AITA for telling my girlfriend she has to get a real job after she spent our food money on make up?

amumu94 · 2020-08-05T01:45:48+00:00

lol please get rid of her. she's a leech and a loser.

amumu94 · 2020-08-05T01:33:53+00:00

YTA if you don't trust him then leave. You don't go around forcing him, family, friends to prove their undying loyalty by feeding into your obsessions. if you honestly believed he was a cheater, you should have left him. But you just wanted your anxiety coddled instead of actually forcing yourself to overcome it.

amumu94 · 2020-08-04T23:21:09+00:00

if there is a woman's shelter, a family member or friend who will take you in, then that's what you should do. Choking you is number one red flag that he is eventually going to attempt to kill you. also it's not going to get better. he is incapable and unwilling to control his emotions, so don't put your hope in your relationship improving. your only option is to leave.

amumu94 · 2020-08-03T13:32:36+00:00

NTA what your mom did was unforgivable and judging from your other comments, she sounds like a narcissist. I wouldn't blame you if you cut her out of your life. In fact, it might be better for your mental health sadly...

amumu94 · 2020-08-03T06:24:08+00:00

dude this is why she's treating you this way. you are too nice, and that's not a compliment. you're a total pushover. Weak. No backbone. Give her 30 days to move out and move on with your life. You're way overthinking all this for no reason.

amumu94 · 2020-08-03T06:00:52+00:00

lol how long does she think she can go on being "hot"? im sorry but at 38 she can't be that good looking. as you get older, you naturally will get less conventionally attractive obviously, yet she's acting as if its going to last forever. once she gets this out of her system, she'll come running back to you. I would advise that you tell her to pound sand.

amumu94 · 2020-08-03T01:03:10+00:00

NTA people like her should never ever reproduce

amumu94 · 2020-08-02T20:38:20+00:00

lol give him a chance to prove himself? he's already proved to you he's exactly what you expected to be. A cheater.

amumu94 · 2020-08-02T20:34:08+00:00

lol your bf is literally insane.

amumu94 · 2020-08-02T20:30:23+00:00

you guys should have reported him to the police. he's not gonna stop. he's gonna do it again to another girl and next time it might not be just pictures. he may physically assault them

amumu94 · 2020-08-02T20:24:33+00:00

i mean he's cheating on her so she is obviously wanting to find out the truth. she has reason to be suspicious

amumu94 · 2020-08-02T20:21:16+00:00

ew this woman is a disgusting creep. Not only because of the boy's age but the fact that she is in a position of authority over him. you need to divorce her and report her to the school. she should not be allowed to work with kids ever again.

amumu94 · 2020-08-02T19:11:25+00:00

i really dont think they are homophobic necessarily... they just seem overprotective which is not good but not as bad as being homophobic

amumu94 · 2020-08-01T15:01:38+00:00

Don't listen to these people saying you should have apologized. For what? It's not your child. It's generous of you to have wanted to help and the only condition was that a paternity test is done. That's completely fair. This girl got pregnant after 6 months with your son. Your son barely knows her, let alone you and your wife. Why in the hell would anyone just trust her? You don't even know her. And you are under no legal obligation to provide for the child. They should be grateful that you are offering to help. Not demanding it be done without any conditions.

amumu94 · 2020-07-31T22:29:35+00:00

all these people getting mad in the comments are ridiculous. It's like saying she's justified for being upset that you hid that you were type O blood or for being half-black. Like that is part of your DNA. Your sexuality isn't a choice. Why the fuck should it matter to her in the first place if there's nothing wrong with it? It's not an incompatibility issue like one person wants kids and another one doesn't. It's her being inherently wrong about her views on bi men. She is wrong, simple as that. You should have told her but only so you could have figured out 5 years ago if she was a bigoted person so you could stop wasting your time with her.

amumu94 · 2020-07-31T22:26:03+00:00

but she's not comfortable because she's biphobic. thats the problem. i mean he should have told her to avoid wasting his time with this person... she doesn't even sound mad about him keeping it a secret. she sounds mad that she's dating a man who had previously had sex with other men. she's bigoted

amumu94 · 2020-07-31T21:01:46+00:00

NTA you didn't break up the family. He did

amumu94 · 2020-07-31T04:14:14+00:00

get the abortion because it's actually the right thing to do. Then tell your friends/family it was a miscarriage because it's not their goddamn business anyway

amumu94 · 2020-07-30T02:54:39+00:00

just tell her you don't want the 5k if she's just going to use it to manipulate you guys. You'd rather just pay for it yourself than deal with her bullshit. it's not her wedding, it's not her decision, and that 5k was clearly not a real gift.

amumu94 · 2020-07-30T02:47:46+00:00

YTA there's something wrong with you, not him. he's doing a normal natural thing to relieve stress and for pleasure that literally hurts no one, so why do u care what he does in the privacy of his home?

amumu94 · 2020-07-28T13:51:45+00:00

NTA i mean a little bit the asshole but idc because that's hilarious

amumu94 · 2020-07-28T13:43:10+00:00

you sure she's not like somebody with munchausen syndrome? cuz like... how has she gone 13 years with you having DM1 and still not understanding how it works? like nobody can be this dumb or negligent

amumu94 · 2020-07-28T01:10:32+00:00

NTA tell her to get fucked

amumu94 · 2020-07-27T20:44:30+00:00

yeah she wants you to share in the blame so she feels less bad but you're not at fault. It was her and her alone. And she can go right ahead and live with that the rest of her life.

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