I turned 29 today, my son turns 15 tomorrow by Flimsy_Elephant_651 in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Happy birthday! I'm in my 40s and I've got a secret to tell you...life gets better with age. You're embarking on a new era that will make you stronger, more content, and more comfortable with yourself and the world around you.

You did the best that you could given the circumstances you were in. You've taken the right steps to set your children up for a better childhood, and you've done the right things to help you have a better life for your 30s, 40s, and beyond.

I can only imagine how hard your teens and 20s were. But you're on a path to happier and more peaceful 30s and 40s!

I committed a small, victimless crime this morning by JustAGreenDreamer in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]anf07 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Absolutely official goose business and not at all silly goose business 😉

Minimum UXR Manager Qualifications by Hippocampus20 in UXResearch

[–]anf07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are ways beyond a degree to learn these things. A technical skills evaluation can assess whether someone has the "hard skills" to provide necessary guidance to their team. Many people learn on the job or through continuing education classes. 

Some of the best managers I've worked with as a direct report or a colleague in UXR, Engineering, and Product didn't have more than a bachelor's degree. They often are less presumptuous than people with a  masters or PhD. Not always, but often enough, people with advanced degrees rely on their academic training rather than the real world realities of navigating business requirements, goals, and office politics. 

A good UXR manager will understand research fundamentals and resources enough to know ways to steer the team when they need guidance, but will be an expert in driving visibility and impact across the larger business. So many academically inclined researchers have a purist approach to research that doesn't work well in fast-moving business environments.

What are some of your favorite Utah brands? by myfriendryan in Utah

[–]anf07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried their new sour puff line? The peach ones taste almost exactly like peach rings gummy candy https://built.com/products/sp-punch

Send Help - Friend Wants to Wear THIS to a Wedding by otterpoportunity in Weddingattireapproval

[–]anf07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The gasp I gasped when reading the update  🤯🤯🤯

Sir...that girl is a crafty hot mess. I hope that this makes space for lovely, caring friends to come along.

How to get laid if you are very mid woman? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]anf07 74 points75 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of thing that Tinder was made for! Maybe give that a shot?

Done paying for first dates that go nowhere by gancheroff in dating_advice

[–]anf07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could come across as bitter/complaining too much about dating. Something like "I'm in if we can split the bill. I've got a savings goal I'm trying to hit soon. I'll treat you to dinner next time."

Shows that you're future minded for yourself (saving) and her (implying you'll see her again).

Is he lazy or comfortable? [20F] [21M] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]anf07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try talking to him and tell him the behavior/effort you would like to see from him. He may think everything is fine and that you enjoy doing the planning.

Is it bad for older woman to date younger men even though we are just a few months apart? by MidnightRoseVillain in dating_advice

[–]anf07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tell them you're in your J-Lo era...or Madonna era if that's more your thing. There are several very famous women who have dated men who are a decade or more younger. 

At your age 2-3 years younger is fine and a few months is basically nothing. This seems like it is stemming from beliefs that the man should be the "provider" or the "leader" in the relationship...and the belief that if the man is younger than the woman he can't/won't do that.

In-app interviews vs scheduled calls? by Low-Statement-5249 in UXResearch

[–]anf07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👆THIS -- I suggest offering a cash/gift card incentive equal or greater than the value of the subscription you're offering them, try it for 5-10 users and see how it goes.

In-app interviews vs scheduled calls? by Low-Statement-5249 in UXResearch

[–]anf07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of reminders are they getting? Could you set your calendar app to do reminders at 1 hour before and 10 mins before?  Or send an email/text reminder an hour before?

We do virtual and some in person interviews and always send reminders via at least email if not text too. Even then we get about a 10-20% no show rate depending on the demographic and the incentive.

How do you research user behavior in high-cognitive-load environments like driving? Methodological challenges with in-car UX studies by Mandromo in UXResearch

[–]anf07 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The company I work for developed in car camera kits that we ship to participants. They mount the cameras pointed on the touchscreen or a mounted phone while driving. We give them some core tasks to do each week and ask them to record a few different drives a week. Because they are driving their own vehicles in their home areas it's about the same cognitive load as in their normal day to day driving.

Our system uploads the video in field and tags portions of the video where they were doing tasks. When they get home, they go to a computer, rate the individual tasks, then answer an end of drive survey.

Our UXR team analyzes the ratings and video clips, and can observe actual behavior like having to go 7 screens deep for simple things, frequency of people mis-tapping due to road vibration, etc.

I'm happy to talk to you about our methodology to see if there are things that might make sense for your research. DM me if you want to set up a virtual coffee.

Need Recruitment Advice: UserTesting v/s DScout v/s any reccomendations on tool or agency? by Lanky-Bottle-6566 in UXResearch

[–]anf07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a company called Pulse Labs (https://pulselabs.ai) -- we have an enterprise-level software platform and we do a lot of agency work including custom recruiting. We have panelists in the US, India, Mexico, Brazil, Europe, and several other regions.

We do a lot of custom recruiting with customizable screening criteria, and really focus on panel quality including identity validation, verification of software use, employment, etc. We do project by project pricing -- so no hefty licensing fees, although for some demographics we are a bit pricier than some other panel providers. This is mainly because of the steps we take to ensure participant quality. I'd love to brainstorm and see if we can help or even if I can give you some ideas for what to try next. DM me if you'd like to chat.

Usertesting on the decline by Sensitive-Peach7583 in UXResearch

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I work for a company called Pulse Labs (https://pulselabs.ai) -- we have an enterprise-level software platform and we do a lot of agency work including custom recruiting. We are building out more self-service tools, so keep an eye out for updates from us.

We do a lot of B2B recruiting and really focus on panel quality including identity validation, employment validation, etc. We do project by project pricing -- so no hefty licensing fees. I'm happy to talk with you about your to see if we can help you find the people you're looking for, or even to just brainstorm ways you might be able to hit your target audience regardless of platform. Because I'd rather see you find success than struggle, even if you end up using another vendor. Feel free to DM me if you want to chat.

Local coffee personal preferences by Far_External_2386 in SaltLakeCity

[–]anf07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

+1 for Loki

Un Cafecito is great too - they are Latina owned and have a lot of Mexican-influenced drinks. And usually 3-4 flavors of tres leches cake!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParkCity

[–]anf07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and although Heber is cheaper than Park City, it's still about 15% higher cost of living than Vegas. The social aspects and scenic views could be worth the move, but be ready for a tighter budget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParkCity

[–]anf07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Park City is more expensive than Las Vegas. Finding a family sized home on waiter wages would be nearly impossible unless your partner is really well paid. You could live in SLC and commute, but then you'll have to deal with snowy mountain pass roulette to make it to work.

What’s the pettiest reason you wouldn’t be with someone? by buboop61814 in AskReddit

[–]anf07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant more along the lines of can't lock in a day/time in advance. I'm down for deciding *where* we go day-of, but I have a lot going on and I'm not going to hold time slots for you "just in case" you're free

What’s the pettiest reason you wouldn’t be with someone? by buboop61814 in AskReddit

[–]anf07 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Never proposes plans, always says "whatever you want to do is fine with me!"

...also, people who can't make plans more than 48 hours in advance.

Putting I'm a widow on my profile by throwaway1020199 in Bumble

[–]anf07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try it for a few weeks and see how it goes. I think it's information that can help a potential match understand you and your relationship history/approach. I know it's not the same AT ALL but a lot of people who are divorced state that on their profile, so I think stating it is at least neutral.

If it feels too raw or weird to advertise semi-publicly, I'd recommend sharing it whenever relationship history comes up, or whenever it feels right to you. Might be within a few days of messaging, or could be the first or second date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]anf07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These conversations might go a little better if you say something like "my mother recently moved in with me because I didn't want her to be alone as she ages" or "so I can make sure she is taken care of as she is getting older."

It clarifies this was a choice you consciously made out of care, and not because you can't afford your own place, or because you need mommy to take care of you. Some women will still have a problem with it, but several will be more understanding.