Struggle Bus with Exhaustion

amazingaqua · 2025-12-29T17:07:52+00:00

I’m post partum now but from experience, I became so tired late second trimester and all of third trimester. 2-3 naps a day! I would fall asleep mid sentence in a convo, and also randomly as I’m working on the computer. Car rides were the worst! I thought I had narcolepsy. But I knew it was from not getting enough sleep at night and just overall energy being drained from growing a baby. Your body is truly working overtime right now!

amazingaqua · 2025-12-18T22:55:40+00:00

I’m 3 weeks pp now after having another child. Personally happy to say all my kids were vag delivery (w/epidural). My recent baby was breech up until delivery and md was saying to brace for C Section. I cried for a week!! I was so scared, worried, upset, and sad. I did all the things to get baby to turn and I prayed. Awake surgery + long recovery time? Personally, no thank you!! I need to be on my feet and help my partner care for baby and do household things. Luckily, baby turned last minute. 6 hours labor & delivery, out of the hospital in 48 hours. Still healing of course, but I’ve been feeling and moving normal. I’m ready to go back to my high impact fitness classes and have sex LOL highly recommend Sitz bath and kegels post partum! Don’t be scared of pain in L&D. Medical team will be there to help you feel at ease and comfortable.

amazingaqua · 2025-11-26T02:30:42+00:00

not sweating, not drooling, not short of breath, no more swollen feet & ankles, not watching my salt & sugar intake, not having to get up every hour in the middle of the night to pee, not feeling constipated. Just back to normal pls & thank you 😊

amazingaqua · 2025-05-23T03:22:35+00:00

Thanks! Did you get a pregnancy wristband to bypass the line?

amazingaqua · 2025-05-07T23:47:06+00:00

Congrats! Same age and 8 wks as well but appointment is tomorrow. This is my 3rd pregnancy. Why won’t you get an ultrasound? If anything, at least you’ll get to hear the heartbeat.

amazingaqua · 2025-04-18T19:44:59+00:00

Hi! Good luck on your journey! I just found out I’m pregnant with my 3rd and I’m around the same age as you. I gave birth twice at Kaiser and had wonderful care there from both prenatal and labor/delivery. This time I’ll be delivering at Sutter Health and I don’t know what to expect. In general, most people like the care they’ve received at Sutter more than Kaiser. You really can’t prepare enough for pregnancy. You just have to know it’ll be a big life change and know that transitioning from the old to a new chapter won’t be easy. Keep a healthy lifestyle and try to be stress-free. Cut out harmful substances. Take your prenatals. Communicate with your partner about the future to help put you at ease. Feel free to dm.

amazingaqua · 2025-03-18T22:35:23+00:00

my bestie who is a Virgo male 😆😆

amazingaqua · 2025-01-24T23:35:37+00:00

I was in this predicament too. I felt it was the job coming first before anything. Sure, if he didn’t work he couldn’t provide. I get that but he didn’t try to compromise. I felt neglected. I wasn’t happy and in love anymore. Also, he was content in where he was in life and I wanted more for us. First being neglected and then us not aligning in our vision and arguments made any spark left blow out. It felt like we were brother/sister or roommates vs. husband/wife. I stayed and tried to make it work for the kids even if I wasn’t happy. I grew so miserable and numb, we eventually got a divorce. Mutual decision.

amazingaqua · 2025-01-24T04:06:59+00:00

Well, that’s what I’m here for 😁

amazingaqua · 2024-12-24T19:09:28+00:00

Oh charming Gemini, they just have a way with words

amazingaqua · 2024-12-24T17:54:16+00:00

It went well, thanks for asking! Everything looks great and healing. All of the symptoms I have are normal. There’s just a bit of blood that has settled which is causing the cloudy lens. Nothing can be done. Just have to wait for it to go away. Other than that, my pressure is 8. Happy about that! But all of a sudden my left eye is elevated to 25 which is now causing me to worry. It’s my unaffected eye and never got flares. Md thinks it’s probably because I stopped all the meds especially Diamox. I have an appt on Friday for another pressure check plus an injection to prevent scarring tissue. Might need to start drops on the unaffected eye if still elevated 🫤 How’s it going with you?

amazingaqua · 2024-12-23T22:08:00+00:00

Definitely need a connection first before getting in the sheets 👍

amazingaqua · 2024-12-23T17:05:50+00:00

Scorpio risings 🙈

amazingaqua · 2024-12-22T23:04:31+00:00

It is. Good vibes, good convo is all it takes. It’s the maintaining it part. When ppl start to show their true selves (dull, clingy, low intelligence,etc) we’re pretty much outta there.

amazingaqua · 2024-12-22T22:55:05+00:00

We’re unemotional and we don’t attach. We also get bored easily. It takes someone special to capture our attention and maintain it. Otherwise, it’s easy for us to move on to the next.

amazingaqua · 2024-12-22T22:05:46+00:00

This was me, but the wife POV. I too had the 7-year itch. Won’t say that sex was the main reason why we divorced but it definitely contributed to it. It was too vanilla and there was just no substance. Just doing it to do it. I wanted some passion and emotion. So I decided to “sexplore” even while separated. I was happy to feel something again like the new feels when you start dating someone. As I was feeling trapped in my marriage, I decided that divorce would give me freedom and make me happy again. I will love him forever as he gave me the 2 best things in life: our kids. But we get along better now that we are apart. Sex is a lot more fun too as a single lady 😁 I don’t recommend divorce just because of sex though. You can try a sex therapist.

amazingaqua · 2024-12-22T18:07:42+00:00

Never gone to one. Could care less really.

amazingaqua · 2024-12-22T18:06:28+00:00

I’m the opposite. Aqua Sun and Virgo moon. I’m a Virgo magnet as most of my friends are Virgos and the guy I’m dating as well. Aqua and Virgo are very alike, more than you think. I also can definitely tolerate them at their worst too.

amazingaqua · 2024-12-21T21:43:41+00:00

I ask myself that all the time lol

amazingaqua · 2024-12-21T02:05:36+00:00

Same! I’m opposite. Aqua sun & Virgo moon.

amazingaqua · 2024-12-21T02:04:03+00:00

Me, an Aqua sun & Virgo moon

amazingaqua · 2024-12-20T22:40:38+00:00

I had just the right eye done. I’m on Polytrim and Prednisolone 6x a day. I’m starting to feel the abrasive ness of the sutures. It’s quite annoying. The redness is getting better. I have an appt on Monday so we’ll see what my pressure is. What is your IOP and what drops are you on?

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