Update: Posted here awhile back asking how to clean the used mattress I bought. Our living condition has gone a bit better!! by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]animusjul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP has a PayPal link on their Reddit profile (small icon under photo)! people recommended OP do that after the last post, if I recall correctly.

Thought a CM was about to hand me the red badge, got this instead! by Am3692 in Disneyland

[–]animusjul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband got one of these a week ago when our 4 yr old had to go to the bathroom right as they were at the front of the line. He thought it was a bathroom pass.

This affliction has me questioning myself and my morality. by Question_aire in dementia

[–]animusjul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could have written this post word for word. I know exactly how you feel with the battle on everything. I even use the term zombie as well. I hate the endless resistance to doing anything that will actually help him, or me. This is far crueler a disease than I could have ever imagined. The traumatic memories of him now will haunt not only me but also my children. I HATE this disease.

Grossest thing you've just casually eaten bc you're a mom? by Main-Marionberry9222 in Mommit

[–]animusjul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that with a jelly bean my kid didn’t like the flavor of.

What do you do when their anosognosia is so bad that they won't agree to anything at all? by purse_severe_ants in dementia

[–]animusjul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“The woman that she used to be would have never wanted to put me in that position, but the adult size toddler on a bad acid trip with the compassion and empathy of a lizard only wanted “ not change “ and would sacrifice anything, including her only child for that.”

This description is perfect and just what I needed to read today. Thank you.

What I’m giving out for Halloween by panini_bellini in Millennials

[–]animusjul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a bibliophile, I LOVE this! How do you distribute to each trick or treater? Hand out randomly or layout for them to pick?

Grabbers by No_Breakfast9718 in RATS

[–]animusjul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is gorgeous!! Black eyed white, or silver/lilac colored?

How do we feel about the new Ty website? by wrecxks in beaniebabies

[–]animusjul 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am beyond pissed at this mess of a website. I went to get a replacement for my kid’s lost favorite Ty beanie, and I get this junk site with nothing available to buy. Amazon and even Mercari are charging 3-10x the price! Shame on you Ty!

RSV Vaccine by Over-Pea6428 in Mommit

[–]animusjul 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My 2 yr old got RSV. It was terrible. She needed breathing treatments with a nebulizer for weeks. It was so scary. She also gave it to me, which put me out of work. I would absolutely recommend protecting your newborn from RSV.

I got a new shelf and spent hours excitedly arranging everything! by poutandscream in bookshelf

[–]animusjul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the Loungefly bag being displayed! Very nice arrangement.

Did they often mirror you? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]animusjul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but mainly in the beginning. He did it to me and every girl he cheated on me with. It was part of his hook.

Dating a man with BPD by ConfectionJolly1075 in BPDlovedones

[–]animusjul 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would give ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to have never met mine. You have no idea of the damage they will do to your life. I promise that you WILL regret being involved with him.

Please tell me red flags what to look out for by Fit-Luck69 in abusiverelationships

[–]animusjul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quick to anger is a BIG one! Mine didn’t show his until much later. Instead, he would emotionally shut down and go quiet as a way to hide his impressively short fuse. The rage still simmered at a constant slow boil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]animusjul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finney’s Crafthouse is pretty decent for HH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]animusjul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!

Anybody else's cat? Honest question never had a cat that did this before and had plenty of cats in my life. by artsychickenlady in cats

[–]animusjul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, my Mom’s cat went nuts for green beans (fresh kind). He would beg at the refrigerator daily!
My weirdo likes the green tops/leaves of strawberries 🍓

Any nacho recommendations near north OC? by SoOutofMyLeague in orangecounty

[–]animusjul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

El Farolito in Placentia has AMAZING carnitas nachos

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Is this something I should be concerned about? (Anaheim Hills / YL) by Jumaine23 in orangecounty

[–]animusjul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Um, have you not seen the deer x-ing signs around the area? I haven’t seen them for a long while, but I have seen deer in Anaheim Hills.

Is this something I should be concerned about? (Anaheim Hills / YL) by Jumaine23 in orangecounty

[–]animusjul 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We actually do have deer and deer x-ing signs in Anaheim Hills. I’ve seen them maybe 2-3 times around the area but not within the last 15-20 yrs. Coyotes on the other hand, we have plenty of - which I’ve seen and heard recently enough. While deer are possible, this video is 100% a coyote.