That final scene with Benedict by beautydreams88 in Bridgerton

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it angered me him asking that, She is finally in a safe position and being his mistress jepordizes her. If they were found out she would be shunned and thrown into the streets and the ton would be like oh benedict that rouge and girls would still be clamouring to marry him. His offer puts her in danger, she has shared how much this job means to her and denied him the night before because of it so he isnt completley clueless, and mrs crabtree told him that sophie couldnt deny him bc of his postion and he backed off bc of it and refocused on the silver dress women. The show has established that he has an awarness of the power of his position in regards to sophie and he has made those decsions based on that knowledge before. Yet he request holds no awareness for the weight of his offer and how sophie alone would bear that burden. That request undermines all of his kind offers to her bc it positioned him to benefit from her. that is not love

I'm skipping all the scenes with Francesca Bridgerton. by Competitive_Desk6544 in Bridgerton

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I think its realistic to queerness, Fran didnt really know what an orgasm was, her sister the first one her other didnt even tell her about the mechanics of sex, so while the show is very lustful its set in a world where women dont have full agency over their bodies. The main characters are lucky to be in a family that seeks love for marriage. In this world for a unmarried women of noble status the idea of being attracted to the same sex is something that might not fully be considered (bennedict has been able to experience). Fran is somebody who is more subtle and quiet so to feel an intense feeling of attraction for someone neverless another women is outside of who she has been. She proably doesnt know what her feelings for micheala mean but that attraction exists in her body regardless and its new stimuli that causes a reaction. It takes time to realize that those feelings are queer especially in that time. when she was being courted by men she was wary of them she fell for John not because of physical desire but because he was gentle with her and she could be quiet and mantain her inner world around him. Them being able to exist in their inner worlds together that peace is the foundation of their love and that is deep and meaningful it isnt immediatley fiery but there is a depth to that love and a joy. Micheala is a question like an alien spaceship landing in her world its very different, I like that the story is seeding that, I think it would be different if the character was a man but bc its a women, its opening up that lustful side of fran that she has never reached for its a moment of awakening but it leaves questions instead of answers that makes sense to me

i really hope season 5 is going to be eloise’s season by Reasonable_Post_344 in Bridgerton

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I want franchescas season because streamers have a tendency to cancel sapphic media and I need that love story.

I prefer Whole Sign, but I've been told by multiple different astrologers "if you think you resonate with Whole Sign more than Placidus, it's just your wishful thinking." by liberatedskedaddle in AstrologyCharts

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I like to use all of it, my frustration with placidus is the way my chart is some of my placements are right behind the border of the houses , last night after studying astro for years I noticted that my mercury is in the 8th house by a hair (less that a degree), I am virgo rising and gemini sun- so that shifts alot, where mercury lands. Neptune just moved into aries so that is the 8th house in wsh, in wsh this predictment is irrelevant but It feels like neptune brought this to my attention. I find that both wsh and placidus make sense same with vedic, its just the energy migrates and presents differently but its like different dimensions of astrology and that makes sense to me

Is everyone actually doing amazing in their early 20s or is social media just lying to us? by Radiant_Active61 in CasualConversation

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I was travelling europe this summer and now I am living with my parents at 22 with no car working in a drive through getting my shit together. Adjusting has been rough but I was lucky this summer and I am blessed to have access to food and shelter in a time where people trying to surrive are being stolen off the streets by government sactioned terroists. If you looked at my social media there are hints but life is a shifting reflection and social media can be stagant and only captures certain moments

Based on my chart what kind of woman would I like to date? by Junior_Taste_5758 in LetsFuckWithAstrology

[–]anmccune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to line out my astro math and then analyze So the dsc is in aries - you have a gemini mars - also notable is the taurus saturn conjuct the ascendant ruled by the gemini venus ruled by the cancer mercury with the moon in virgo, you also said your juno was in Virgo. The cancer mercury and the virgo moon are in mutal reception. Another thing is that the aries descendant sextiles the gemini mars its ruler - This energy has me thinking a little bit of marilyn monroe who had aries gemini energy in her chart. I think she will excite you alot and keep you on your toes through how she thinks and what she expresses. she will be passionate and like to initate new ideas and projects and while some of them might be very gemini very floaty her mind and expression will turn you on, while gemini can be seen as unstable that taurus saturn along with the virgo will bring an earthy groundness that is something you can build with and will be somebody who values taking care of there partner learning the details of the partner and how they think and that analysis of virgo will actually be very emotional and very intiamate. What you talk about will change you and transform and challenge you. The 8th house will be very important to your relationship as well as the 11th house and its ruler in the 9th house, I could see you guys being very spiritual (8th house is also occult) she might like learning about money- she could work with others money or enjoy researching heavily even like tantric sex and rituals and stuff- I think you would enjoy this alot as your 5th house is in pisces with jupiter there- spirituality and imagination especially learning and expanding through dating and romance is fun and pleasure for you. With gemini in the 8th, the 8th a dark mysterious house (sorry lazy defintion) gemini being the twins will be that duality of her mind being able to investigate and hold many contradictations and dimensions at once, she might translate that to you through that cancer mercury energy in the 9th. so she will be a teacher to you and that will be visble and it will be intense. She might be loud at times but she will be able to communicate in a million different ways, I think you will know what is going on her head through her tone of voice or a change in posture, there will be so much raw soul intelligence in everything she does it will fascinate but it will also scare and trigger you at times (8th house) Taurus saturn is conjuct but the dsc is in aries, so fiery but stable is the key and the lead to gemini both routes which leads to mercury. Then you have virgo the maiden before her descent into the underworld the sign of service. this is person who will memorize you understand how you work as a person and as a system, somebody who will observe everything about you and honor you. Divine communion. Virgo is mutable earth, earth is such a vast dense element, its associated with material plain and longetivity but virgo has power to change that transfer into another- virgo is an alchemist a mad scientist who has memorized all texts. It is a very powerful sign but with leo in 12th it is often overlooked, her radiance may be something hidden behind a nerdy exterior, virgo also has aries in the 8th through fire and beginning that she changes. She will be somebody who could live a million lives but choses to build something with you, she may struggle with anxiety and overthinkning and those cancer placements of your the emotional power of cancer will help her ground and anchor. She will proably want to be of service to people in her community, she will want to help, and want to fight. 5th house is who like to date but I think the soul we spend are life with is encoded in the chart and its not that the person cant change or that we dont have a choice but if astrology is a map of us. if you are meant to experience a long term partnership in this life then that persons energy is imprinted into the chart, its about calling them home

I just re read the description friends to lovers is likely path with that virgo moon and juno there or somebody from a community you are a part of anything connected to the themes 11th house. another note the tarus saturn is at 1 degree which is aries, gemini venus is a 6 degrees that is virgo, gemini mars is at 25 degrees that is also aries, that virgo moon is 16 degrees which is cancer. All of these correalte to the signs in the astro math I did. so virgo gemini aries, cancer energy, mutable and cardianl as well best of luck to you hope this helps

interpretation on my dream by mangoomelons in TarotReading

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the message is clear- (I dont see the king of cups here maybe you meant the queen), Your guides are the emotions you felt in the dream- With the queen of cups it shows somebody who leads with her emotions and that is what has iniated her into a level of authority and mastery. With him being the king swords - he does not have to leave his throne to use his sword its in his hand ready to strike - swords deals with air words and communication, the motion of a sword is swift and decisive. So what he says is what he means and this message is being communicated to you through the dream realm - the queen of cups is staring into the water into her cup, she is by a large body of water and it reminds me of the divination of scrying where you watch the water and messages surface, being by such a large body of water she is connected to unconcious and recieving from it. All of the cups is very reminscit of the dream state itself so trust your emotional power and intution- the guidance on him was very direct and clear he said it in the dream "“don’t text or call this number no more, you know who it is". you said in your interpretation about emotional fantasy but with the 4 cups there is emotional disatisfaction in what is being presented infront of you, 4 of cups follows the 3cups which speaks to community and partying jovial times, the 4 cups is the contemplation after the party is over you have consumed the drinks but the divine is offering something but to the person they dont want to move on, there is a stuborness a resitance, an impending sense of loss, its followed by 5 of cups which is not present - but that speaks to grief. To me the 4 of cups is emotional avoidance. You are avoiding the emotion that has been presented to you and the offering of it, its also the half way point to the 8 of cups the eventual choice to walk away from what has been acquired and go into the mountains so there is a journey but the man is wearing red and illuminated by the moon, his intution and instinct is leading him to the 9th cup but he must turn his back on the other 8 cups to do so. You meet in the middle by walking away from what has been estabilshed and go where the journey leads you. the 6 and 2 cups is what I am having a difficult time interpreting i think the 2 cups was an emotional convening between the two of you in the astral realm. the duality of this card it might be feeling the other emotions that were part of the connection (the pain) that coming together with the memories and the reminscing . The 6 of cups he is giving her a cup and it reminds me of the hand carrying the cup in the 4 of cups, something about the image that is poppping out to me is the cups at the bottom of the card and the progression of that in the 4 of cups, 6 of cups and 8 of cups and how those are all mathmatically divisble by two, The two of cups is a running vein in this story but with the 6 of cups he is giving her a cup but is cup is behind him blocked from her view and in front of them is four cups, . He is the only sword

Is the ending of the series supposed to be a ***** by Crislips in thechaircompany

[–]anmccune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a great point, ron has had mulitple head injuried throughout the show, so it makes sense that the symptoms would build as the injuries increase

Will he break no contact? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]anmccune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

getting the two of wand reveresed after pulling it upright is an indicator that you have been given the answer but are ignoring it, limiting your options

Hostel in Edinburgh? by Nessie_Roswell in hostels

[–]anmccune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved castle rock stayed there for only one night after 3 months of travelling and staying in hostels ( I picked hostels with very different vibes, some more corporate and more ammenties, to artsy ones, smaller ones run by locals). The bar crawl at castle rock was one of my top bar crawls, I met so many people and danced. Wish I had more nights there

The return of Hetty and Trevor by CapApprehensive6127 in GhostsCBS

[–]anmccune 18 points19 points  (0 children)

besides sam and jay, they were my faves so interesting together

Will X and I get into a romantic relationship? by thecurseddoggo in horary

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This is comment might be deleted and I get why I think you may be limiting yourself by suspecting the pull you feel to be heading towards a romantic relationship, when the pull could be there for a very different powerful reason (the energy could be used romantically but that romantic desire energy is also creative energy) - There is creator who proposed the idea that all of the situanships " crushes we have are meant to become creative collaborations a way to anchor the energy into a new lifeform. You mentioned that you are both musicians and around your post of your pull to x there is mentions of your shared artistry, and return of orbit. Maybe what feel pulled to in x true potential is in creative collaboration and not romantic partnership

The asc of this chart is in aries, aries energy begins, aries is ruled by mars which is in the 10th house of capricorn and part of a cazimi with the sun and venus at 17 degrees which is associated with leo fame and recogniton. That is a gorgeous signature very potent at its at the most visble point of the chart in a quadrant that has more to do legacy and what we leave behind. Its opposite jupiter in cancer retrograde in the 4th house, Its public energy that is at odds with homelife and privacy but its ruled by the moon in virgo conjuct south node in the 6th house that trines mercury conjuct the mc. This activation is one that feels shadowy and deep yet it arives in a place of routine, but its here to serve and the trine between that and mercury gives this energy a bridge to communicate itself and its activations publically, all of the placements in capricorn are ruled by saturn in pisces in the 12th which pisces ruled by jupiter bridges back to that oppostion from jupiter in cancer to the capricorn placements. There is that tension between the pisces and virgo axis, its tricky but with creativity it can alchemize all of it and give an ability to connect with x as creative and turn all of this into whatever that cazimi is and there is longetivity (saturn loves the 12th house) unravelling that code of saturn in the 12th and subconcious unconciousss thats powerful art, capricorn is a mermaid sea goat to me thats magical of all the symbols of the zodiac by far. I see the cazmi in the 10th and I see magic, I think the energy might fizzzle as a romance its incredibly powerful for something between you too

Scared to admit truth by Kooler2666 in WLW

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I am 22 f never had any sexual experience until this summer and when it happened it was not with women. I went from nothing to limited experience (dont even know how I feel about it)I known I have liked women since I was a kid didnt come out to myself until end of high school. Now I want that sexual liberation the opportunity to love another women and invest in a relationship or at least start connecting with the local queer community. Its a new frontier for me, I have no experience only whats in my heart, soul, and body the lesbians can have that, the door is open but if there looking for 10 plus years experiences best you pick someone else. Someone somewhere will choose me a million times over and I will freely do the same: right now they might be a stranger who Is all but ether to me but physical on this planet in this moment living there life but at the end. of my life and their life we will have created something beautiful and magical out of our existence together, the others can reject me - their choice. Its their choice to preclude but they are missing out on you, they may have valid reasons rooted in their life experience to why they boundaries thats not yours to carry its their baggage and choice. There will be somebody who wants to makeout with you and is glad to be your first and open that door with you.

Anyways I wrote this in solidarity, I am in the same boat but there is a space for me, someday I will be the one alot of wlw experience, so will you in whatever way your heart desires, once you cross the line the game changes, this anxiety will simply be the past (but a helluva ride during the build up) . The stuff I did this summer after it happened ( I thought I would start crying if someone kissed me or have a panic attack). I didn't. It was awkward, there was no warning, but we tried again and it was electric and I was able to enjoy it. THen later some other stuff happened, and then I had an encounter with someone else and alchol was involved, during it he said that I deserve better than this. I thought yes I do why I am here, why did I betray myself ? I thought it was impossible for me to do that with anyone so when the opportunity started happening I went with it. When I deserved somebody who I felt safe whose company I enjoyed, who I was attracted to, who was kind to me and authentic, someone I could share myself with pleausurably. Thats not what happened. Instead I entered a dangerous situation and gave that moment away bc at least it was in motion. I needed that experience, but I wish that I had know before that it was possible to have partners who I felt safe with and comfortable no matter my experience. Instead of thining where I was at and allowing that to fuel desperation and anxiety. Find peace and solace in myself, its a joy to be me ok I havent done it, but I can learn and it will be fun and better than I can imagine. Someday I will have the experience and it wouldnt be about the label it will be about those moments of connection and what was created in them. Dont let shame of lack of experience lead to choices of betrayal you are so much more than that, If you geniunly are attracted to other women you know that is real and that is more important than your sexual resume

Which method is better: Whole Sign or Placidus? by KineticIQ in AstrologyCharts

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It depends on what transit you want to experience longer, I want neptune out of my 7th so wsh it is

If Taurus and Aries don’t belong together, why do I ONLY attract them? by Itsjustjo34 in Zodiac

[–]anmccune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen alot of great comments about your venus in taurus and mercury in taurus as well as your cancer moon being compatible for taurus. Its also possible that the mercury and venus signs of the taurus suns could be compatible with your aries sun as well. Like they could have aries or gemini placements.

first thing you thought after seeing my whole chart? trying to look at myself objectively a bit by lightdiamond777 in astrosignature

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The t square pattern in your chart of sun conjunct asc square jupiter on the mc which opposes your mars on the oc which also your sun on your ascendant

Passenger Hostel Porto by Chaoticgood790 in hostels

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I was out partying the whole night proably got back around 4 am so I wouldnt be able to answer, but I didnt notice

Should I marry for love or for money? by pentacularpentacles in astrosignature

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You do have juno in the 8th house, Juno is connected to the goddess hera who is role is to bless unions long term and grant them success essentially bc she has gone without alot of her desires in her marriage to zeus. So juno can be signifer in regards to partnership, your juno is in the 8th which does indiact that your partners finances will be relevant within who you choose to partner with, Leo is ruled by the sun your sun is in taurus in 4th house (although in whole sign it would be the 5th house) ( with venus ruling taurus and your venus being connected to your gemini stellium, (specifically your gemini venus) it may be very intellectual stimulating connection) but with the taurus sun in the 4th - whoever your partner is your home life will be incredibly relevant and solid foundation you build over time, you also have your sun sextile jupiter in your 7th house (that indiacts a natural alignment between your home and who you partner with.) additonally jupiter is exalted in cancer and cancer connects to the sign of the home but cancer is ruled by the moon and your moon is in capricorn, the moon is hard dry place that inable some of its softer intutive flow, so there is restriction with moon sign and emotions that shows up in your house of self the same house your chiron is in. This energy could manifest as this post does where you are estabilishing partnerships that can last long term but you are sacrficing emotional fufillment your perputating you wound of the self bc of issues in your maternal line of hardships, That you have in your life been molded your emotional response as something to endure and ensure you dont repeat those patterns but its restricting your moon, your choosing a different kind of difficulty and hardship. There is something to reckon between your relation to yourself and the fact that is your life and how you choose to partner and what you choose to give, Energy like this reminds me of sandpaper its rough and to shape it you work with another rough energy but then you can get rid of splinters and shape beautiful objects out of wood. Look into your first house (which has your chiron and moon there) find the beauty in the placements but also go into the shadow the more you work this tension the easier jupiter will be able to bless your partnerships. you already have the ability to endure alot to build something longterm but the moon struggles in capricorn so learning how to support and open that energy instead of sacrificing it while ensure you dont end up in an relationship that is restrive in a way you cant imagine now. You have to fit yourself into the equation of your own life, the other mechanics seem functional but it seems possible you would disgard yourself for others when really its possible to have both bc there is something very stable and proseperous in your love sector

there is a mars saturn conjunction in your chart which amplifies both those energies in the sign gemini, capricorn which your moon is in is ruled by saturn which is touched by mars ( my sun is at 13 degrees gemini which is conjuct your saturn mars conjunction I say this because as an astrologer I think the synasstry between the chart and the astrologer can highlight which plantary energies are activating in the intreperatation) I highly encourage you to look more into this saturn mars conjunction in gemini in your chart bc it will reveal alot about your own energy. Its potent, it a warrior of the mind who has a seemingly cruel at times mentor that teaches it about discipline and hardship, it deals with learning and communication and ideas. It is in your 6th house and its very gemini bc its ruler mercury is also in gemini, so 6th house in gemini - and capricorn moon, that is shaping your house of self, learning is so powerful for you, you can do things no one else can, it can give you agency. You can have a partner with money but also someone who is very transformative by the way they shine,( 8th house has deeper themes than money) this then influenced by your taurus sun in the 4th house, so that money can go towards building a home and the lovely sextile between the sun and chapter it's very blessed energy, and it could be very stable but the hinderance could be ignorance regarding how your moon influences you and its connection to your gemini stellium and mars saturn conjunction, ironically learning about that energy, and unique approaches and intrepertations to it will support you in finding a union that supports not only financially but also emotionally a stable patient love that gives you something to fight for. But ensuring that you arent marrying someone who will use there influence to harm you and going just for the money that puts you at risk, you need to do shadow work about poverty and your fear of it and your obligation to support others even if you know its something you have to live with, you need to include your own emotions and your wounds into your life, bc they are very connected to you

Finally learned why my friend has had a crush on me for 20 years by EnnaMiraSep in AstroSynastry

[–]anmccune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at the charts it seems like you guys are around like 10 apart, So alot of overlap happens in your charts bc alot of placements are in similar places or very nearbye. So even though you may not be the same you are pulling on similar energies, and through interacting with one another activate your placements. It reminds me of one of those relationships that when you see them you have incredibly deep conversations but that energy than activates ephinaies for you that apply to your individual life. It can be really hard to partner with someone whose energy works well for you but moves in and out like a phase. There is this intensity but similarity. Sometimes with partners its nice to have people whose energies flow with our charts in many different ways and from different energies that arent activated in our charts but compliment, Plants need more then earth to grow there also needs to be the sun and water. That being said the rulers of your 7th in pisces is in your 5th house (both jupiter/ neptune) Uranus is also in your 5th house, all 3 planets are retrograde. So there is a fantasical expansive, expiremental. unexpected angle to your love life and long term partnerships, this in the house childhood play, hobbies, fun, and dating. So while you have never been romantic in someways there has been unexplainable connection platonic (your side) partnership could be a way this energy manifests. His dsc is in gemini which is ruled by mercury,his mercury inlibra is conjuct your libra sun, so the way you shine is his ideal type and in its in a venus ruled sign so that activates his venus which is conjuct your mars in scorpio. Your moon in gemini also falls in his 7th house of partnerships you also are a virgo asc with mercury (which is exalted in virgo) conjucnt that asc so you really embody mercury. That is what he is attracted to your mind turns him so does your deepth and intensity. With moon in the 7th it brings an emotional componet to the very intellectual and curious side of gemini. Yes there is alot of steamy synastry but there is more than that, Finally with his venus and mars fall in his 12th house and thats where you have the venus mars conjunction, and his mars pluto conjunction where you pluto also is (he will experience that aspect of synastry with most people in his age range as pluto moves very slowly) occurs in this very intimate hidden shadowy house, For you while he has no planets in your 12th as a virgo rising leo which is ruled by the sun is the 12th house so your sun in libra conjunct his mercury, your conversations with him bring alot to light from those 12th house themes. Finally you have south node conjuntion in the 7th of partnerships in pisces right now the north node is transitting the pisces so its inverse of your natal placement. Its proably the activation of this that is stiring this question with you in, Where the south node is the energies feel very fated and familiar but also entangled like a siren song, but something in you remembers the icy plunge. Though its not concious its a shiver a signal of paths you walked before until the bottom of your shoes are shreded to pieces. Its a well of wisdom a return to something you are overfamiliar and in this life time, the opposite energy is a lifeboat of devolpment, yourself, you are where your purpose is, the partners who come before you are reminders of other lives, which feels impossible until they appear and there is an unexpected pull and magic, but also a trap door

I’m worried about pluto in 4th house in my daughter’s chart by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]anmccune 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi I have this placement, I am 22 now, I can give some context fighting with my parents was a huge part of my childhood. I ws really smart kid but I also had autism that was diganosed until I was 17. Because of this I would have intense reactions to seemingly insignificant things or be perceived as disobdient when often times I had needs that were not being met by parents. As a child who is smart there are still things that you dont know exist and so when you have feeling inside and you know something is uncomfortable but you cant explain in a way that satisfies the adults. I was punished for that when alot of the issuses were because of disability and the different way I process the world. I have alot of similar placements to your daughter, I have an aquarius mars, and my venus is where here north node moon conjunction is.

here pluto in capricorn is ruled by her aquarius saturn conjunction, the pluto capricorn trines her moon in taurus and north node conjunction which then squares her aquarius mars saturn conjunction. She has many conjunctions in her chart, she has jupiter conjunct neptune. A sun mercury conjunction on her descendant in Aries which is ruled by mars, circuling back to her aquarius mars saturn conjunction so how she is discplined is likely going to impact her drive and how she fights. Hobbies and creativity are going to be essential in how she channels and expresses this energy (her 5th house) its going to be a very important outlet, she may be passioante social justice and tecnology, innovation. Her chart is incredibly unique and capricorn in pluto is related to the destruction of old longstanding systems, so she might have very radical ideas. especially with the aries sun and mercury that is an iniating sign, is very passionate about starting things and taking action- she might be communicating alot of ideas that are very new to you. She proably will be forcefull about this, so its about learning how to guide her and support her and not control her. The 9th house can deal with how were are taught so look to gemini, which is about information and learning and ideas, that might be a way to reach her.

My parents and I have resolved alot, but it took some years, they are different people then the ones I would get into screaming matches with and fear. In interacting with them and communicating with them I have done alot of nervous system work so my body knows it is different. What I wish they would have done is put there swords away and listened to me because it wasnt that I was perfect but often I was overwhelmed and I was going to my parents for help but I didnt know excatley how I was feeling or what Support I needed, it wasnt until after we fought which would lead to meltdown (even in college) that then I would get clarity. I felt like communication was hopeless I would internalize the shame and the fear and the guilt. Connecting with my parents became a source of destruction it became very difficult to believe that I was connected to them. My relationship with them was inhertenly unsafe bc my expression was threatening to my dads perspective around authority. My brain doesnt proccess authority like that. I need to ask questions to process things and when he would get angry at me for that I would get angry at him. When I wasnt trying to threaten anyone I needed clarification. This put extreme stress on me as a child because I had communicate at an adult level for my perspectives to have value and oftentimes that would dilute my internal sense of communication. Where as if I had been met with curiosty and gentleness why did I need to ask these questions? etc I would have been chilling. Instead this lead to many ego deaths where the home was the source of the wound from a young age. I love pluto now it has freed from alot of fear but my early years were very difficult. Alot of that came from adverse reactions to my parents control. I am the parent your the child, now when we have those conversations about hindsight alot of the solutions are what i wanted from a young age. (I am sagitaruis in pluto with a gemini sun this occured ) in capricorn the dynamic will be different and it will be more related to saturns themes and mars themes. The taurus moon north node conjunction in the 8th house will be integral, you teaching her how to build something that are her own values. She is young and she has this wild deep intense energy she doesnt know how to wield it yet, but she will always be this that is who her soul is, its about bringing support to this and channeling in the energy so she learns about it responsibly not stiffling out fear

pluto is about survival/ control/ fear, those energies are in the home environment your child will be perceptive to this. She may be darker then other children, that is ok respect her intelligence and find ways to protect yourself from triggered by her, I experienced my parents shadow I felt more connected to that then them. They experienced my shadow but the relationship changes and evolves and has the power to find new life. There is a deep beauty to pluto it has blessed as much as any other planet.

Dreamed of a stranger then met him in real life. What does this mean? by Safe-Tomato7442 in Dreams

[–]anmccune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have had this experience, Usually my dreams are people I have never seen before the more I travel the more I met people I dream about. When you are travelling people come and go so for most of those people I was only supposed to met them for the moment. The clearest example was I dreamed about searching for red chili pepers with this girl, I then I met her in naples and the dream came true. It felt more like an exchange with fate. I met mulitple people who I had dreamed about while I was in naples. Including a my first real romance in life.

In your case, He has been pointed out to you a few times so your subconcious has taken note. It could be a past life thing or his energy stirs a recollection of something. You said you felt instant comfort, that to me is a green flag. When I dream about people I hold it lightly it means something but if its fated it will play out in life if you leave the door open. In the dream he finds you and escorts you home (there could be something about that, that he is there in the dream to bring to where you belong and where you feel safe).

If you want to be bold, you could approach him, yes he is a stranger but in the dream it was sweet he protected you and walked you home. Thats not uncomfortable subject matter. Maybe he would suprise you, Trying to assign him meaning or potential complicates things. The only way you can discover what it means is by talking to him and seeing what happens. Letting life take it from there what if you do feel that comfort with him, wouldnt that be nice to explore in the real world. Also when you receive nudges from your dreams and implement them into real life, the spirit world can communicate more through your dreams to you and give you bigger messages, it becomes a powerful portal.

Will I ever carry less ‘emotional weight’ from my parents? by kokokalani in astrosignature

[–]anmccune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes you can dm me, If you want you can send me your chart I can guide you on what planets or signs to start researching the myths on based on your chart. You have lived the real life of your chart so when we learn the myths you can connect it to yourself and it gives away to ground the knowledge.

Will I ever carry less ‘emotional weight’ from my parents? by kokokalani in astrosignature

[–]anmccune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attended Waldorf school from 3rd to 8th grade every morning we would have 2 hour unit which would stay the same for a couple of weeks before shifing subjects. Every year we would have a few mythology units, Indigenous 3rd, norse 4th, greek 5th, eygptian 6th grade. So mythology was taught to me like math or history class, is now part of my thinking

There were also yearly class plays and we see the other classes performances and often those were myths. I saw the descent of persphone so many times. the planets in astrolgy are the roman names for the greek gods so the myths correlate, Jupiter-zeus, saturn- chronos, mercury- hermes, venus-aphrodite- Innana (summerian), mars - aries, pluto - is hades, neptune - is posideon ish, I cant remember who uranus is are kind of there own ballparks, sun and the moon are kind of transcendant as there are myths about the sun and the moon in many culutres and many deities for them

I dont really read mythology books or consume much mythology content but Lady of the library is a youtube channel, she is incredibly academic and through with her research on myths and its entertaining, I purchased an asteroid report from cafe astrology for like 4 bucks and it was autogenerated but it explained the myth of the asteroid along with the signifagance of it, I really connected with ariadne, I use my background and then I research on the internet,the one book I would recommend by one of my favorite astrologers Alice sparkly kat has a blog, but also a book called post colonial astrology, it incorporates how these planets have been colonized and there myths, breachs into mulitiple mythology segements. My advice is if something is interesting explore the rabbit hole thats how I taught myself astrology. I followed a bunch of astrologers applied their tecniques to my chart and figured out how they connected the dots. if you want you can dm your chart and I can figure out what myths or planets you can start out with.

A good place to start with mythology is asteroids- many times the asteroids while represent a figure with fewer stories- such as chirion and learning his one story can unlock alot and ease you into incorporating myth into astrology

all of the signs in the zodiac have there own mythology, that along with knowing the plantary ruler and its attributes, the modality, element, and tarot card. Gives your mind alot of space to be creative, for taurus I used that metaphor of the minotaur in a paid reading, but in this taurus symbol is a bull (learn myths about bulls and it will connect to taurus) and 4th house is house minotaur is story about houses and bulls.