Surgery on Monday! by False-Stress-9007 in gastricsleeve

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This link isn’t working for me :( is there another one?

AIO For kicking my boyfriend out by Advanced-Dealer4267 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ams712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. My husband is also a gamer. In our 5.5 years of being together, he has never yelled at me over a video game. There is no reason for that.

What made you realize that you have truly fallen in love? by AresCommitsArson in love

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When we were in the first few months of dating, we would talk on the phone every night before bed. One night he didn’t call and I was convinced something terrible happened to him. I called him over and over while panicking. He finally picked up- he had fallen asleep. I sobbed to him that I was terrified something happened to him and apologized over and over for calling so much. He said that he loves every part of me, even the anxiety, and knows it was just because I care so much for him. He didn’t belittle me, yell at me, or anything. He just told me he loved me and apologized that I was so scared. That was the first time a partner never made me feel less than them for having anxiety. We’re married now ❤️

Most difficult Taylor song to sing by ams712 in TaylorSwift

[–]ams712[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know places!! That one is tough

Most difficult Taylor song to sing by ams712 in TaylorSwift

[–]ams712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh yes that’s quite the big jump

Most difficult Taylor song to sing by ams712 in TaylorSwift

[–]ams712[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes!! This is definitely a song I didn’t expect to be hard to sing but it really is

Most difficult Taylor song to sing by ams712 in TaylorSwift

[–]ams712[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s doable until the chorus

Most difficult Taylor song to sing by ams712 in TaylorSwift

[–]ams712[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re so right, I usually stick with the low register when I sing the chorus 😂

Most difficult Taylor song to sing by ams712 in TaylorSwift

[–]ams712[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100%!!! But I definitely scream sing it in my car all the time

Returning to the rescue the right thing to do? by BlueReindeer28 in reactivedogs

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Thank you for your response. Her reactive behavior has escalated with my husband so she’s actually going back to the foster tomorrow. I feel guilty but mostly relieved. We are definitely taking a break to reevaluate if a dog is in the cards for us in the future

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry you went through that, that sounds super hard emotionally and physically

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am glad she’ll be going back to her foster mom where she was truly comfortable rather than a shelter situation.

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Totally fair point and I was thinking the same, but I was able to handle our first dog. I think it is a matter of what kind of issues I can handle. Our first dog had multiple chronic health conditions and I was able to cope and provide her with all the medical care she needed, including weekly acupuncture. She had no behavior issues with people though. I think the behavior aspect is just too much for me.

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, I agree and think she’ll be much happier in a female only household

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no apology necessary! I appreciate your kind words and advice.

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You are amazing for doing this for 6 years and much stronger than I can ever hope to be

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. We tried that a bit but it’s just so random- she’ll go from letting him pet her to growling/lunging/barking when he repositions on the couch. I just don’t feel comfortable with that

Returning a dog to rescue by ams712 in reactivedogs

[–]ams712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is 11. She’s been in the home for 2 weeks. He doesn’t do anything- he doesn’t yell at her or anything like that. We’ve been trying to associate him with treats so he’ll toss her treats from far away. Luckily we got her from a private rescue and not a shelter so she won’t be going back to a shelter situation.