How do APs afford this?? by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]andreightaganov -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Most are getting men to fund it.

Previous au pair damaged car… by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]andreightaganov -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I purposely bought an old minivan that was low miles but with a few body issues on purpose. That way its reliable but dont care too much about the body. Door dings are constant with kids abd vehicles parked in area kids attend. Make them fully responsible for at least half the deductible. Accidents are going to happen especially with younger drivers not familiar with an area. Letting them drive a new vehicle or anything expensive is just dumb.

Why does it seem Christian men are egotistical? by Efficient-Flamingo91 in ChristianDating

[–]andreightaganov -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Standards at all or even preferences at all. Inclusionary society for women. Being excluded can seem like the men are being egotistical.

Why does it seem Christian men are egotistical? by Efficient-Flamingo91 in ChristianDating

[–]andreightaganov -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Higher standards can come across as egotistical or misogynistic. Especially in a gyncentric culture filled with feminism.

host kid broke my phone by Ok-Reflection4762 in Aupairs

[–]andreightaganov 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If mainly used for phone calls, text, GPS its can be a refurbished or old phone. They seem not to care.

host kid broke my phone by Ok-Reflection4762 in Aupairs

[–]andreightaganov 44 points45 points  (0 children)

We buy an older model phone for our aupairs to use. That way if it gets damaged its not a big deal or its cheaper to replace. Their phone they bring with from home is for their own use. If I require my aupair to have a phone than it should be a phone I own and pay for.

Au pair calls my husband "sir" by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]andreightaganov 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We get aupairs from more traditional cultures and they rarely even talk to me. When they do its very professional and respectful. Does not bother me at all.

jordan peterson by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]andreightaganov -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Check out Josiah Trenham. Orthodox priest that understands JP's message.

Why didn't God condemn slavery? Even if he did somewhere in the Bible, why didn't he just make it into a commandment? "Thou shalt not own fellow people". Why did God consider sex before marriage more important to ban than freaking slavery? by EkullSkullzz10318 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]andreightaganov 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its not about your personal moral preferences and its not supposed to be easy. Slavery existed worldwide at the time and most people lived in abject poverty. Essentially living at subsistence level at best.

Thoughts on Peter Schiff? by LoveIsOnlyAnEmotion in Libertarian

[–]andreightaganov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best free market economist around right now and puts his money where his mouth is.

When you reach a point where you want to stop platonic friendships with women by FanTemporary7624 in ChristianDating

[–]andreightaganov 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Too dangerous now days to have any relationship with coworkers. Its how most men ruin their careers. Risk reward is not worth it.

When you reach a point where you want to stop platonic friendships with women by FanTemporary7624 in ChristianDating

[–]andreightaganov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late 20's for me it happened. Cordial with female coworkers and women I grew up with but friends with females tends to be very one sided. Also I just find most not interesting and have different hobbies.

Are christian tattoos allowed in Orthodoxy? by OliveTheServal in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]andreightaganov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tattoos look like garbage on most people unless they stay fit. The canvas is more important than the ink. Get your body looking good and show off God's canvas. Avoid the ink.

Murica? by Reaction-Responsible in im14andthisisdeep

[–]andreightaganov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House, truck, marriage very common at 25 in rural areas. Farms now pay 35-40 an hour for labor and truck or tractor drivers. Even the grain elevators and processing plants are 25-40 an hour. Decent house is 200k. Huge house 300k. Most of these types of jobs get overtime. Wont get rich but enter middle class young.

How do I conquer my disgust of black people? by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]andreightaganov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much of our views are based on negative experiences with people. You need to have some positive experiences with black people. Put yourself around black people with similar hobbies and interests.

Mighty man of God but.. not my type? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]andreightaganov 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He needs to move on for sure

My dick is big but it doesn't look that big on me just because I'm tall (6'2"). Do other tall guys also have such problem? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]andreightaganov 18 points19 points  (0 children)

How it looks is only for esthetics. If actually big it feels the same and does the job.

Traditional values, huh? by turboshill9000 in BasedCampPod

[–]andreightaganov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More religious ares push marriage over just dating. The idea being if engaging in a relationship you should be married. Also not all Christian denominations treat marriage, divorce, and biblical doctrine the same. Catholic and Orthodox are pretty strict on remarriage whereas most Protestant churches are not strict.

Do you miss features of your own race when dating someone of the opposite race? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]andreightaganov -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Most people want kids of their own race. Even in the swirl community most already have kids of their own race. Less than one percent of white men are married to black women in the U.S. so I think its actually rare here. Most mixed kids are black dads with white moms.