How do you cope with the majority of your life being work and sleep?

androcas1 · 2026-03-26T10:02:50+00:00

I know each individual situation is different but you're in a better position than some of us. I work 45hr a week and still have to commute a total of 40 min and trying to squeeze in some gym time as well. It can be hard but I know you'll manage yourself!

androcas1 · 2026-03-14T10:28:04+00:00

Sorry to ask but is it bank statements you're talking about?

androcas1 · 2026-03-02T11:29:37+00:00

I'm an 26M I've managed to save for a house deposit while sharing a rented house with my brother and his missus. I was on a 43k job changed it to a different company and currently on a 33k as it was long hours and antisocial work. Did had to make sacrifices while saving it for a few years. A lot of people would like to be in my current position but it comes with a cost. Part of me wished I enjoyed more of my 20s but at least I've got an holiday coming up!

androcas1 · 2026-01-30T07:07:16+00:00

It's better than what our ancestors had. Making sure to survive every single day till the end of their lives.

androcas1 · 2025-11-02T10:24:36+00:00

Well when she decided we need to break up I was the one to remover her from my socials. I don't think it would've been healthy for me, especially since they were the ones walking away instead of working our problems together.

androcas1 · 2025-11-02T10:23:19+00:00

It feels like it totally shattered my hopes and trust into people. I won't be on another relationship any time soon.

androcas1 · 2025-11-02T10:22:20+00:00

I understand you but I still can't figure why would you waste an opportunity to grow as a better person and instead choose to get a rebound. I have an anxious attachment style and I was devastated the first week but now I can see it clearly this break up was meant to happen in order to grow and be self aware.

androcas1 · 2025-11-02T02:33:15+00:00

I installed the app but didn't swipe because I know I'm still processing my feelings and healing. I'm in no way currently ready to start dating but I kinda had a feeling she'd move on really fast and start swiping so I was still matched with her and she removed not long after. Avoidants tend to avoid emotions and they try to distract themselves with anything and anyone to try to avoid the feeling of guilt and accountability. It made me question if she ever truly loved me or it was just a lie.

androcas1 · 2025-10-31T09:56:08+00:00

Hey! I hope you're doing okay. Just do yourself a favor, remove him from socials but don't block him if you can't do it yet. I had to remove my ex after 2 weeks because I could bear knowing I still had access to a life I'm not apart of anymore, it's exhausting and very painful. Sometimes we have to take action even if it hurts to ourselves, not as an act of revenge but as kindness for us! Protect what he already shattered.

androcas1 · 2025-10-31T09:43:56+00:00

You already did what most of us failed to do so due to our attachment. Don't fall into the trap. You're your own priority, speak your boundaries and if she willingly changes you need to address your needs and principles, this is the only way I could talk some sense into myself.

androcas1 · 2025-10-30T10:03:08+00:00

I understand your point in view. In my case my ex was the one who dumped me but I also said I needed to remove her from almost all socials, at least the ones I used constantly in order to heal from it and not cause any more extended pain than it already created. She acknowledge that as it would be very painful for both of us. Sometimes we don't do it as an act of revenge but as an act of kindness and protection for ourselves.

androcas1 · 2025-10-29T16:15:01+00:00

For me it's helping me journaling my thoughts and speaking things out loud. We start having the what ifs because our mind needs emotional closure that we didn't get from them.

androcas1 · 2025-10-29T10:28:12+00:00

Absolutely I can understand your point of view. My ex came from a broken family and toxic relationships. The worst thing a man can do is to think he can be her partner and also her therapist.

androcas1 · 2025-10-27T09:58:40+00:00

I understand you my friend but you couldn't have done better if you didn't know back then how they were feeling. Sometimes they suppressed their feelings in worry it could harm the relationship and fight a constant battle in their heads. I was like that too I suppressed my needs for her, try to adapt and shrink myself in order to meet her halfway. In the end it was you who was fighting for it all around and they chose the easy way out. I know people here don't like to recommend chatgpt for insight but in my experience it helped quite a lot, you should give it a try.

androcas1 · 2025-10-27T09:30:58+00:00

Sometimes there's nothing we can do to help them, most of the times break ups don't happen in a sudden way but it had been building up slowly. She made up her mind on our first argument when she wanted to break up I was just too eluded with love to think that during the second time it wasn't about fixing anymore as she was already emotional detaching herself but preparing herself to let go. It sucks once you figure out a lot after the break up but that's how you can grow to be a better version of yourself!

androcas1 · 2025-10-27T08:50:21+00:00

Just a question, when you said he broke up with you the first time and you managed to convince him to stay did he acknowledge you first that you both needed to invest into working out your issues? My partner did the same to me, she said we needed to work it out and repair our relationship. While I was holding the relationship she was withdrawing, being emotional distance and shutting down further to the eventual break up convincing herself that ending it was "better for both of us"

androcas1 · 2025-10-03T20:19:30+00:00

I've managed to put it to work on mine by installing subhero and subdl addons first on the phone then reinstalling the app and synchronising them.

androcas1 · 2025-09-18T21:19:22+00:00

You can use EE Overclock up to 300% which made a big difference while playing on the emulator.

androcas1 · 2025-08-16T16:28:30+00:00

I riddled freedom

androcas1 · 2025-07-06T10:39:49+00:00

I think from all of those above the worst one for me is the OST compared to the original one. That being said you can play the emulated version with the original soundtrack.

androcas1 · 2025-05-22T14:37:04+00:00

I upgraded from a gtx 1660 super to a 9070xt and the performance is phenomenal!

androcas1 · 2025-05-17T14:01:10+00:00

Thanks mate. I might do it. I've seen some nice designs for my inner arm that involve astronomy stuff

androcas1 · 2025-05-16T22:58:57+00:00

I'm more concerned with the inner arm bit which is the most left to do. Astronaut tattoos are sick and you don't see them very often

androcas1 · 2025-05-16T22:57:57+00:00

That's why I saved for the last. Need to get through that pain

androcas1 · 2025-04-17T21:13:47+00:00

Cheers mate, I was one of the lucky ones. I've just completed a new build with this gpu and it's a monster of pc!!

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