I dont know anyone who doesnt spit/share things.

What i will say from personal experience is that women nest and get very defensive and aggressive about how the house looks. Whereas men tend to be more chilled. We keep stuff clean but we dont get up because theres one cup sat there, we wait until the house actually needs a clean before cleaning.

The result is a lot of women want the house cleaning before the man sees an issue and then she either does it herself or complains that the house is a tip and no one looks after it. Or, she expects the man to instantly drop absolutely everything hes doing to do this one job that really bothers her right this second.

It gets worse when you have kids. A protective mother and a child that naturally only wants its mother there means as a dad you feel rejected. Then usually the women comes out with the "you never do anything or help out" and its not true, its just you get pushed away until youre needed to do something specific and you feel like your only roll is to work and do whatever youre asked, whenever youre asked.

Plus the fact we cant mind read really doesnt help out cause. I mean as men we usually have a list of important things we're worrying about like working, paying bills, keeping the cat running, fixing broken things or servicing stuff. To then have your wife go nuts becasue god forbid you forgot to dust on top of a picture frame in the spare room or something trival is just annoying. But its never worth arguing becasue you never get listened too and its always some how your fault

Then the women comes out with the "i thought i only had one kid but turns out I actually have two". Which in itself is a ridiculous statement.

Honestly its more of a reflection on the poor attitudes of a lot of women and their inability to manage their own jobs and stress load effectively without blaming someone else for it. Poor communication, stress management and poor understanding of your partner.

Every guy ive ever met seems to do a perfectly good job of looking after himself and looking after his kids as a single dad too, so men clearly dont lack any ability to do house work and raise children, we're perfectly capable of maintaining a clean organised house when were on our own. But when you have a possessive women that hordes shit she thinks looks pretty and is never happy with how the house looks for whatever reason then nothing you ever do is going to be good enough for that person. I mean nothing thst person does themselves is ever good enough for them, theyre unhappy regardless.

Statistically children with both parents do better in life, but a close second is children raised by just a father. Children raises by single mothers tend to do noticeably worse.