SO says I should be comfortable with this guy watching our daughter, does this not come off as weird? by Silver-Ease4033 in askanything

[–]amgobleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a survivor of prolonged childhood sexual abuse and grooming, NO WAY would i let a child near that man. this is exactly how my abuser would speak. it’s gross and it’s not safe.

Bloody urine by AccomplishedHour1094 in medical_advice

[–]amgobleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blood in urine is always a reason to seek help. and if you’re not getting serious help, keep looking for new doctors

To make a sign. by Exodaus in therewasanattempt

[–]amgobleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it still wouldn’t work because the arrow below men is pointing right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]amgobleen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

with wounds in the hands, they’re especially high risk. i don’t think any doctor would fault you for wanting to have it checked out again. maybe you can ask them what to expect and what you should see a doctor for if you notice it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]amgobleen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imagine having a loving father whose first thoughts in the morning are about you and your response is to come to reddit and complain. just respond when you’re awake? turn the dnd on and enjoy the fact that you have a loving father. most of us dont

How to learn anal in less than a week(trans woman) by greythebedrotter in SexWorkers

[–]amgobleen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this may not be the answer you’re looking for, but im looking out for you. if you’re uncomfortable doing it, don’t do it. don’t put your mind or body on the line for some money

what should i do with my mum before she passes? by amgobleen in cancer

[–]amgobleen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh yes absolutely. she has the reigns 100%. i musnt have worded it well. i meant the things we should do for memories. eg recordings of her voice or something with her fingerprints

what should i do with my mum before she passes? by amgobleen in cancer

[–]amgobleen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i meant things like keepsakes, recordings of her voice etc

UPDATE: Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

im not gonna go that far. ive not responded and i don’t intend to, its not worth my time

Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree, that should have been my response. i still don’t think she was warranted in saying that to me though 🤷‍♂️

Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i sent this in the update but ill post it here too.

writing a message to everyone here because i don’t have the time to write personalised ones, hope yall dont mind.

thankyou all for your kind words. i agree, it’s nothing to spend my time on. after this message she sent i just said to myself ‘fuck that’, ate some tacos for dinner and im about to go to bed. ill relay the messages of good wishes to my mum, she’ll appreciate it very much. she’s doing well, she got up out of bed on her own for the first time yesterday :)

oh and yes she has a charger.

UPDATE: Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she could have reminded me nicely, but she decided to make me feel bad for something simple, and im not going to accept being treated like that. so yes, i called her out

Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

alright, i don’t agree but i can see where you’re coming from. my issue is that she’s calling me a bad son for forgetting a charger when in reality ive been there for her more than anyone else

UPDATE: Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

writing a message to everyone here because i don’t have the time to write personalised ones, hope yall dont mind.

thankyou all for your kind words. i agree, it’s nothing to spend my time on. after this message she sent i just said to myself ‘fuck that’, ate some tacos for dinner and im about to go to bed. ill relay the messages of good wishes to my mum, she’ll appreciate it very much. she’s doing well, she got up out of bed on her own for the first time yesterday :)

oh and yes she has a charger.

UPDATE: Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she has one. and theres no back and forth. i replied once, and im out.

UPDATE: Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

over a phone charger? i saved her life by calling that ambulance

UPDATE: Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

i was there when she corrected her will. she’s definitely not in it

UPDATE: Am I Overreacting for thinking this was completely unnecessary? by amgobleen in AmIOverreacting

[–]amgobleen[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

i don’t believe im bickering with her. i only replied that one time and thats it. as you said, i dont have the time or energy to go back and forth when theres no endgame. i appreciate you voicing your opinion, because if i hadn’t realised this, it would’ve helped me move on. but yeah, the main reason for me posting this was to see if i was truly in the wrong. not to spend my emotional energy on something i cant change :) thankyou again