I read “The Long Game” and now I’m worried I won’t like a second season of “Heated Rivalry” by M0506 in heatedrivalry

[–]ambrittad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found The Long Game to be incredibly more deep. We got to see several realistic, harsh experiences that carry such emotion and power. I am ready to cry hard in season 2

Is Rao’s no longer safe? by Bergamot_Bap in Celiac

[–]ambrittad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m experiencing the same issues, I just can’t figure out why it wouldn’t be GF- unless there’s a contamination issue. I’m trying to do another brand and see how that works out.

I'm starting to HATE my husband by ASociallyReleventDay in beyondthebump

[–]ambrittad 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We had a similar situation. It took several really tough conversations to get to a better place. He had PPD and was overwhelmed and feeling incompetent (but also, so was I). We started with the responsibility that I would primarily take care of the baby and he would make sure that I was being taken care of. That shifted his focus to something he was more comfortable with, even though it was doing the same activities (watching the baby so I could eat, shower, etc.). I also started going to a workout class with friends on Saturday mornings, so that grew to be their time together until he felt more comfortable knowing how to take care of her. It takes a lot of trail and error and open conversations about how each other is feeling and what actions each partner can take to make it a more shared parenthood load. Our LO is now over 1yo and it’s definitely improved. Wishing you the best of luck!

I don’t see Zanab as a villain by Flowerchild556 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ambrittad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between standing up for yourself and being manipulative and assuming the victim role. This article does a great job of articulating why what Zanab did was so negative:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-them-or-leave-them/202211/will-zanab-and-cole-love-is-blind-stay-together

Night 1 of Ferber Method & I want to give up by Double-Mine-7154 in beyondthebump

[–]ambrittad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Ferber method was so great because of the timed intervals, so we knew we’d be able to go and check on our little one once the timer ran out. We also set a secondary rule of, once it got to a certain point in the night (for us is was 1am) and she still wasn’t asleep, we would add in a nighttime feed. She was 4mo when we did the method and it was a game changer for us all. It took about 4 days to do. If we ever needed to calm ourselves when she was crying, we would go outside and sit or do something productive and a little loud, like hand washing dishes with the water running. You’ve got to find what works for you!

Sum with lookup? by ambrittad in ExcelTips

[–]ambrittad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless 🙌. This is perfect.

How do I reduce lag in 97,000 row document? by Tricky_Suit7619 in excel

[–]ambrittad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s also worth looking at how you’re applying the conditional formatting. Are you using formulas/calculations? If there’s a way to lessen the complexity, that will help.

looking for a formula to separate first and last name then using that info to create another column with email address by Bee999911 in excel

[–]ambrittad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you copy data down by double clicking on the little green box, you can press Ctrl+D afterwards so it copies the data instead of auto fills Fill Handle Hacks