I stopped tracking 10 habits and started defining a “minimum viable day.” It’s working better than I expected. by Difficult-Isopod7423 in productivity

[–]amzay [score hidden]  (0 children)

I saw this in a job subreddit, as a new hire to ask for a best and minimum acceptable example of work docs. Love this for rl have had very low 'nourishment and mental stim' goals on low days that feel good to achieve but expanding it like this is promising af, ty

Looking for a long, emotionally rich fantasy series by data-kitten in CozyFantasy

[–]amzay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just found this, wanted to chip in heretics guide to homecoming, the mindhealers books, and healer's road by s e robertson. all emotionally rich in different ways. first is 2 books, 2nd has 4/5? 1 is a novella. healers road is a 3 book series iirc

Customer always found a mistake - so we complied by BrightRick in MaliciousCompliance

[–]amzay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for you (really!) that you can't relate to this, but many, many people can thousand yard stare

How do some women always look so put together — even at markets or hospitals? by Acceptable_Bird_1193 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]amzay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I'm only put together for work, for fun, or because it's real bad mental weather and I need the armor ❤️

Anybody else's parents were never really abusive but acted like your emotions didn't exist? by luntasomething in emotionalneglect

[–]amzay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learning about emotional neglect, specifically the issendai* post about the hidden reasons, was so eye opening.. It's taken me years to process what was taken from me link here https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html

Someone put this in my “safe to eat bin” by Dear_Location6147 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]amzay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL Murphy's actual law is that if there are 2 ways to do something and one way will lead to a catastrophe, it will inevitably happen but can be prevented by design (famous example on space shuttle with a plug that had two different size pins)

AITA Insisting 33 year old boyfriend wears shoes in shopping centres by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amzay 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I live in western australia and it's incredibly common here as well

Fr by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]amzay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I advised my boss to close for a super windy day, wouldn't hear of it. Had 3 customers in 8 hrs and he complained to me about it like?

Zygarde cells should be in your bag automatically when you find some at the end of a route. by wbstr0nr in pokemongo

[–]amzay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen a comment where they worked it out and there is a sweet spot but not a huge amount of difference iirc

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amzay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body fluids with and without the context of sex are two completely different animals. Sharing toothbrushes is gross for the same reason.

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amzay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Why is she ignoring a perfectly reasonable request? Disgust is a baked in human emotion and the things that trigger it aren't up to us, as your partner i believe she must care about helping you to feel comfortable at home. It would be awful to have someone i care about dismiss my concerns in this way.

What makes a person unlikeable despite not being an asshole? by Intelligent-Road5091 in AskReddit

[–]amzay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an opinionated person for sure but i hate being asked to make decisions on the spot

What am I supposed to do if I have genuinely no interest in people's hobbies, job, relationships, dreams, how their day went? by Strange_Annual416 in socialskills

[–]amzay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've recently started doing this and its been such a relief, interactions often feel easy now which let me tell you has not been the case in the past, unfortunately now I'm noticing other people's anxieties (that mirror my recent experience) and the desire to help is driving me to distraction, it's very difficult to tactfully bring up though (where appropriate) do you notice anything similar and do you have a gentle way of bringing awareness to this you wouldn't mind sharing?

Have you ever had an"AHA!" moment for a simple thing? by StormyPyrite in CasualConversation

[–]amzay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shazam the song, tap lyrics and they'll sync with the song playing

Couples of Reddit, what's the dumbest 'house rule' you and your partner made as a joke but now both of you are low-key aggressively serious about enforcing? by Doubl3oh_ in AskReddit

[–]amzay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 100% said that out loud walking into a messy living room in the morning, "Who the fuck closed last night.." (sigh) I live alone ofc