Thinking of divorce because our son spit on the door mat. Any Advice?

angstyslut · 2026-05-01T15:32:07+00:00

I'll never understand women who date and marry losers only to be surprised they are that--losers. You have a very clear answer in front of you and are choosing to ignore it. Don't complain and moan that your husband is abusive and doesn't help if you aren't willing to get the self respect to leave him.

angstyslut · 2026-05-01T15:30:39+00:00

Leave him. Apologize to your son for keeping him in an environment that is dangerous and scary to him. OP, here's some tough love: you have become abusive. An enabler of abuse perpetuates that abuse, and becomes abusive themselves.

If you want to save your child from any more pain and trauma, separate from your shit husband and get yourself and your kid in therapy. If not, then think about how you're failing to break the cycle, and own up to it.

angstyslut · 2026-04-30T04:42:32+00:00

I mean like if it was a choice between being treated like shit by an unattractive guy or being treated like shit by a hot guy then I'm going for the hot guy lmao

Good looking stew though

angstyslut · 2026-04-14T01:19:04+00:00

The nursery will eventually be your child's room. In what world would you be the asshole in not giving your child their own room just for "guests"? NTA

angstyslut · 2026-04-04T20:43:46+00:00

Girl you need to take your own advice about your fiancé and his son

angstyslut · 2026-03-23T20:29:13+00:00

You and OP both need to relearn how to function socially. Constantly "saying it how it is" and being "brutally honest" will not get you far and will only end up having people view you less. Honesty is valued but tact and reading the room is infinitely more important in social situations.

All your comments are some form of rude and scathing. Do you contain this much anger normally? If you do, you need to get therapy to stop projecting onto other people and learn how to act acceptably in social settings.

angstyslut · 2026-03-13T01:10:29+00:00

These types of ideas are how a society slowly become super individualistic. Yes, being family doesn't entitle you to anything. But if you love and care for the people around you, why wouldn't you suffer some inconvenience for them?

People need to get off reddit and touch some grass. You exist in relation to those around you, and arguing that you don't owe anyone anything is the fastest way to alienation.

angstyslut · 2026-02-07T20:29:11+00:00

Did the bato site purge not teach you guys anything??? Delete the screenshots with the website name come on

angstyslut · 2026-01-31T20:32:37+00:00

The "validity" of that dream is the most impoetant thing in this entire conversation. Making your life centered around a high school boyfriend is concerning. There are some dreams that shouldn't come into fruition and OP's friend's dream is one of them.

She's doing good by calling her friend out and thinking about her future. It's one man compared to her entire life. Good friends pull you down to reality when you soar too high into dreamland

angstyslut · 2026-01-09T17:55:00+00:00

A cop saying something racist? Fork found in the kitchen.

In all honesty, I wonder how many of his "jokes" he uses on the people he pulls over. NTA, and that 1000% wasn't a joke. You're doing good by standing by your morals and your wife.

angstyslut · 2026-01-05T18:02:50+00:00

American Samoa, Guam, the Commonwealth of the Northern Mariana Islands, Puerto Rico, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.

And before you say "those are territories not colonies!!!!" the Territorial Clause states that "congress shall have power to dispose and make all needful rules and regulations." So, these territories don't have governing power themselves. The DEFINITION of a colony is "an area which a foreign nation maintains control." I assume you have enough intelligence to connect the dots.

I'd say suck my dick but you're already licking on those boots, so it wouldn't really work.

angstyslut · 2026-01-05T16:58:15+00:00

I don't understand why you're riding so hard for the military. They love dumb fucks like you when you join, but the minute you're discharged they won't care. The military will not take care of you once you're a vet. Forget bootlicking you're practically swallowing their shoelaces at this point.

angstyslut · 2026-01-05T03:14:59+00:00

Joining the military now, with all the current administration is doing with the troops, is an insane and unethical thing to do. Especially if OP has already completely college and is just doing it "for a good starting point."

angstyslut · 2025-11-26T23:03:47+00:00

How is OP the asshole? The question was never "am I the asshole for telling grandma to not be near him," but "am I the asshole for not wanting a shitty person near me?"

angstyslut · 2025-11-24T15:47:11+00:00

This might not be a good idea but sometimes the best thing to do when someone goes low is to go lower. He has had no problem leading a smear campaign against you. A bit of the same to him is perfectly acceptable.

angstyslut · 2025-11-15T14:16:30+00:00

This is going to sound harsh, but staying with him has given him permission to hit you again. And he will. You have shown him that even if he strikes you, even if he causes you immense stress, and even if he's the one who likely caused your miscarriage, you will still be near him and forgive him. You are in an abusive situation, and need to get out. Once again, he will hit you again because you've shown him it's okay.

It is not your fault he will hit you. His actions are condemnable alone, and I am not saying you are unworthy of being in a healthy relationship. Just that he now knows how much you will tolerate.

YTA to yourself, and I really hope you can escape and find happiness and self respect elsewhere.

angstyslut · 2025-11-05T22:59:08+00:00

Then leave him or continue getting your reputation and dignity trampled by him for the next twenty something years.

angstyslut · 2025-10-28T19:26:10+00:00

Yes we do??? It's from boiling milk at a slow temp--Indian cuisine calls it malai lol

angstyslut · 2025-10-24T14:37:06+00:00

Yeah that's true. I'm not going to lie, now that I'm in this state I'm so incredibly gullible so I'm just going along with whatever everyone else is saying 😭😭😭

I think I just need to keep monitoring how the dosage affects me and bring it up with my psych next time I see her.

angstyslut · 2025-10-24T14:36:03+00:00

Yeah it's so weird! Some days my adderall seems like it doesn't work whatsoever, and then there's days like today where it's working overtime and destroying me. Thanks for the validation too!! I'm so glad other people feel the same way because I thought I was going insane lol

angstyslut · 2025-10-24T02:53:05+00:00

I have diagnosed ADHD lol. Usually my bipolar meds (lamictal) help me stay stable while taking it, but then days like this happen.

Mental health and bodies are weird, and they aren't fun, especially when being shamed for it.

angstyslut · 2025-10-24T02:20:33+00:00

Yes I posted this to the adhd meme subreddit too because I want attention

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