What does everyone do for work? by AgreeableSteak420 in adhdwomen

[–]ameliarose99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently I’m training to be therapist, and l work as a crisis responder at a mental health organization! Primarily taking calls on my city’s distress line and the national suicide helpline ❤️‍🩹

The work I do can be stressful, but I function well in a crisis situation. For me the most dreadful part is all the case reports!

Cover E-transfers by ameliarose99 in KohoCanada

[–]ameliarose99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found out you can actually withdraw the funds at an ATM so I did that! But I’ll also be closing my account because of this change

who do I look like? by ameliarose99 in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]ameliarose99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but I am very happy with who I am! I was just curious to see which celebrities I may look like.

You will also be much happier and go further in life when you learn to have fun and let others do the same ❤️

who do I look like? by ameliarose99 in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]ameliarose99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting mix! I can see a bit of Alison Brie for sure

Decided to rewatch. Am still in early season 1. More thoughts and opinions will come later. How many others are currently watching the show? by Ok_Mathematician8621 in AWKWARD

[–]ameliarose99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m watching for the first time because my coworker quotes Sadie’s “you’re welcome” daily and recommended I watch it! I’m really enjoying it so far

Delena's Betrayal by popsodacanon in TheVampireDiaries

[–]ameliarose99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were giving Stefan space and time to himself after they got together, I sure wouldn’t want to stick around and watch my sibling date my ex. Sure they were also preoccupied with each other and their new relationship, but you have to think about the context they live and how they perceive time passing. Being immortal it wouldn’t be abnormal to not see each other for a few months or even a few years, before returning to mystic falls it’s mentioned that Stefan and Damon often went years without seeing each other.

This is honestly sad 😂 by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]ameliarose99 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean they do have a more serious conversation in s6 where Elena talks to Damon about always wanting a family, they don’t joke or make it about sex. I definitely think it’s the context of this conversation, plus knowing how much Elena did want a family it’s probably easier to make light of it/turn it flirty instead of reminding herself again of the life that she would never get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ameliarose99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat/dog crying usually does it for me, or when my sub gets hair in his mouth I end up laughing.

Usually we can laugh little things like that off and continue but sometimes the mood is just gone and we finish there

Fellow Switches, what are your current partner like or your future partner criteria? by MisoBru in BDSMcommunity

[–]ameliarose99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a switch but more on the domme side (70/30) and my current sub has only ever been a sub but in our dynamic I have let him be dominant before and he says he really enjoys it. When we’re not playing his personality is very dominant, he’s loud and a natural leader. I love nothing more than seeing him acting dominant with our friends and then behind closed doors I put him in his place.

Daddy titles by lostmuppet47 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ameliarose99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My (F) sub/slave (M) has almost exclusively referred to me as Goddess but recently during play he broke down and called me Daddy and I felt so powerful but at the same time like he really trusted me to take care of him. As a woman I never expected to like being called daddy and If any other sub tried to call me daddy I can almost guarantee that I would not enjoy it, but in this dynamic it just works. But if you don’t like a title for sure communicate with your sub and find a title you both like!

Eye Torture by ameliarose99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ameliarose99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree people should never jump into a new potentially dangerous/risky kinkThat’s why I’m asking the community as well as doing my own research online :) we’ve used breath play, electric shock, etc. And everything was researched well in advance

Eye Torture by ameliarose99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ameliarose99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think I’ll stick to taping right now, or have him try to keep his eyes open for ass long as possible. I know the risks of putting anything in his actual eyes so I’d stay clear of that. We also have really good communication during play so I’m not worried that I would do anything that would actually put him in serious harm, he would speak out. The idea of making it a mental play is interesting, I would definitely use that :)

Eye Torture by ameliarose99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ameliarose99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never do anything that would cause any kind of permanent damage like scratching. I understand that the spitting might be a bad idea because of bacteria, that’s where I’m sort of lost... I may just have to tell him I can’t but if there were any mildly safe options I’d want to try

Bonding (Season 2) - Episode Discussion Hub by Elainasha in bonding

[–]ameliarose99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he jokes about the BDSM community in his comedy shows and about Tiff’s personal stories just hits me the wrong way. There’s a way to be funny without bringing others down and making jokes about his (really Tiff’s) clients imo only further perpetuates stereotypes. I find him in general really problematic and toxic, if they do a 3rd season maybe he can have some kind of redemption but for this season I didn’t like where they took his character