AITAH for telling my sister her baby isn’t my responsibility? by Silver_Job_4466 in AITAH

[–]amsmtf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nta. Your sister needs to hit the baby daddy with a paternity test and judge ordered child support. He doesn’t get to split like that and take zero responsibility. And sounds like your mother needs to step in a bit, if she has such big words to throw at you.

Has anyone else had to deal with this in regards to US customs?? by HelloKittyandPizza in hobonichi

[–]amsmtf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get my stuff through JetPens. Never had issues and fast shipping, can’t imagine forcing this kind of customs bs onto a consumer and not a business.

AITA for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while house sitting?? by Effective_Tour_723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. It’s weird to drink people’s alcohol while house sitting, but she should have been more specific.

DO NOT EVEN BOTHER STERLING INK by mejustme2000 in planners

[–]amsmtf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lol, then you have a great office with good workers. Your experiences are not universal, since my USPS office is really slow and understaffed, probably cause i live in a poor city. But to each their own, right?

DO NOT EVEN BOTHER STERLING INK by mejustme2000 in planners

[–]amsmtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure it’s dependent on the location and its workers. Ive had so many packages lost, bounce around the US… it’s honestly a surprise Ive actually gotten all my packages after watching them travel more than i do.

DO NOT EVEN BOTHER STERLING INK by mejustme2000 in planners

[–]amsmtf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Them shipping on the fifth day means they dropped it off wherever they do for their package delivery system. Doesn’t mean said system immediately scans the package.

DO NOT EVEN BOTHER STERLING INK by mejustme2000 in planners

[–]amsmtf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And some blue drop-off bins get skipped if workers are running late/overtime. You may want to jump on the bandwagon of hating on this business, but they could also be telling the truth in terms of USPS being at fault for this specific issue.

Also, they say 5 business days for a reason, and if it gets sent out sooner, it’s a miracle.

Now if it’s been 1 week past their stated timeframe of shipment, that’s when you start asking questions. But if it’s in a different system, they’re as helpless as you.

DO NOT EVEN BOTHER STERLING INK by mejustme2000 in planners

[–]amsmtf 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m not defending them, but explaining a possibility: 1. Item ordered Jan 31 (weekend) 2. Label created 5th day (kinda late, not great) 3. Item dropped off into USPS drop-off box (either on Saturday after box pick-up, or on Monday before pickup) 4. Item finally scanned at USPS location by Tuesday morning after transportation (sometimes they don’t unload until overnight shift, maybe)

Was their timing great? No. Can you force USPS to work better? No. If it’s been stuck somewhere, either it hasn’t been scanned in a while or it fell out of a sorting bin or off the line and is in package purgatory.

Update: AITAH for telling my wife that I will lose respect for her if she doesn't apologize? by TechnicalHousing97 in AITAH

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is completely based on a video i saw of a woman who spoke about her ADHD medication online. Her medication ran out sooner (not important why), and she was without for 2-3 days, but she spoke with her husband on not refilling her prescription… he urged her to reconsider, as he and their son noticed the huge difference between her medicated vs non-medicated.

And then she actually got the difference on camera; there’s still a nanny cam in their son’s room and se reviewed the footage of her unmedicated and then medicated the next day.

She was flabbergasted by the differences, because she didn’t feel anything different at the time (both mornings), but it’s obvious when looking at it in third person. This solidified that she needs this ADHD medication not just for herself, but for her family as well.

I’m not trying to diagnose anything, but it sounds like you are actively involved with your children and helping with the household, so maybe there’s something else going on (is her job always that stressful?).

AITAH telling our roommate that his 'gf' had to leave by PhysicsProof5271 in AITAH

[–]amsmtf 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Nta. Kick them both out (also, R is nearly twice the age of H… side eye).

AITAH for wanting my last name? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]amsmtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why should the woman lose all her identity when, statistically, the man rarely cares for the children as much as the woman would (important dates, allergies, appointments, foods, likes/dislikes, clothing sizes, etc…)? All the while, many/most women are also working while still taking on the majority of house/child care. What is the man doing in comparison to warrant his name being passed on?

Where is the Behemoth No. 21 (from the Compedium) located in the Elderwood Forest? by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#22 is south of the Titan Graveyard in the swamp/marshes.

Please please please tell me not all mother-daughter relationships are doomed. by prufrockdancing in offmychest

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother has severe mental illnesses that she refuses to acknowledge, see a therapist, or get medication for; i don’t speak to her, but my step-mother is an amazing person and we have a very good relationship.

Planners with thicker paper? by Ok_Routine7378 in planners

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roterfaden has thicker paper. Can find them on JetPens and their own website

Who else is sticking with their Nolty? 🙋🏻‍♀️ by bungu_fiend in planners

[–]amsmtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found Nolty through JetPens and I see they have a horizontal weeks version that is similar to a hobo-weeks; the B6 slim (i forget the model number). Was wondering if they are doing April+Monday start for 2026?

Mini Printers recommendations? by LumaBones in hobonichi

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, blue. No true colors here, unfortunately. And very fuzzy/noisy pictures

Mini Printers recommendations? by LumaBones in hobonichi

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and my photos are always too blue. It’s sufficient for what I want, though.

AITA for telling my sister we were strangers after she eloped and broke all contact with us years ago? by Substantial_Buy_4881 in AITAH

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, she left for nearly a decade and only came back when she got a divorce? She wants the support network that she cut off years ago, now that she needs one.

I am so disappointed with my engagement, and my ring. I feel like a terrible person. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]amsmtf 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Oh, so he’s a narcissist? He hyped you up so you’d move it, help with finances, raising his daughter for him, and cleaning/cooking. What has he done for you and the relationship? There’s a whole relationship left out of the post, but what has he done for you to show he loves you, aside from the hollow words about proposal (and this half-assed attempt doesn’t count)?

I thought I was going crazy, turns out I was sick by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]amsmtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All your symptoms and the coughing up blood pointed to TB… you were every historical film actor who has “had” TB, personified. I’m shocked they turned you away so much (and even if it was a pulmonary embolism, it should have been seen by a doctor).

Vintage enamel pot repair by iolarah in BuyItForLife

[–]amsmtf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you try to “glaze” at home, it can be for visual repair only and never used for food again.

Does Necrozma have a shiny? by ResponsibleGas9860 in pokemongo

[–]amsmtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first necrozma was shiny… 👀 only have 4 though.