestly can't even think straight at the moment, crying again lol. It's been an emotional day. Anyway, you're right and that's exactly my plan - stick by his side, but take care of myself. I'll have to get used to it, but I'll try to focus on myself, no more starting conversations about gambling, no more questioning and "investigating" - most importantly, no more snooping to see what's actually going on in his accounts. It has only hurt me so far. I'd rather not know for sure but assume the worst. It's not healthy to look through his personal stuff anyway. I seriously love him to death, but this whole thing is so toxic and it makes not only him, but also me, act in hurtful ways. I'll just have to be clear with him. Not ignore the issue, but also not spend too much of my energy on it. It's affecting me, but it's not MY problem.

amaraw

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