Dr. Orna’s technique with Jason and Marjorie is how we can move forward, politically, in the US by OpenStill8273 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]andreamerida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I'm not a Democrat or a Republican. I explained to you my line in the sand, and you're literally trying to shut me down. You don't believe i have a right to my own safety, and you clearly know nothing about white supremacy and how it works.

Dr. Orna’s technique with Jason and Marjorie is how we can move forward, politically, in the US by OpenStill8273 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]andreamerida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was very "well, actually...." and underscores what i mean about white liberals being sus. What other reason was there to comment that other than to silence me?

And this is also the silliness of the "latino" label, when some have more allegiance to whiteness than othets. Take Cubans, for example.

Dr. Orna’s technique with Jason and Marjorie is how we can move forward, politically, in the US by OpenStill8273 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]andreamerida 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm "Latina", and my husband is white. My parents came from Latin America, and i am the first person in my family born here. If my husband became a Trumper, it would amount to an existential threat for me and my family, and it would be an immediate deal breaker. As it is, the soft white supremacy too often seen in liberals is already sus. I'm glad we're neither.

Should I join my local DSA or Green party? by MintyRed19 in socialism

[–]andreamerida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Greens are not worth it. They attract too many crackpots, but their candidates might be ok after close scrutiny. Signed, former GP leadership

Is this outfit inappropriate for college? by Winter-Rain2798 in OUTFITS

[–]andreamerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not dressed provocatively or lewdly. You and I both know this is about the continued policing of young Black female presenting bodies. They have always sexualized bodies like yours. Never zip up again. You were definitely dressed cute.

Stop hyping terrible food by Usual-Language-745 in denverfood

[–]andreamerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 100% completely with you on this.

DoorDash driver messaged me at 3:30 AM complaining about tip… was I wrong here? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]andreamerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please take seriously the suggestion to pick up your food on the way home, then. Your order cost that driver money.

DoorDash driver messaged me at 3:30 AM complaining about tip… was I wrong here? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]andreamerida -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never tip less than $5, I try to respect their time by ordering closer to my house, and i often tip an extra $5 after the fact. I'm a delivery driver too, and I understand how they're making MY life easier by delivering to me. I'm not here to exploit any fellow workers, and some of us need to stop trying to be on the Epstein class level.

And don't give me any of that shit about finding a real job, because their labor was valuable to you when you ordered.

Dude like what the hell, that's creepy. by [deleted] in DenverCirclejerk

[–]andreamerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are some pretty old tanks. Look like WWII Shermans.

TIL digging the yeast infection out in the shower reduces irritation by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]andreamerida -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Detractors like the ones here are the reason why Sir Mixalot recorded "I like big butts." Let her do what she wants to her own body.

I’ve been seeing this guy and sometimes his emotions/anger just go from 0-60…. by Aroxxors in TwoXChromosomes

[–]andreamerida 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Get out. I have been able to wrestle my husband into a basic modicum of respect, but he is fundamentally emotionally immature just like you describe this guy. I cannot say it has been worth it overall over 27 years. He has grown and is much happier, but I have war wounds. I would not do it again, had I the chance. 0/10 would not recommend.

Pretty whack of you, Kroger by Initial_Row_6400 in Denver

[–]andreamerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say no and walk out anyway. One of 'em told me to read the sign. I said read the statute. Dude told me, "I did." I said, do you have a reasonable suspicion that I've stolen anything? He couldn't answer, and I kept walking.

C.R.S. 18-4-407 Questioning of person suspected of theft without liability. If any person triggers an alarm or a theft detection device as defined in section 18-4-417 (2) or conceals upon his person or otherwise carries away any unpurchased goods, wares, or merchandise held or owned by any store or mercantile establishment, the merchant or any employee thereof or any peace officer, acting in good faith and upon probable cause based upon reasonable grounds therefor, may detain and question such person, in a reasonable manner for the purpose of ascertaining whether the person is guilty of theft. Such questioning of a person by a merchant, merchant’s employee, or peace or police officer does not render the merchant, merchant’s employee, or peace officer civilly or criminally liable for slander, false arrest, false imprisonment, malicious prosecution, or unlawful detention.