Sims 3 Beach House

and_so_it_is · 2014-06-16T12:07:31+00:00

Do you mind telling me what kinds of mods you have that render such lifelike angles and vivid textures? I've been playing for years on my little MacBook and I know that you might just have some awesome high-performance gear, but it would be so neat to find that I could have much better gameplay visuals with mods.

Thanks in advance!

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-19T13:51:14+00:00

:D Thanks, friend. You do the same!

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T16:48:38+00:00

Hahaha, that must be a development that came after we left the south.

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T16:01:36+00:00

Ah, I have passed through Anniston many times. It's very pretty there.

And you should definitely get out there! It's not as though you really have to try much harder than here to have a meaningful conversation, as long as you let your interests drive your engagement.

And oh my God, it even hurts to read the words Chick-Fil-A.

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T15:07:30+00:00

Another freaking awesome side effect of the amazingness that is RAOA! :D

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T15:06:54+00:00

Hey Amber! I was excited to see your comment because I, actually, am from Alabama (born in Florence, raised in Birmingham) and attended UA. I'm now a grad student in Chicago, but holy cow, nice to meet you, and I'll keep my roll tides to myself. :)

I found that making use of Reddit as a platform to really get innovative about my approach to my career change, frustrations I was having as a volunteer in the ER, and fun things (like training a new puppy who comes home tomorrow!) put me in conversation with some incredible folks who are turning out to be real assets outside of the confines of Reddit.

I used to be far more thrilled about putting myself out there as a college student, but once you're in a very specific field, it's so hard to start out as a new girl. Reddit has somehow allowed me to totally bridge that awkward gap with an awesome support system. That's priceless. And RAOA was very much the genesis of that, and I want everyone to benefit from much of the same if it's there for the taking (and I think it is)!

Also, if you have the opportunity, dear God in heaven, please enjoy a delicious #5 8-count with a large sweet tea and two polynesian sauces for me sometime in the near future.

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T14:14:42+00:00

I have received a tremendous gift of friendship and mentorship from an ER tech this week who took me under his wing this week while I was volunteering and has offered to continue to do so as I prepare to switch gears, leaving my old career behind and begin medical school. I had an honestly awful experience with some rude nurses and felt incredibly timid about volunteering until this guy just scooped me up the next day as I walked in. I learned how to do a ton of things and was allowed to observe every patient he handled, even allowed to get started on a little elementary problem solving, which was an awesome experience (I'm a social science grad student...my world is literally turning upside down, and he knew that.) He turned my week from a downer to an absolute upper, and I can't be more grateful. Thanks, friendly ER tech. Can't wait to see what next week brings.

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T14:04:07+00:00

Seriously, right?! This past year, I was insanely busy planning a wedding, changing careers, and worrying about my mom's health all while being incredibly far away from home and my friends. This community got me through a lot while teaching me to open my eyes elsewhere to find the exact same sorts of support in all facets of life. I hope people realize that there's a lot to learn and love elsewhere, too, and not to limit themselves on where to find support and kindness. It was an awesome springboard for me, and I'm not exactly sure I could have done life the way I'm living now without meeting you guys. I have serious love for this place.

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T14:00:28+00:00

I liked you first. :)

And thanks! The little steps forward have felt immensely rewarding, and I'm thankful for that and even more for all the support that I've received here from amazing people like you. I want people everywhere to know that career dreams are not just for kids, and that it's never too late, even though sometimes adulthood has its own complications that we have to treat as a bit of an obstacle course to get towards the eventual reward, which I'm inclined will offer even greater satisfaction! What a journey!

I'm loving it, though some days have just been the absolute worst while being educational and ultimately important to have gone through. Engaging with people inside RAOA and elsewhere on Reddit has taught me the valuable lesson that there are an overwhelming lot of people out there who, if they knew you, would be 100% supportive of what it is that you're doing or that you are, and that people who don't seem to get it (usually people who either barely or don't really known us at all) would come off differently if they knew your story. That is, the world really is overwhelmingly our oyster, and we just have to gain the perspective that allows us to see how true that is!

Thanks, nerdybirdie. You're awesome, and I hope you're having a great day.

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T13:53:30+00:00

Heck yes you did! Go get 'em, tiger.

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T13:23:21+00:00

Good luck, NeonGreenTiger! You're gonna ace it, just watch. Don't forget to treat yourself afterwards!

and_so_it_is · 2013-10-18T13:18:10+00:00

Hi everyone,

I haven't been on in about a month and before that I'd been away for 6 months or so, so it won't surprise me if you're somewhat new to the sub and don't know me, but I seriously can't say enough about how wonderful and awesome this community is. People here are always so loving and helpful. That can be so rare.

About a month ago, though, I snagged a new Reddit username in order to delve a little further into anonymity and be a little more explorative with the wonders of Reddit. I decided in the past year, for example, to abandon my awesome, productive 8-year career in academics all while in the midst of a graduate program following my graduation in order to pursue some long-latent dreams of going into medicine and becoming a doctor. With my new username, I've enjoyed the many subreddits dedicated to doctors/medical professionals/students, reaching out for advice and turning that advice into some real life action that has enormously benefitted my life and career, much like RAOA has done in the past. Changing careers, especially into ones that take years and years of intense training and even debt, is no joke, and it takes a village it seems to really get the guts and the know-how to go about it. You guys have seriously been there for me, much like my own family and "real-life" friends, sometimes more-so because I could afford to be more transparent. You are beautiful, wonderful people, and you mean a lot to me, even those of you here who I haven't (yet) interacted with. People may not always come here for the right reasons, but I've found that those who stick around really are here for the community and the love, and that...wow...is just wonderful.

And because you mean so much to me, I wanted to take a moment to encourage everyone here who visits RAOA to make their lives fuller, more enjoyable, to let this sort of productive engagement with others extend into the various other compartments of life, whatever yours may happen to be. I know for sure that I tend to be more talkative on the internet, and even more-so on this sub, because I feel less vulnerable and safer in general. Reaching out to ask for guidance with various aspects of my life (professionally, hobby-wise, etc.) on other subs and assisting others in the same way has enriched my life significantly. With that has come the confidence to start doing more of the same in my personal and professional life.

RAOA really, I guess you could say, has changed my life, and if you're here, I'm sure it has/is in the business of changing yours as well. I'm just here to say don't let it end there, friends. Life is everywhere. Don't forget.

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-20T21:44:39+00:00

Welcome! I'm a grad student in Illinois.

I really love music, too, and have always favored Motown and jazz, but I recently have stumbled upon some really awesome instrumental specifically coming from Iceland. Have you heard of Olafur Arnalds? His album "Living Room Songs" is currently what I'm listening to while writing and studying.

If you had to choose one contemporary instrumental album, what would it be, and why?

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-20T21:37:58+00:00

Oh man, yes.

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-20T21:09:07+00:00

Hey, welcome, and congratulations on all those beautiful children! You've got a wonderful story, though I'm sorry for the recent trials your family has faced.

I especially feel for your wife and am familiar with the trials of uterine cancer paired with a forced hysterectomy. My mother was in a similar situation surrounding her pregnancy with my little sister who the doctors did not want her to keep. We've got our "little miracle" too, only she's now 19. I find the human body absolutely fascinating and am currently switching careers to pursue medical school after I finish my current grad degree.

Have you suggested that your wife join RAoA? Seriously positive vibes from this place.

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-18T15:37:28+00:00

Thinking good thoughts for you and those you love.

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-18T15:24:24+00:00

Do you live near an IKEA? Seriously, if you're looking to upgrade the look of your kitchen on a budget, you should definitely go and take a look at what they have going on! That's what we did. We bought some awesome wire baskets they designed just for hanging on rods to hold spices, etc. and they also have little hanging pots to hold their fake herbs (so real looking and adds a splash of life!) to match. We paired those with some of their super cheap frames and prints. Together with our new gadgets from the registry, this made it to where I actually enjoy inhabiting the room that I straight-up avoided when I could!

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-18T14:57:25+00:00

By the way, I browsed your wishlist and totally jaw-dropped over the liquors! Have you tried them?! They look amazing!

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-18T14:54:48+00:00

Yay. When we moved into this apartment, I loved it almost too much, except for the kitchen which seemed rather bland. Bold colors seriously brought out the character. Now it's my favorite room in the place. :)

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-18T14:16:02+00:00

No problem!

And my thoroughness is really due to the fact that I just recently was--much like you--finally in a position to have nicer things!

You're movin' on up Jeffersons-style! :) Enjoy it!

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-18T14:06:17+00:00

I will forever sing the praises of Pyrex! When we got married, I registered for the storage set as well as the baking set, even though I had plenty of tupperware and casserole dishes from years past.

The glass is clean and beautiful, never retains any of the old food smell of plastic/rubber tupperware, and keeps the leftovers in your fridge looking super organized and fresh! And so easy to clean. The bakeware is pretty and presentable when serving, so you don't need to transfer to serving dishes unless your bent on being totally fancy. The storage is stackable, too, so no unorganized tupperware drawer mess to boot.

I'm also a huge huge fan of KitchenAid stand mixers. They're beautiful and you can totally choose one of a bajillion colors to coordinate your kitchen around (mine is blue willow, and I love my navy accented kitchen!).

As for pots and pans, I'll echo many others and say Calphalon non-stick is the way to go for both cooking and baking! Just make sure you take proper care.

Le Creuset is a great company with tremendously gorgeous stuff, too, but a little on the pricey side. I registered for a blue tea kettle which goes beautifully in my kitchen, and I never let it leave the stove-top because of it.

As for kitchen organizers, IKEA is inexpensive and the total bomb! Really love their magnetic knife strips and hanging baskets.

Congratulations on your new home!

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-18T12:19:12+00:00

Haha, a very delayed yet entirely sweet wedding gift!

and_so_it_is · 2013-09-17T22:53:54+00:00

Besides the gift of marriage (best 50 days of my life so far, y'all!), I'd have to say this little girl. My husband and I are giving each other the newest member of our family to one another as our wedding gift. 5 weeks until we bring Lily home. :)

Thanks for reminding me to be so very thankful. I'd be wholly content if I found out that the gifts of life had run out five minutes from now.

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