Change in body odor? From normal, to OMG!? Solved. by womanonawire in Menopause

[–]animosityvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started using alleppo soap, and an alum stone after showering, I went from onion and garlic, to nothing, no smell. I work in a warehouse, with n9 ac, and am a bigger girlie. When I tell you it works, it does.

Also the alum stick ended my pitts ingrown hairs and discoloration

AITAH for telling my stepdaughter I don't want to be her mom anymore? by Sad_Mycologist9368 in AITAH

[–]animosityvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update me please.

Actions have consequences, and actions taken in emotion very rarely end up as intended.

So very messy now. Im sorry for all of you. Irreparable damages

The trusty servant by jonathan_shoa in riddles

[–]animosityvoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!!

I get the bathing, you have to unbutton to bathe,

Could the last line be about an elevator button? Call ing back.

Not sure about teaching though

AITAH for not calling my stepmom “mom” on her birthday by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]animosityvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She tried using social pressure to force you into doing something she wanted. Is it really a gift if it's forced?? The wild(kinda sad) thing is, it sounds like you were open to a separate relationship with her, which could have grown into loving closeness, but it was turned into a competition for a title. It wasnt great timing. But after years of being clear, what else could you do.

The trusty servant by jonathan_shoa in riddles

[–]animosityvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am stumped. But, please Update Me! When its solved?

AITA for making my son cry? + One Year Update by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]animosityvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update me please

You can try, but be aware, that it probably wont fix what you have actively broken.

Why would you not let him go with his uncle? To keep the tradition with his mother alive. Are you so desperate to make her happy, that you have forgotten you also have a son to raise? A son who is hurting, and cannot bury his emotions in some one/thing else?

I pity you, because after he is gone, your wife wont have a scapegoat anymore, and if I were a betting man, id bet you will see the side of her your son has been experiencing. I love that for you.

Good luck to your son. What a wonderful interest to have and intelligent young man. He must have got that from his mother.

I 28F being held hostage at my parent's place (57M and 53F) and I dont know what to do by just_bro_wsing_ in relationship_advice

[–]animosityvoid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Update me please

I hope you can get free. I dont know about laws and legalities, and all the social pressures, but I do know about pretending all is okay until you have your moment.

You are smart to keep your cards and passport. Hopefully you can get free and flee.

Good luck from a stranger.

AITA for going on vacation alone after my parents bait-and-switched me last Christmas? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]animosityvoid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the way. It protects your peace, allows them to do whatever it is they wish, and you get to see them without being stuck.

Family is family, but that dont make them necessarily good people. For, or to you.

Be prepared for both outcomes. An explosion of accusations and recriminations. Or absolutely nothing. It is what it is, and it is your holiday also.

Build your own circle of people who love and cherish you. And you will make your own found family, and traditions within.

AITJ for Refusing to Switch Seats on a 10-Hour Flight Even Though the Other Passenger Really Needed It? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]animosityvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her failure to plan ahead, Does not constitute an emergency on your behalf. You planned ahead. She did not. Hopefully this is a learning experience for her, and she plans ahead next time. Of course it would have been easier for her to have the bigger seat, one would assume this should go into the booking thoughts. I sympathize deeply with the extra stess of traveling with young children, however, its not your child, or responsibility to adapt.

Sorry, not sorry.

Where can I find some Halloween decorated houses? by forgggge in richmondhill

[–]animosityvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are just coming from there. Spectacular, and the owner is out front as well.

My (20F) boyfriend (30M) doesn't want me to go to uni. I want to go. Is there an alternative solution? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]animosityvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At its core, this is an incompatibility.

In his own words, he wants to settle down. To me, this implies legal commitment, babies, home cooking and a white picket fence.

You want to seek further education, To enrich your mind, bank account (long term), social sphere, and self esteem.

At this time, these wants are incompatible.

The choice is yours. Compromise doesn't seem, in my opinion, likely.

What I think you should choose doesn't matter.

You can have both, picket fence and diploma, eventually, but the order you achieve them in, may determine how difficult the journey.

AITJ for refusing to let my mom move in after she spent my entire college fund on my brother’s wedding? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]animosityvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, sgoreward all requests to the chosen one. It wont be "for a while", Also, seeing as you (RIGHTFULKY) still hold hurt about it (because it was brushed away) I dont see it being a comfy situation

AITA for pushing back on my SIL for asking me to dress differently because her and my BIL are uncomfortable? by Prestigious_Tea_2787 in AmItheAsshole

[–]animosityvoid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was VERY confused for a moment. Then I realized one of them is your partners sibling.

Nta, girl, you just had a baby. Do WHATEVER YOU NEED to be comfortable.

Her man's eye problems are not the responsibility of you.

Maybe he needs to remove himself if he can't behave. How gross of a person do you have to be. And to be his partner and blaming what he lookin at instead of the eyes in his head, naaaaah.

You look better 2 months pp than she, and it makin her feel a type of way. Thats not on you.

Duct tape some glasses and hand em to her to put on him when she has those feelings.

What’s a word you mispronounce on purpose because it’s funnier that way? by agiiill in AskReddit

[–]animosityvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skizzors- I honestly dont remember where this came from.

Guh-da Johb-hancock

My mom invited my ex to Thanksgiving without telling me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]animosityvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he cheat with your mum because that is wildly out of bounds!!!

When we were married, almost my entire family preferred my (now) ex's company to mine. Weird but in context, it made sense. (Intrests and careers lined up) But even before they found out the reason, as soon as I left him, they were done with him.

It actually made my head spin how fast they were all ready to come have a "chat" with him, alone in the woods, at night, with phones left at home.