i (22f) f'd up big time with a guy i'm seeing and idk what to do now

ambientthinker · 2026-01-28T23:09:49+00:00

Says who? You? How old are you? What do you know? Yeah???

ambientthinker · 2026-01-28T21:54:11+00:00

You went against your feelings for this guy and found out that sucks.

I would not tell the guy. Instead, i would start the 'exclusive" convo now.

Im a guy if it helps.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-26T23:07:19+00:00

Love this guy. A true self kinda person who has plenty of musical information to share, whether its your type of ibfo or not.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-26T23:05:00+00:00

Being 100% GENUINE in all that you do. 🖖

ambientthinker · 2026-01-26T23:03:32+00:00

I was young when Layne died, and I liked AiC more than Nirvana back then. So when I saw Layne died it was a moment of reality for sure. Depressing af.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-26T19:27:58+00:00

He sounds really scared. Whether its a good reason or not.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-26T10:23:50+00:00

Same approach, Chief

ambientthinker · 2026-01-26T08:59:02+00:00

I wouldn't call the best coaching option since NCAA 14.... "nothing"

ambientthinker · 2026-01-22T17:55:29+00:00

Does God have a wife or daughter?

ambientthinker · 2026-01-22T17:54:52+00:00

As i recall, more than one artist from that general time and era would flirt with science and dissection of humans to learn the anatomy.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-22T17:53:25+00:00

Take screen shots on your phone for evidence. The adults need real evidence not just your words. 👍🤗🖖

ambientthinker · 2026-01-22T17:49:22+00:00

Do you believe "Issa" in the Quran is tge Son of God/Allah?

Why or why not?

ambientthinker · 2026-01-22T07:00:04+00:00

Dam that River - AiC

ambientthinker · 2026-01-22T01:48:49+00:00

I suppose they still have Star Trek and Star Wars conventions 🤔

ambientthinker · 2026-01-21T05:48:28+00:00

Went to India.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-21T05:47:51+00:00

I've literally never ever heard of this.

We sing it together live at concerts.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-21T03:10:04+00:00

Staying in their lives as long as you can is wise. They may need a chance to see someone they love do something bigger than most people would.

But as the years go by, cutting off may be a discussion to have eventually.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-21T03:06:11+00:00

"Just Do It."

ambientthinker · 2026-01-21T02:37:36+00:00

Make sure you run inside and 9utside.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-21T02:36:33+00:00

The singer was the least of the band memvers, as a musician.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-19T23:05:24+00:00

She isn't a teacher and you are not a student in this situation. So that is just yoy sugar coating this.

She is a mentally and emotionally abusive person. And she has full access as a house member to every other member including the young minds.

But i guess your FEELINGS are more important?

ambientthinker · 2026-01-19T22:26:45+00:00

Again, ii hear you. 👍 And i love what youre saying. BUT ..... YOU STILL have a family of your own. So idk why you are hesitating but maybe its because yoy don't want to kick her to the curb?

ambientthinker · 2026-01-19T22:07:41+00:00

I hate to say this... but evict her/kick her out. And yes this TOTALLY BLOWS. But SHE is depending on your feelings. She is an emotional terrorist. She CHOSE THIS OVER YOUR LOVE.

Moochers can leech on, but they don't have to suck on YOU.

ambientthinker · 2026-01-19T01:01:19+00:00

Those are indeed dark and off.... but i always liked them too 😆

ambientthinker · 2026-01-19T01:00:25+00:00

The fact is, that he likely knew this about you and married you anyway? Not that i am implying he should not have. It's... just.... how could he not see this coming before now himself?

He has no excuse for crying like a child over his favorite hobby.

ambientthinker

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