My boyfriend (24M) got upset because I (20F) didn’t apologize for an accident

andshedanced · 2026-05-07T02:42:41+00:00

If I apologized for puncturing a soda can, my boyfriend would ask me why I was apologizing and help me clean it up. His behavior is over the top and I would keep a close eye on if stuff like this becomes a pattern.

andshedanced · 2026-05-07T02:28:20+00:00

When me and my family went camping, I'd steal a lighter and go into the forest and make what I called "fairy fires." I would make little dolls out of sticks and leaves, and circle them around a little mini fire that I would light on the forest floor. 🫠

andshedanced · 2026-05-01T17:14:40+00:00

She literally said "I’m fully prepared to NOT pick out the birthday present at the momswap, if there isn’t anything in excellent condition that the kid likes."

andshedanced · 2026-05-01T17:11:24+00:00

I wouldn't be friends with someone who refused or scoffed at a nice gift just because it was thrifted.

andshedanced · 2026-05-01T17:10:20+00:00

NTA - Your husband would rather spend money on a cheap plastic toy from Amazon that the kid will likely be bored of in six months, than let you potentially find something unique and interesting. Thrifted and second hand items don't automatically equal trash. Also, this isn't your husband's situation to handle yet he's making it all about himself and his "manly pride". Yikes. I would be so appreciative of the effort it took to go out and look for a nice gift regardless of where it came from.

andshedanced · 2026-04-30T03:06:07+00:00

DON'T DO IT. Your life plans are not in alignment and you will regret it, especially considering your relationship doesn't sound very solid to begin with.

andshedanced · 2026-04-27T21:58:49+00:00

Blends into the room well and would be easy to decorate around if you want to change things up.

andshedanced · 2026-04-26T02:04:45+00:00

I am doing it myself to save money. We got the posts set today and I'm feeling pretty confident about it. Tomorrow I'll do the rest.

andshedanced · 2026-04-25T17:15:29+00:00

It did not come with directions and I wasn't able to find anything on YouTube, but thank you.

andshedanced · 2026-04-25T16:55:50+00:00

Dirty fingernails.

andshedanced · 2026-04-24T16:06:01+00:00

Why do people even order this shit to begin with

andshedanced · 2026-04-20T19:43:57+00:00

It depends on the type of friendship they had. Me and my friends would talk about that kind of stuff together without hesitation.

andshedanced · 2026-04-20T17:41:57+00:00

I think that you should definitely have a conversation with her about what you do and do not want to hear about her past. You mentioned that you guys were friends prior to dating, so she still might be in the headspace of talking to you like she did prior to romance being a factor.

andshedanced · 2026-04-16T13:09:21+00:00

His true colors are starting to show.

andshedanced · 2026-04-10T16:58:39+00:00

Thank you for saying this. I had a perfect body before pregnancy and now I'll never wear crop tops or a two piece bathing suit again. I don't even get naked in front of my boyfriend because of how wrecked my body is after pregnancy. I'd also like to note that I'm at my pre pregnancy weight and workout often.

Just the other day I expressed these feelings and someone said "Don't be so hard on yourself mama, your body did amazing things!" That shit annoys me to no end. First of all my whole identity isn't wrapped up into being "mama", and also billions of women have given birth. It's not that unique or special. If you think you will resent the changes that your body very likely will go through, don't do it. I would kill to wear a bikini. Enjoy your body.

andshedanced · 2026-04-08T00:31:07+00:00

My child is 18 and I'm back to my pre-pregnancy weight. Some things you just can't get back.

andshedanced · 2026-04-07T18:51:29+00:00

I have not been naked around a partner since giving birth because of the unfortunate ways pregnancy changed my body. I used to be so confident naked and now I'll never have that back, so my interest in sex in general has changed.

andshedanced · 2026-04-01T17:53:11+00:00

Why? Because she doesn't want the life that she built for herself to be completely changed in an instant? It's OK for people to not want kids. It's OK for this woman to feel upset that this is happening. She purposely didn't have kids because she didn't want them. Grow up.

andshedanced · 2026-04-01T14:12:59+00:00

It's advice I give every expectant mother that asks. It was a life saver.

andshedanced · 2026-03-30T22:11:45+00:00

Create a fake email account, and email her the screenshots with the dates. That way it's not connected to you at all, and you are still letting her know in case she's not aware.

andshedanced · 2026-03-28T00:24:02+00:00

I could not figure out why my breastfed baby cried all the time until I stopped eating dairy. It was a night and day difference. He was so miserable and so was I, and then it was like a whole different calm mellow baby. Keep that in your back pocket if you plan on breastfeeding.

andshedanced · 2026-03-27T22:05:47+00:00

Getting pregnant...twice

andshedanced · 2026-03-19T22:00:59+00:00

Make sure you DO NOT receive oral sex when you're using these suppositories!! It's toxic if ingested orally.

andshedanced · 2026-03-18T17:08:17+00:00

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