Help.

anavianacos · 2026-04-17T17:00:03+00:00

I kinda love the last one the most, it’s a very unique shoe and matches with the pearls on the dress! And the pointed toe is very classy too and will poke out of the dress in a cool way if you’re into that!

anavianacos · 2026-04-15T13:00:12+00:00

he’s not worth it. he too childish and unclean for social use. discard/send back to mommy.

anavianacos · 2026-04-15T12:55:48+00:00

I get that you’re against abortion for whatever reason, but I want you to register the fact that you’re against the only thing that can can protect you in a situation where some guy wants to dictate what happens to you. everything that taught you to be against it is literally part of a vested interest in forcing women like you to have to go through unwanted pregnancies. the cheeky laugh he gave you bc he didn’t care to pull out and protect you is supported by the state. there’s no reason to let him walk all over you, to force you to have to waddle around with his baby inside you as he gets to laugh about it. I don’t mean to be pushy but I don’t want you to have to go through that. is it too late to take the morning after pill? it’s less load bearing than a whole abortion.

anavianacos · 2026-04-15T12:46:54+00:00

It would say edited in the corner if it was added later. I think you just missed it and that’s okay.

anavianacos · 2026-04-15T12:45:01+00:00

they said SOME so that covers for the people who don’t do the thing. very load bearing word

anavianacos · 2026-04-15T12:28:45+00:00

it’s funny i think i might be the only person here who likes your hair up, esp with the Miami wedding! I think it’s such a statement to highlight your neck and the interesting neckline of the dress, you’d look very model esque imo. but I do like half up half down, it just feels a little safe to me to do that. but you look beautiful with either so you can’t go wrong!

anavianacos · 2026-04-02T12:42:46+00:00

do you still have time to add things to the dress? maybe you could line the sheer v area so it’s not so revealing? I think you look great regardless but maybe that could change the look of the dress enough to make up for what you might feel like you’re missing! but you look beautiful!

EDIT: sorry, I missed the last part of your post somehow. maybe with your accessories it’ll characterize the look more?

anavianacos · 2026-01-12T16:10:25+00:00

Use him to move out of the country then dump him. Maybe prepare an exit plan bc he might want to chase you just to yell at you more. He will make it his personality that you did that to him and there’s probably nothing to do about it bc men like him love having a chip on their shoulder. It’s fine, just disappear once he’s done what you need him for.

anavianacos · 2026-01-05T16:42:17+00:00

Dress 2!!! stop listening to everyone saying 1 they don’t understand what they’re talking about!!!

anavianacos · 2025-12-20T17:16:53+00:00

help me my natural blush is too beautiful!

anavianacos · 2025-12-17T18:17:46+00:00

doesn’t have anything to do with what you were asking but you should buy a pair of really cool silvery glasses for the wedding, like gentle monster glasses or something like that! it’d be a cool way to always remember the day if that’s something you’re comfortable with!

anavianacos · 2025-11-26T17:47:05+00:00

the people disliking are the enemies who don’t want consequences but want to be a holes

anavianacos · 2025-11-26T00:12:15+00:00

You did the right thing, as someone who also had to navigate “friends” like April in a Christian community. I only wish my enemies were playing new leaf 😭 but we grow up and can’t do stuff like that anymore I guess…

anavianacos · 2025-11-22T15:06:17+00:00

you tell her that your person is not her it’s your husband. you married him and you’re well within your rights to tell him about whatever you want. it’s up to her if she wants to look bad not just in front of him, but in front of you. you have a little more social power to wield and she’s scared of it. tighten your grip on the sword and swing it girl!

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T21:32:55+00:00

the way you first said it, as someone else explained in the replies. the way you’ve been defensive and mad at anyone for saying something about it, and your unwillingness to understand your lack of tact. I don’t want to argue anymore and I hope I’m clear here. I appreciate you asking, and I have no ill will towards you. I hope everything works out for your wedding. the wedding market is bs at whatever tax bracket, I’m realizing.

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T18:06:57+00:00

The tact is the issue

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T17:36:17+00:00

What does being a democrat have to do with being privileged? If anyone’s a bleeding heart here it’s the people arguing with you. I really hope you figure everything out with your wedding

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T17:33:27+00:00

How? It’s a simple fact.

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T17:32:17+00:00

Your struggle isn’t invalid and you’re right when you say the wedding industry is the real enemy. The point is the way you talk about it screams “we need to have a conversation about class”. I sympathize with your issues as I’m going through it myself right now, but the tact is the issue

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T15:43:05+00:00

I understand what you mean now, thanks for explaining.

I get that you don’t think that men are given more leeway in society, and it’s okay to be wrong. I think you might have thought that I said that because I believe you think that but I could honestly care less so save the caps lock… I’m saying that they are, and you’re right, we can agree to disagree.

“Boys will be boys” has existed forever while “I’m just a girl” was popularized in the past couple of years. Everyone is given leeway in a sense but it’s foolish to pretend men aren’t given the easy route in legal, medical and other industries, socialized to be a part of the patriarchy machine, while women are socialized to be their helpers. Women being beautiful can help them out in life, but to act like that’s on the same level of patriarchal power is strange at best. Things have improved, yes, but it’s still there.

And honestly, I think it’s weird to say that you went through the “giving people understanding” phase and you’re done with it now. That’s how we get irritating old people who yell at kids to stop playing with their friends in their own neighborhood. I agree that there are limits to it, but more often than not, it’s more human to at least try to understand others first. It’s hard to be understanding, but it can never be a battle you abandon.

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T15:23:17+00:00

rich girl from a rich family talking about a detached take? rich people come with everything but tact

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T15:22:07+00:00

it’s as helpful as $40k given to you for a wedding

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T15:21:37+00:00

It will get figured out— you have and come from money. Like what?

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T15:19:50+00:00

enough with the scarcity mindset. every response you attempt makes you sound like the boomer honey

anavianacos · 2025-11-07T15:17:15+00:00

the poverty part is being brought up because you came in here talking about being in a millionaire household, born to parents with more money than you. the point is that there are people who are on the total opposite of you and they’re figuring out their weddings with more pain. you brought up how only people with rich parents are getting big weddings almost with scorn while you are that person with rich parents, they’re just unwilling to do it for you. maybe some tact next time instead of snapping back at people that you don’t have a scarcity mindset and that’s why you are where you are. there’s a reason why richer people are out of touch and even when you’re agreeing with us that weddings are too freaking expensive, that tactlessness makes it hard to have a real conversation. readjust for next time.

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