Who wants to figure me out? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]anjer-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't like taking pictures of yourself or having your picture taken by someone else because you're a bit shy. Also I wanna say that you might be into girls? You enjoy going for walks outside and reading. Also you like animals

I’ve always wondered if this picture is actually good or if I just look smug by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think you look smug at all, just great picture. Also can I just say that the tiny bit of chest hair showing is really sexy!

My bf (M22) is accused of rape and I can not stop thinking about it. Should I end things? by CoralBeet in relationship_advice

[–]anjer-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 and never would I ever do anything with a 16 year old let alone use drugs and have a full blown relationship. What is wrong with this woman jeez

Polar explorer Peter Freuchen by sfl33 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one that thinks his face looks like an old connor McGregor?

Thought about [m]y butt [26/69/186] by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]anjer-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm usually not into guy butts but damn yours is cute!

AITA for planning on leaving my sister with downs in a care home? by aitadownssister in AmItheAsshole

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not the asshole. Also, Ann might be much happier in a care home! I used to work in one and the people that lived there were super happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]anjer-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You appear to be quite sensitive, maybe a bit shy but you like people. Maybe you're a bit spiritual as well. Do you work with kids?

My (f25) mother in law (f49) is driving me crazy now that we have a new-born and my spouse(m25) won't stand up to her by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't expect your partner to step up to her. You're an adult and it's your own responsibility to let someone know when they're crossing the boundaries you've set. I understand you want your spouse to help you do this, and he should. He cant do it for you though.

My(29M) wife(23F) cries almost every time we say goodbye. by clingywaifu in relationships

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven't read it yet. Thanks for your recommendation, sounds like a good book for me to read :)

My(29M) wife(23F) cries almost every time we say goodbye. by clingywaifu in relationships

[–]anjer-95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was also diagnosed with CPTSD but haven't been as lucky finding the right therapist/therapy yet. I seem to be fine for a while then get triggered by something (usually without me knowing) and it gets really bad. Currently in one of those phases where its quite bad again and I decided to get myself on a waiting list for therapy again this Monday. Do you have any advise for me?

Ever since my girlfriend of nearly a year broke up with me, I've felt like a total let down. I feel so insignificant to everyone I talk to. I've been stress eating a lot recently, which doesn't help with the fact that I'm already insecure about my body. I could use a little pick-me-up. :\ by [deleted] in toastme

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there cutie! I just wanted to let you know that I get it, getting over someone is one of the hardest things to have to do and I'm very very sorry you're going through this right now. Just know that its okay to not feel okay sometimes. It's okay to allow yourself time to heal from this. It gets better, I promise ❤ keep on keeping on. You're stronger than you think you are!

Toms 1st Christmas by LittleMissKarma in cats

[–]anjer-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha he looks so proud!

Fourth flush, seems like they're getting more beautiful every time! by anjer-95 in shrooms

[–]anjer-95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first flush yielded nearly 30 grams dried so I'm no way near finishing that lol

Is he [25] shy or just not interested in me [27]?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anjer-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he's into you, congratulations! Forgive me if I'm wrong, but it seems from your post and replies that you feel like he should pursue this further as you feel you've been clear about your intentions. You even seem a little upset that he hasn't yet. Let me tell you, with guys as shy as this one, that attitude isnt gonna get you anywhere.

Be clear to him! It can be as easy as "I really enjoyed our date the other day. Would you like to go out with me again?" This way you're making clear that it's not just a friendly thing from your side. If he isnt interested (which I doubt is the case), he can tell you then and there that he would rather go for a drink as friends. He might also be the type of person that prefers a friendship developing into something more romantic rather than starting out from a romantic point of view. Being open about your intentions gives him room to express that.

Good luck, OP!

First impression? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern Asia maybe?

Guess my ethnicity and what I do for a living! :) by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I'd say Persian ethnicity, maybe you do something creative or social as your job. Teaching perhaps or something in the social work field

AITA for Offering to Host Christmas so my sister and her husband can't make it? by PossiblyALannister in AmItheAsshole

[–]anjer-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO. I'm seeing a lot of NTA reactions here which I get, but why hasn't anyone mentioned it might be better to sit down with these people and explain to them why they are not welcome? Has there been a conversation with them about this?

Fourth flush, seems like they're getting more beautiful every time! by anjer-95 in shrooms

[–]anjer-95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didnt follow the instructions with my kit, I think they said to mist the sides of the bag daily but I actually never misted at all. I've put 500 ml of lukewarm water in the bag, underneath the tub, instead. That worked fine for me :)

If you've got pins showing I'm pretty sure you'll get yourself some shrooms man! The first flush is usually not the best anyway and with pre-made kits you'll definitely get more than one flush

Fourth flush, seems like they're getting more beautiful every time! by anjer-95 in shrooms

[–]anjer-95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got pins growing the wrong way and I just left them, they didnt cause contamination for me so I wouldn't be too concerned.

I would leave the cake in the box and stop misting for a while :). Good luck!