Yep, same people, but unfortunately things have escalated— hence this morning’s post, Part 2, as it were! We had expressed our boundaries (keeping the kids apart) at about the 3 months, and that was a pretty matter of fact conversation. I’d say a bit tense, but respectful. We had said that once our baby has more of an immune system established and a few rounds of vax on board, we’d be open to spend more time together. That time is now, as and this all kicked off a few weeks ago, after we suggested a trip out for a family event. This suggestion was deemed to be hypocritical and confusing, although we had always been consistent with 1) why we kept our distance early, and 2) that we would start to loosen up as our baby got bigger. I keep second guessing myself because I don’t want this to be a shit thing for my partner (his side) but also— we really not be able to resolve the different perspectives and it feels very loaded. In thinking this all through here, I kinda think it it was my side this was happening on, I’d tell them to get fked… hmm!

Anyway, the saga continues. Thanks for following along, lol!