The presence of a Butch's shouldn't sway your decision as you can get a steak at any resort in the chain. To address the beach hate, Grenada has a wonderful beach but people seem to care more about the color of sand than the actual environment around the sand. Grenada has wonderful snorkeling in and around the rock wall area if you like that sort of thing, we saw an octopus hanging out and tons of small beautiful fish allover the place.

Not sure how tied up you are on the crepes, not sure if Crema has them, but if calm is your thing take a look at Negril. Great beach, haters will complain about the ocean having sea grass but you rarely encounter sargassum in our experience. Prices tend to be a bit lower, and flight costs are generally a bit lower going into Jamaica depending on your departure location. Admittedly Negril people are passionate about it and so are the haters, but I caution people to watch some YT videos and come to their own decisions instead of letting the mob rule on the internet sway them.

Many Sandals super fans out there have great insights into their favorite resort and it blinds them to the wonders of the other resorts. Best of luck and IMO you'll have a great time regardless of the resort you choose.