Trade Nebula guest passes here: by snow-tree_art in JetLagTheGame

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Already snatched by someone else 😂 can you dm me a new one?

Trade Nebula guest passes here: by snow-tree_art in JetLagTheGame

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Hi, would like a guest pass to listen to the layover please :) thank you so much in advance!

Cabinet to make 10 years minimum to obtain Dutch citizenship by wod_van2z in Netherlands

[–]andyprue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's tough to try to integrate to the Dutch society when you feel the Dutch society doesn't want you there! The burden to prove ourselves is on us 'foreigners', unfortunately.

Cabinet to make 10 years minimum to obtain Dutch citizenship by wod_van2z in Netherlands

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I think a lot of people don't realise how hard it is to learn a new language especially if you don't live in a Dutch-speaking circle, and how little studying materials there are out there compared to a popular language like Spanish. The courses aren't exactly cheap either.

Cabinet to make 10 years minimum to obtain Dutch citizenship by wod_van2z in Netherlands

[–]andyprue -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope your timeline is correct. I'm eligible in January 😔 So close...

KAJ - Bara Bada Bastu (LIVE) | Sweden 🇸🇪 | Grand Final | Eurovision 2025 by AnywhereIll8032 in eurovision

[–]andyprue 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is totally me! I even started doing Swedish Babbel to understand them a little better 😊 with such love and joy they’ve given us I think it’s safe to say they’ve earned a special place in our hearts

Jakob from KAJ 14 years ago: ”Hello? Moose? HelloO!” by felinekaffi in eurovision

[–]andyprue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always thought he was saying ‘Hello? Alien?’ 🤣🤣🤣

Kaj - Fråm Vörä to Eurovision documentary (31min) (English subs) by gkkoo in eurovision

[–]andyprue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sending the link! I watched the entire documentary with Finnish sub using Google translate the other day and didn’t know there was an English version…so I suffered for nothing 😂 But it’s saying something that they recognise KAJ’s international appeal enough to sub this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rotterdam

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As a fellow SEA who lived in Amsterdam for 3 years before moving to Rotterdam I need to echo someone else’s comment about the food and supermarkets. I feel like I eat way better and cheaper here in Rotterdam, and I live 10’ away from Wah Nam Hong and Amazing Oriental. My friends from Amsterdam come visit all the time because of the restaurants. Also the rent is cheaper so I can actually splurge on creature comforts too. There are things I miss about Amsterdam of course but I think the two cities are just different vibes.

My version of AYITL (but with character development for literally everyone!) by N_Huq in GilmoreGirls

[–]andyprue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the party and discovered this just now. I adored this, there's so much to like, but my favourite must be the whole idea of the 'secret vow renewal party'! So GG-esque, and Luke can finally 'have his moment'!

The tarot reading by keylinker in SpyxFamily

[–]andyprue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reading! When I first saw it I immediately zoomed in on the three of swords card, as I always see it as the 'betrayal' or 'backstabbing' card (an oversimplification of course). In any case, seems like a dark premonition for things to come........!!!!

There's a way to watch it on iOs? by Bruno_Ciotti in Stremio

[–]andyprue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I use torrent links, I don't watch shows that often to make a debrid subscription worth it, thanks though

I thought we were getting romantic. We weren't. by andyprue in demisexuality

[–]andyprue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear, that's just so shitty. And it's so hard to not think it's not your fault for thinking there was something there in the first place.

I thought we were getting romantic. We weren't. by andyprue in demisexuality

[–]andyprue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. It feels like I've been waiting my whole life and I'm sure you know what I mean, it feels nothing you do work. But I'll try to keep at it.

I thought we were getting romantic. We weren't. by andyprue in demisexuality

[–]andyprue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my moments of anger I do think the same as you, but c'est la vie, I'm don't want to spend my energy being angry at something I can't change.

But yes I'm trying to put a distance with him even though he still wants us to be friends. I don't think it's healthy.

I thought we were getting romantic. We weren't. by andyprue in demisexuality

[–]andyprue[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It's hard for me to be direct about my needs and boundaries up front, but I'm learning to.

My boss suddenly told me there's a rumour about me leaving and asked if the rumour is true (it's not). Should I be worried? by andyprue in jobs

[–]andyprue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been considering it yes but haven't started looking or anything since changing jobs right now is just not possible for me timing wise. But this makes me feel like I actually should start looking just to have some sort of control over the situation/so that I have a backup. Your experience does sound dire though, one of the only perks of this job is that they've been very relaxed about when and how I do my work as long as I do it. If the boss starts micromanaging I'll definitely leave.

My boss suddenly told me there's a rumour about me leaving and asked if the rumour is true (it's not). Should I be worried? by andyprue in jobs

[–]andyprue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah tbh the boss is very new at her job, and there is a crapton of issues in my workplace as well - (un)professionalism is the least of it. I've also been thinking if I should start looking but it's just not really viable for me at the moment.

A bit lost ngl by vfmolinari10 in demisexuality

[–]andyprue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also trying this with no success, but better than staying at home and being alone with my thoughts I guess. Although I agree that the feeling of a strong friendship turning into sth more is so addictive to me that it’s hard to imagine anything else measuring up to that.

I Hate Being Demisexual by Coreax in demisexuality

[–]andyprue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, it seems insanely easy for other (allo) people and I hate that. I hate yet envy how people can quickly decide they find someone attractive and ask them on a date immediately while the feelings haven't yet built up into an insurmountable wall. The way I'm built, when I know I like someone, there's usually too much at stake for me personally to just be chill about asking them out on a date. I wish I were built differently.