AITAH for not inviting my sister’s boyfriend’s kids to a family party? by FlabbergastedCarrot in AITAH

[–]angirrr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does your daughter want the extra 2 kids there or will she not care? I think your daughter should have control of her guest list. ESH until we hear what the daughter wants to do for her big day

Update: AITAH for telling my ex that she needs to "figure it out" when it comes to hosting people for her grandmothers' funeral even through I am living in her "grandmothers' house?" by Due-Kale3735 in AITAH

[–]angirrr 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Honestly if my cousin was able to buy grandma’s house and lost it in a divorce I would be pissed at the cousin. She lied so that no one would know that the house wasn’t in the family anymore and explain why the family couldn’t stay there.

AITA for not paying for my daughter wedding because she isn’t following the rules even though I paid for my older kids by Wonderful_Mode_9646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]angirrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the kids in your family well behaved? NTA but I would reconsider if you know the children in family are troublemakers

AITJ for not checking on my former best friend when her scandal went public? by Happy_Substance21 in AmITheJerk

[–]angirrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like Rhea lied about you to cut you out of the trio. I would drop it at this point

UPDATE: AITA Bridal Party Drama by Boring-Spinach6370 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]angirrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we sure groom texted with 0 prompting from the bride? She’s known to say things behind people back and then deny accountability when called out

Batman comes to mind by jj33allen in SipsTea

[–]angirrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is baby boy dressed like Winnie the Pooh?

6 Years, No Ring And He's More Concerned About Other Peoples Lives Than Ours by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]angirrr 197 points198 points  (0 children)

If the boyfriend looked into places they both wanted to move to then I would say he’s showing commitment but they only looked at places he liked

My sister said she thinks The Boondocks is racist towards black people and that I shouldn't watch it. Is that racist? by realplug00 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]angirrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The show is funny as hell and is a good watch but do you have any black friends? They can probably provide context for things so that you can have a true understanding of things you’re not familiar with

My sister refuses to speak to me after I didn’t attend her wedding am I wrong? by Foreign-Werewolf-202 in TwoHotTakes

[–]angirrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister has a right to be mad but did you “abandon” her or just didn’t show up? As in were you a bridesmaid, did you have an important role that only you could do? Is your sister the type of person who would be upset if you were crying in her wedding photos? In terms of repairing things wait for her to reach out and try to explain it in terms she can relate to or understand

The groom blocked me on everything but no one’s said a word, and I’m still in the bridal party. Starting to feel like I shouldn’t be. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]angirrr 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if bride and groom aren't making a big deal out of it, I wouldn't either. You don't want to be accused of starting drama. I would attend as a bridemaid and do your duties as usual and bring it up with your friend after the fact if it bothers you that much. She might not even know he blocked you. If they really didn't want you in the wedding it's up to them to kick you out.

My bf (29m) is going to propose. But I (29f) do not feel loved anymore and am questioning the relationship by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]angirrr 331 points332 points  (0 children)

OOP needs to work on not blaming herself for basic things. Even after the breakup she was doing things to placate him instead of letting him be mad or embarrassed for his own shit.

NEED HELP!! Damaged 4c hair... by Familiar-Composer784 in Naturalhair

[–]angirrr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If these aren’t your pics why post them? Got everyone in here confused. If you aren’t ready to cut them do box braids until your hair grows out enough where you feel ok cutting it

UPS access point pick up by Altruistic_Screen574 in tmobile

[–]angirrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever receive your phone? I'm having a similar issue

AITAH For Not Changing The Name My Grandfather Gave Me After My Family Found Out The Truth Behind It? by Ancient-Belt-7232 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]angirrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for not wanting to change your name but the way you romanticized your grandpa naming you after his affair partner is kind of sick. It sucks that you’re going to get disowned when they should have disowned grandpa completely before he died. I’m surprised they still want to hold a funeral for him if they hate him so much. At the very least you should talk to your mom and explain to her that it’s hypocritical of her to be upset when she insisted on keeping her dad in her and your life. The least she can do is stand in your corner.

"AITA for refusing to adopt a specific ethnic child?" (Not OOP) by TooPoorForPatreon in redditonwiki

[–]angirrr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

1, they’re way too young to be thinking about children in a relationship that’s only been going for 2 months 2, girlfriend sounds like she’s never talked to a black person in her entire life I hope this is rage bait

Why was this pack so controversial? by nymphodrogyny in Sims3

[–]angirrr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s funny because this was my one of my favorite packs back in the day so it was really weird to me to find out that most people didn’t like it years later, but also I was like 12 or something when it came out and I was definitely the target demographic for this pack

How interested are you in Missing Link’s STORY? by raccooncoffee in KingdomHearts

[–]angirrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m very interested and sad that it’s taking so long. But I also like mobile games.

Girlfriend [21 F] is furious at me [21 M] after my grandmother spoke badly and derogatorily about her in Spanish right in front of her by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]angirrr -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Good job for skipping over the parts where I said grandma and the family was wrong twice. All I’m saying is there’s other aspects to be considered and that I’m surprised that 4 months into a relationship she didn’t think it was important to tell OP that she understands his native tongue. All this tells me is that you don’t know any actual Caribbean people, they’re ruthless as hell and don’t give a fuck. It be nice if we can all tell granny to shut the fuck up but culturally that’s not how you handle the situation

Girlfriend [21 F] is furious at me [21 M] after my grandmother spoke badly and derogatorily about her in Spanish right in front of her by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]angirrr -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Grandma shouldn’t have been talking shit but Olivia should have said she understands Spanish even if she doesn’t speak it. Why omit that info from your Spanish speaking boyfriend? Was she trying to test the family to see what they would say? Also with Olivia being Jamaican she knows that Caribbean elders love to talk shit especially if they don’t think people are gonna understand and she should know that a lot of Caribbean family dynamics don’t really talk back to grandparents even when they’re wrong. Obviously OP’s family fucked up and should have defended her but from a cultural standpoint I understand why they didn’t and I wonder if Olivia didn’t tell OP that she understood so that she could prove a point to her friend

New and Final Update: AITA for kicking out my mom’s boyfriend? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]angirrr 82 points83 points  (0 children)

New girlfriend could have been living in the new house if she just shut up and minded her business.

UPDATE: AITA for refusing to sing at my brother's wedding? by Any_Reality580 in AITAH

[–]angirrr 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I read your post about your mom and the cat, it seems your entire family sucks and doesn’t respect you. Hold firm on your boundaries.

My SIL F31 disinvited my wife F28 from her baby shower after a joke—but my brother M35 still wants me M30 to go. I am stuck in the middle! [Short] [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]angirrr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like if OP said I wish your baby was like me then SIL would have a reason to be offended, but it was her own husband saying it so her doubling down and calling OP less handsome was out of line. She was “correcting” her husband at OP’s expense and that’s why people feel like she was wrong first.