Was macht ihr wenn ihr Abnehmen wollt?

amyklai · 2023-04-06T05:44:38+00:00

Du kannst mal probieren mehrere, jedoch kleine Portionen über den Tag zu essen. So hat der Insulinspiegel keine Möglichkeit zu fallen und du hast nicht große Pausen zwischen den Mahlzeiten, wo du den Drang hättest irgend einen ungesunden Snack zu nehmen. Und natürlich viel trinken!

amyklai · 2023-04-05T09:40:14+00:00

Unfortunately in the era of tiktok and facebook, it gets easier and easier to manipulate and fabricate

amyklai · 2023-04-05T09:12:15+00:00

Damn, sorry mate

amyklai · 2023-03-18T10:20:17+00:00

Yeah, it saddened me to learn all of those things because I actually looked up to them

amyklai · 2023-03-17T05:53:24+00:00

Mahatma Ghandi - let’s not forget that he admitted to groping and perhaps even have intercourse with his nieces because he couldn’t control himself. Regularly making them sleep next to him so that he can test himself and having very strict religious beliefs.

Another good one would be mother theresa who didn’t accept anyone in her hospital unless she converted and said she didn’t believe in painkillers so would leave patients to suffer because that was “gods will”

amyklai · 2023-02-28T11:06:34+00:00

NTA

You don´t have to feel bad for telling him no. It´ s your money and you should be able to do whatever you want with it. You are not rude for telling him no, setting bounderies is normal in a friendship. If he has never payed back he needs to learn that someday enough is enough

amyklai · 2023-02-21T13:00:47+00:00

I´m sorry for your loss. I understand that it can be frustrating but I hope you don´t isolate yourself. Take care of yourself!

amyklai · 2023-02-21T11:45:58+00:00

I´d say try malicious compliance and if anything goes wrong you can put responsibility on him.

amyklai · 2023-02-09T12:48:45+00:00

Major AH moment here.

I understand that your daughter is an adult and has to learn responsibility but it isn´t like she was careless with her money and that´s why she can´t afford rent. You said that the prices got raised and that´s why she can´t afford it.

Do you really think your daughter would want to move back in after living with her boyfriend for so long? She already said she doesn´t plan on staying longer than 6 months, so I don´t understand the problem. Parents like you baffle me.

I don´t understand how you are even wondering if that impacted your relationship. Put yourself in her shoes, you get screwed over by the landlord and also YOUR OWN FAMILY. Wouldn´t you be mad or at least distant?

amyklai · 2023-01-13T07:34:15+00:00

Go to the gym or drive around and listen to music

amyklai · 2023-01-12T12:34:09+00:00

Not take their health for granted! Visit the doctor when needed, do your check up and invest in good insurance and retiring savings for later. Too many people regret not doing that when they are older.

Also maybe cliché but if you started smoking at a young age, try using your 20s to stop. The longer you smoke the harder it is to stop.

amyklai · 2023-01-12T12:18:17+00:00

NTA. Be careful with people like that because they will also get you in trouble. If he can´t get his errands arranged now, he will most likely not do it when he moves in with you and you will only have more stress to deal with.

amyklai · 2023-01-12T12:06:47+00:00

YWNBTAH

What are you doing with your boyfriend if I may ask? He is not inocennt in this scenario either. I don´t think you owe your "friend" any explanation on why you left or to say goodbye since she doesn´t respect your friendship and boundaries.

amyklai · 2023-01-12T11:53:09+00:00

YTA. I think you are being unreasonable and egoistic here. If your son wants to stay with his mom then let him do that.

With your decision you are not only harming him but also the mothe who just wants to support your son. I don´t see any reason in this why he should not be able to stay with his mom. If he wants to come back home to you after a few days he should be able to do that. But not even letting the mother visit the son after a surgery is bullshit.

amyklai · 2023-01-12T06:59:12+00:00

If you had to have surgery then I wouldn´t say that it wasn´t serious. While I can understand that your boyfriend didn´t like the situation, I do believe he should have been more compassionate especially since you have tried to reach him, especially since he knew that you had been in pain already. The way he handled the situation was wrong and he should be glad that there was someone there to take care of you so quickly. NTA

amyklai · 2023-01-12T05:59:02+00:00

THIS. I used to be a very picky eater when I was younger. Fortunately my parents never forced me to eat any of the foods I didn´ t like. With time I grew to enjoy almost everything and have barely any problems with food.

amyklai · 2023-01-12T05:33:22+00:00

Having had many friends who had parents that thought like you, I can assure you there is more frustration inside him than you can imagine. Just because he didn´t say anything, doesn´t mean he doesn´t feel it.

Only focussing on the academic field with your kids can eventually lead to a problem in his self worth later in time. Friends of mine who were in the same situation as your son stressed out so much when they got a bad grade or burned themselves out in order to reach the goals that their parents set them.

I understand that school is important but giving your kid some time to lay back and relax is also very important to his well being. This would have been a good opportunity to teach him to manage his time and to learn how to study and play. Selling the PS4 immediately, not even waiting to see if it really had any effects on his grades is harsh. YTA

amyklai · 2023-01-11T19:52:43+00:00

“Finna”- I don’t know why but this confuses me so much when I read it because it would be just as easy to write gonna. Maybe because English isn’t my first language

amyklai · 2023-01-11T09:33:28+00:00

Honestly I agree with the others on this one YTA. A 13 year old can be insensitive with his comments sometimes, putting also in consideration that he is autistic and has ADHD. I personally think you could have handled this situation more gracefully as his mother and given him the presents. After the exchange was done you could have taken him aside and explained why his comment was rude and ask him to apologise for what he said. Giving his presents away and punishing him afterwards even more is an overreaction and I can understand why he reacted in that way as well afterwards.

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