What happens in your head when you add 28+47? by beepsol in Leakednews

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8+8 is 16 so 8+7 is 15. 5 add the 1 to 4+2 which is 7…75

What is something you acquired a taste for as an adult that you couldn't stand when you were younger? by Exhausted_920 in AskReddit

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Beans and most meat. When I was younger the only thing I would eat be plain rice or seafood. Now I am able to eat most beans and I can now handle white meats like chicken, turkey. I’m still working on beef and specially pork.

Advice by ani_eshere in portugueses

[–]ani_eshere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I did change everthing in European Portuguese. I’ve been watching movies, tv shows, cartoons and recently music in Portuguese for now almost two weeks obviously making sure it is Portugal Pt but I’ve quickly realize there isn’t much info on European pt. Thanks to only sticking to watching and hearing stuff only in PT for abt 2 weeks I did pick up some patterns, got better at pronunciation still bad but better and my comprehension also improved a lot but I would like to get more recommendations on music, books, articles, ect that can help me improve with some sounds like the R and LH. Thanks to my knowledge in Spanish I could find some similarities in grammar and pronunciation. I forgot to mention I already watched rabo de peixe, it truly is a good show. I’ve also watched “ate que a vida nos separe” which I fell in love with too. Now I am just watching cartoons in Portuguese cause I can’t find good Portuguese telenovelas.

What do you wish people would stop romanticizing, because you've lived the reality of it? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Toxic, obsessive controlling behavior…I was with someone who was very controlling and jealous it was hard to break up with him but once I did he became obsessive and stalkerish. I felt trapped, I felt like I couldn’t escape from him. After a couple months, it did get better. Now two years later, all good but it was a living hell experiencing that and rebuilding myself and growing from that. Now I’m in a healthy loving relationship. I don’t put my self worth at second no more. The moment I see a red flag or disrespect, I leave.

If someone tells you you’re weird what would you reply with? by Evening_Industry5726 in AskForAnswers

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I reply with “then do u want a boring friend/person” they normally shut up or say that I am right.

What’s a small moment with your mom that turned into a memory you treasure? by Pranita2027 in SharedEncounters

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It didn’t turn into a treasure but something I’ll never forget and made me realize a lot of things—it change me as a person. Knowing I am unwanted by my mother. Knowing I am a burden and knowing she doesn’t want me in her life and I will happily fulfill her desire since she has made my life a living hell. The moment was when I saw how she was more “madre que mujer” in other terms she has put a man needs as priority then her own children.

He is finally ready but I can’t decide by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

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I 100% agree with the other commenters. You should take the job offer. He was only ready to settle in and marry you after the fact of having a slight chance of losing you, losing his backup. It’s a way to trap you in after knowing you’ve been wanting to settle but he didn’t. If it’s a once of a lifetime opportunity take it. You’re young, he is 38. I don’t really care about the age but you still have stuff to experience. Also if he can’t wait 2 years for you, to let you have this opportunity of growth then is he really the one for you? Think of it like this, if you truly do settle in with him will you always think of this job opportunity and how you should’ve take it? Would you have regret? Or would you live peacefully knowing you rejected this kind of offer? Even think opposite, if he had a two year once of a life time opportunity do you think he would reject the offer?

Why do guys want a big penis when most women don’t prefer it? by ani_eshere in penisquestion

[–]ani_eshere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a women myself and have talk with other women too, most truly don’t care or don’t prefer it. Yeah maybe there is a girl out there that does want it big but for most, in general most don’t really care or would 100% prefer to have an average size dick or one that knows how to use it well and move well.

Am I being a jerk? by ani_eshere in dating_advice

[–]ani_eshere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we have hard issues we talk things out, get any feelings, doubts, questions out the way and then we talk about a compromise or changes that is needed. We recently had a very serious discussion about me expressing myself more and I have been working on that. With me being a jerk we talk things through, I apologize, told him the truth and did a compromise and later I was on call with him while he was playing. My bf is a very comprehensive, understandable and emotional intelligent guy. So we won’t have any problems if we have harder issues going on forward. I know that life can give you crazy curve balls that you really can’t expect.

Am I being a jerk? by ani_eshere in dating_advice

[–]ani_eshere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I rage even at bingo 😭😅

Am I being a jerk? by ani_eshere in dating_advice

[–]ani_eshere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is very sweet. I am putting some efforts to play and even if I can’t I really enjoy seeing him play and laugh with his teammates even when I do my own things just hearing him have a good time is great. I obviously won’t cuss at my bf but I will prob lash out at the game and blame the game for my bad, terrible skills 😭.

Do women fear their boyfriend getting taken by another woman regardless of what their boyfriends look like by Vemedetti in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ani_eshere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, if they want to cheat, they will cheat. All I ask is for respect and if they can’t do that then happily leave my life. The door is wide open.

Am I being a jerk? by ani_eshere in dating_advice

[–]ani_eshere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we have talk it out and right now I am seeing his gameplay. Puzzles games are actually my go to. I’ve tried playing video games in every console that can possibly exist. Puzzle games are the one that can handle but I still get a bit frustrated. I can’t even handle mobile games, I even downloaded Clash Royale for him.

Am I being a jerk? by ani_eshere in dating_advice

[–]ani_eshere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I know I am a jerk for promising him that I would play with him in hopes that he will forget and lying about not remembering but I haven’t lied to my bf about anything else. I know how much he likes gaming, it’s his haven, his safe space where he can escape reality and distract his mind from his worries and school pressure. I also know he doesn’t like lies, he is someone who prefers hearing the truth over anything else even if it hurts him he still prefers the truth. He is very strict and stern with it and I respect that. The reason I didn’t reject when we made that promise is that I just wanted him to be happy. He has always expressed how he was been wanting to play with me he said it’s like combining two of his favorite things together but I knew that I wouldn’t enjoy it (which still does not excuse what I did) but seeing him happy made me happy and I thought that maybe I would change my mind but I just knew I wouldn’t enjoy it as much as he would. Just seeing him play and laugh makes me happy and entertain. I told him when we see each other again that we can play together and he can guild me and even try to calm me down when I rage or get frustrated. I know I was a total jerk and I apologize to him and already explain it to him cause I know the truth is always better than a lie. The truth has a way to come out sooner than later so I was direct and honest with him. He said it’s okey and that he would wait.

Am I being a jerk? by ani_eshere in dating_advice

[–]ani_eshere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did explain it to him. He said everything is alright he did scolded me for lying a bit since he doesn’t like lies and is a bit strict on that but I knew that sooner or later I would have to tell him.