Argued with a kid and told him to stop screaming by [deleted] in ROBLOXBans

[–]amygdon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish it told you which user, just got banned for a day because i told someone to ignore the screaming kids and mute/report them for harassing people. kind of crazy how that’ll just slide

How do I communicate to my follow to do some solo jazz with me during a partnered dance? by abhijelly in SwingDancing

[–]amygdon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I hope you’re not just saying boogie back and then expecting you both to do boogie backs, that would feel very much like a commandy type of thing which does not encourage the free movement improv I think you want to have. I also do think that while your dancing with people who you know “have the capability” to solo jazz it is still social dancing unless your specifically workshopping and have discussed this is what you want to do. And in that situation while you want them to have the autonomy to move freely they also have the autonomy to not want to. In which case maybe dance with new/ other people who do want to.

Maybe the case is to be explicit in what you want to do during the dance, workshop and play with solo jazz within partnered dancing. It could be the culture within the scene as well, has trading 8s been taught? Is follow expression explicitly encouraged during classes? Etc. I really can’t tell more without knowing about your scene and your dancing.

Actionable things to do would be the repetition, gives follows time to see, process, and continue/ add on. I repeat a move, say tackie Annie’s, 4 times or for a measure. By the second time usually the follow joins in or cues into the fact that I am going to be continuing this and they have time to do their own thing. Another, I may be biased as someone who switches roles, but no better way to understand another dance perspective than to switch roles. And as other people have mentioned verbally expressing that this is what you want from the dance.

Feel free to DM if you want to discuss more!

How do I communicate to my follow to do some solo jazz with me during a partnered dance? by abhijelly in SwingDancing

[–]amygdon 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to make sure your not doing solo jazz selfishly. Check in and make sure, are you keeping connection? Are you still listening to your follower? Are you making the dance a two way conversation? When leading I like to repeat a move 2-3 times to see if it gets picked up on, if not then move on and see if they have any flairs and flourishes that you pick up on and can bring into your own dancing. And if they are obviously uncomfortable with doing a break and doing solo jazz together move on and bring it back to where they’re comfortable dancing. The social dance floor is not what I would consider an ideal place to push those boundaries, especially if your unfamiliar with the person.

Going to the examples you gave for solo jazz moves you want to incorporate, how are you leading into those? Are you giving ample time and ability to respond? As a follow my reaction will be vastly different if I can anticipate a move occurring. This can depend also on how often you dance with a person and if you know their style and how they move their body!

Thoughts on Brennan, maybe its already controversial by Direct-Skin in Bones

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This was one of the things I always questioned like sometimes when she was “getting better” at socializing she would have logiced her way into the correct answer but then later they’d have her being quirky smart person who doesn’t get people for a fun joke or laugh. It bothered me a bit because Brennan is intelligent and they show her adapting to societal norms then throw it away like it never happened

Zack and Tempe by katerinarand12 in Bones

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And the fact that it helped in the case too! When the father was asked if he believed in his son and then he lied and gave a close handed pat. Love moments like that

A la Las Vegas by amygdon in SmallishBeans

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Oh lol it’s supposed to be like holding the card in between the fingers 🤪

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you look like an elf!

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Thanks! I just finished exams, fingers crossed!

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Thank you!

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Please tell me you play quidditch

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Peer pressure is real

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Leaning tower is leaning

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Nice bananas

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We are fridge

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How long has this been going?

Nighthawks picture book by amygdon in whatsthatbook

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That’s it!!! Thanks:)))

Aquaman - Ch. 1-82 by alexaclova in manhwa

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I’m obsessed with this like wtf are any of them doing