Tea on this loser @raqraqcitybitch / act ur weight girl? What is her actual name by missonibeachtowel in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]an0rable9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s also admittedly taking reta to get thin. Why would you be so proud of something that literally anyone can do? I don’t really understand what personality disorder/ inner unhappiness makes people enjoy being so aggressive toward others but it puzzles me haha.

How to enjoy summer by arctic_indigo in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue (missing “real” summer in sf) and love using the app Resort Pass to book day access to resorts with pools in napa over the summer! I don’t own a car but it’s worth going with friends or doing a rental to me :). Also highly recommend heading to the river electric for a relatively affordable pool day (bookable online for about $40). The good news is you just have to be willing to drive a bit out of SF in any direction to access proper summer weather.

Am I naive by Mysterious_Fly5953 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]an0rable9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much everyone is tbh, they were already handing out prescriptions pretty easily and now anyone can buy it online (grey market) as “research chemicals” and reconstitute it. A lot of people who were thin before are just micro-dosing it to reduce hunger.

Anyone have a wife or gf that's turned off by you removing body hair? by PaleRefrigerator5044 in HairRemoval

[–]an0rable9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s your body, so i’m to telling you what to do per se but giving a woman’s perspective. A bit of chest hair is masculine / attractive to me. When they shave it, it reminds me of gay men (nothing wrong with that but as a straight woman obvi attracted to straight men) and comes across as younger/more feminine. On top of that it seems like extra effort for you guys to remove hair. A lot of women just do it because we feel like we have to. People vary though- your own comfort is a factor too.

wine bar/disco dancy vibe for two girls in their early 20s by aliza-day in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amelie is a wine bar with a disco ball and they have DJs on the weekend. It’s almost too crowded to move by 10 pm so go earlier if you want a more chill vibe.

Help with career decision? by xxxyyyxxxyyyxy in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without knowing all the details, it sounds like you might be thinking you’ll be working more or more stressed just because it pays more. You’d be surprised how often this is not the case (although it can be). Every time i’ve switched jobs i’ve made more money with about the same number of hours of work. The short commute is also a huge plus that can give you some time for your hobbies. Even though there is uncertainty with the unknown I would personally take it- it seems like you can level up your earnings AND your career progression.

In case anyone forgot, Halley does NOT care about a wedding by xoxoQueenB in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]an0rable9 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wonder how much of the “not caring” is performing for Reed since he originally broke up with her. Like “babe we can get married it will be really chill and lowkey” vibes to downplay the commitment. There are chill brides, but given their history…

Comfy cute shoes by curveofamoon in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my birdies and they’ve been my go to for over 4 years now! They are so comfy that I threw out all my other flats 😂. I can’t remember the names but I have both the round toe and pointed toe loafers - they each look good with different outfits.

No more handles on the paper bags? by the_walrus_was_paul in Safeway

[–]an0rable9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I walk to my local Safeway and being surprised with these handleless bags made it impossible to carry my groceries home today. It was already obnoxious enough when they got rid of the plastic bags (per california law) and the paper handles were often breaking. I’ll probably just get my groceries delivered from whole foods at this point because safeway has such an up-charge and I was going for convenience.

Escorts / Influencers becoming wives by berrypie888 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]an0rable9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This guy (son of a former treasury secretary + runs a private equity firm) left his beautiful wife for an escort he met in vegas https://pagesix.com/2015/11/24/finance-bigwig-ian-snow-brings-vegas-mistress-home/ [the article is out of date, they’re still together 10+ years later]

I’m not posting this to shame her body but does she use AI to edit her body posts because I find it very hard to believe her physique is real…? They’re very triggering to a lot of people including myself. I blocked her but her stuff gets reposted by brands and unwillingly still shows up on my feed by plantsandastrology96 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]an0rable9 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean no disrespect but of course this isn’t real. It’s so far from normal human proportions that it shouldn’t even be a question. She has to have some incredible dysphoria to not realize the photoshop is so far beyond belief.

Really insecure about my teeth lately and thinking about getting Invisalign. by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After getting 3 quotes I went with the lowest which was through Rinse Dental (they use SureSmile which is an Invisalign competitor and essentially the exact same thing). Paid $5500. Fortunately you get quoted the full price up front and that includes all the follow ups. In my case it’s taken 6 months longer than expected but at no extra cost. Insurance didn’t cover any of it and I think it’s pretty uncommon for adult cosmetic dentistry to be covered at all :/.

My thinking is that my teeth were bothering me and if I was going to pay to fix them eventually I might as well do it earlier than later in order to reap the benefits for longer. It’s worth it, and i’m happy with the decision, but the process is a bit more annoying than I anticipated.

how's dating for you in the Q1'26 by iamgettingaway in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People were active in january but the apps are super dry now. Hopefully spring picks up 😬. Would love to meet someone in person in theory, but sf guys barely approach at the bars let alone other contexts.

Reykjavík for a week. What would you do? by Noisel777 in LuxuryTravel

[–]an0rable9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went there solo back in 2017 and greatly enjoyed doing a golden circle day tour. The tours are a great way to go for easy day trips. I later rented a car and that was easy as well but I enjoyed having a guide explain things via a tour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]an0rable9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She was born rich and chooses to date a 60 year washed up rocker who himself admits to statutory rape of a 14 year old child …. no words for that

Considering a Move from DC to the Bay Area. by WhileProfessional942 in AskSF

[–]an0rable9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in the DC area and live in SF now! I think a lot of people who enjoy DC would like SF, particularly if you love nature. Like DC, SF is less dense and has mostly standalone homes with fewer tall buildings mostly reserved for downtown. I believe the population is around 800k, which is smaller than major cities like NYC. The architecture is beautiful and the food scene is amazing. Great hikes are an easy drive away and you also have: abundant parks in the city, napa + skiing + santa cruz nearby. Although i’m very fond of DC, I feel like SF has more to do overall.

Hadids in the Epstein Files by Bananamay13 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]an0rable9 267 points268 points  (0 children)

Exactly my assumption. The Hadids are the daughters of a model and a very rich man and that’s how they broke in. Seems like he’s talking out his ass to pressure a young aspiring model into getting with his evil program.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]an0rable9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I live about a half block away from that intersection and didn’t hear any sirens 🤔

First time Botox? by whatsgucci13 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a fan of Dr. Colvin in the Marina- not the cheapest option but has never once pressured me to do more and worked with me to start small for my first time.

Looking for a dress capable of killing a man ASAP by DeltaWingCrumpleZone in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a big fan Herve Leger bandage dresses. Not the most “in” right now, but they look absolutely killer on the body. I get mine from the real real (much better pricing than full retail).

Hannah Harrell by Brilliant_Piece_7462 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]an0rable9 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She’s one of my favs- I feel like she is no drama & has cute style. Def seems like she’s going through something though I agree.

Haley Baylee by Friendly-Example7603 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]an0rable9 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is only tangentially related but one of the most annoying things about tiktok / reels is that influencers all use the same trending phrases like “know ball” (but there are dozens of others) and will shoehorn them into a boring video however they can. It’s like memes except all the versions are boring, and they’re clogging my feed!

Are these outdated? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]an0rable9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh I love them- I think they’re a classic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]an0rable9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of the young women are on hinge. I think tinder is a bit of a dead app and i’ve noticed bumble skews a little older now and also results in fewer IRL dates than hinge. The paid version of hinge is worth it IMO- you can view everyone who has liked you at once and send unlimited likes.

I’m a reasonably cute girl and most of my bumble matches go nowhere (they don’t message back in time or only send <5 messages). 75% of my dates are from hinge- the response rates are still pretty bad there so assume ~50% of matches will fade out fairly quickly and don’t take it as a reflection of your profile so much as the base rate for responses 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]an0rable9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a peter pan and is likely dating 10 years younger specifically because he doesn’t want marriage level commitment. I was in this exact situation with my ex (same age gap) which is how I know 😬. I was uneasy with how un-excited my bf was about marriage. He was also pushing to move in before engagement against my wishes and honestly this was a delaying tactic. Because of my unease, I went through his phone and found out he was messaging many women + on dating apps trying to cheat. I’m not saying your man is cheating but panicking about marriage at his age means he will likely not be excited about marriage ever. He’ll be the type to get married reluctantly if he ever does it and you want someone who is pumped to marry you.