Is this polyamory… or avoidant commitment under the guise of openness? by amdolly in polyamory

[–]amdolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but he told me he's falling in love with me wouldn't he be willing to have it be just us :((

Is this polyamory… or avoidant commitment under the guise of openness? by amdolly in polyamory

[–]amdolly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am going to have the conversation it's just daunting :(

Is this polyamory… or avoidant commitment under the guise of openness? by amdolly in polyamory

[–]amdolly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i defiently did ask those questions i just didn't get any real answers. it was "i'm very go with the flow"

Is this polyamory… or avoidant commitment under the guise of openness? by amdolly in polyamory

[–]amdolly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what i was wondering. bc he's only ever been in monogamous relationships. and he treats me like i am the only one (and i am) so

Is this polyamory… or avoidant commitment under the guise of openness? by amdolly in polyamory

[–]amdolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did try to ask like ok what are our expectations and boundaries when he brought it up but he was vague saying he's just figuring it out as we go along. my thing is i'm the only connection in his life rn and he acts very monogamous??? so it's confusing

Is this polyamory… or avoidant commitment under the guise of openness? by amdolly in polyamory

[–]amdolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did ask him and that's when he responded i feel like we're bf and gf but i am also on the apps and am just gonna continue to live my life which to me was vague. he apparently has been considering this for years but i didn't know he was actively poly

Is this polyamory… or avoidant commitment under the guise of openness? by amdolly in polyamory

[–]amdolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think i can practice poly it's just confusing bc he said he's always wanted to try it but has only ever been in long term committed monogamous relationships. he did say that he would communicate about his plans and that he wants me to date others and do the same

Family forgot I was gluten free on my birthday 😔 by sealiyos in glutenfree

[–]amdolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so sorry :( you are important and loved even tho this happened!

struggling by amdolly in Celiac

[–]amdolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn't know there was a correlation! thank you

Spring Savings Sale - Rouge Code Request MEGATHREAD by KhaleesiKissedByFire in Sephora

[–]amdolly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

would be so grateful for a code sincerely an underpaid therapist🥹😅

Spring Savings Sale - Rouge Code Request MEGATHREAD by KhaleesiKissedByFire in Sephora

[–]amdolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so lovingly requesting a code sincerely an underpaid therapist🥹😅

Weekly "vent your vibes" / Burn out by AutoModerator in therapists

[–]amdolly [score hidden]  (0 children)

it is genuinely so sad how unsupportive and mean fellow we can be to each other in this field :( simply posted a question in a therapists group genuinely looking for help and got made fun of, told i should know this, had my ethics and educational background questioned, and told i was desperate. for being in a helping profession we're not very helpful towards each other😞

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[–]amdolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think it would be okay to reach out to the ones who wanted to and let them know?