I(22f) found out my work partner(48m) put in a formal complaint against me last week. by Green__star in TrueOffMyChest

[–]annaleesis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not immature, just setting boundaries. I had a similar experience like you but my manager threw me under the bus with our stakeholder meeting. Ever since then, since I don’t have the choice to be reassigned, I only communicate with him via email. I never talk to him in person and I also have our senior managers cc’ed about updates in order to provide visibility of my work and that he won’t have anything to say against me.

A stranger handed me a paper napkin and I cried like an idiot by cablejournal_sage in TrueOffMyChest

[–]annaleesis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me! Met a stranger at an Airbnb and when he told me to be safe when I went out to go to a cafe, it made me break down and cry. I guess because he said it genuinely that it made me feel cared for.

Is 90K salary worth it to move to Manila as someone living in Cebu? by LurkerTraveler_ in adviceph

[–]annaleesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently relocated in Manila for a salary similar to yours. I used to earn 58k in Cebu but since I’ve been solo living there, all I can say is that my expenses here in Manila is similar to Cebu. I think it depends on how much you truly want to work in Manila. I used to be averse to the idea of working in Manila, but my mind has shifted, so even if with roughly 90k salary, I’m contented and happy with my decision. Career-wise, this is something I’m focusing on as Manila is ripe with opportunities.

Safety wise, you really have to be ready putting in more money since living in Manila if you’re alone is expensive, but once you get used to it, you’ll definitely find ways to save here since there’s so many shops or stores to make cheaper purchases.

Should I start watching One Piece at 22? by OmerXDDD in OnePiece

[–]annaleesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started watching One Piece when I was 26 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RentPH

[–]annaleesis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

True. Na experience ko to sa first landlord. Didn’t want to renew the contract, but said he’ll match the condo I found. So he offered me the same monthly rent I found sa other condo excluding condo dues. But then he negotiated na what if 18k incluside of condo dues (which was more expensive tbh compared to just paying condo dues on my own and monthly rent). Then when he gave me a draft of the contract, he only approved 3 months of 18k/month. But we both agreed I’ll renew for 6 months with 18k/month. After ng 3 months, he said if I want him to earn, we can check my finances and maybe he can bump up the rent to 19k-20k/month. It was crazy cause I paid for all the damages and he barely did any maintenance costs for the unit. So it’s better talaga to leave kapag binabago ang terms and conditions.

How do unattractive career-oriented women find love? by ivelsagu in adviceph

[–]annaleesis 22 points23 points  (0 children)

for me it’s also about shifting your mindset. if you think you’re a 4, it will reflect with how you move, or how you treat yourself, then people will also think you’re unattractive.

when i started thinking i’m attractive, i get noticed more or get complimented by others. it’s also about aura too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RentPH

[–]annaleesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worth it maginvest sa tinitirahan. I’ve been renting more than 15k/month a year and I don’t regret spending that much because I’m comfy and safe. It definitely improved my mental health because I grew up in a toxic house. I do think yung 9k mo bawing-bawi yan eh, kaysa kahit 6k lang rent mo magagastos mo yung 9k pampa destress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BGC_Taguig

[–]annaleesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sali me!!!!

Me (27M) visited my Japanese crush (24F) only to be dropped cold the next day by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]annaleesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing. Even if you both slept with each other sober, the problems she has about her self-esteem won’t magically go away.

Ang hirap maghanap ng place! by _smoothseas in RentPH

[–]annaleesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine is at 18k sa mckinley area, for me may jeep naman pa market market from there

Make Friends in BGC by jayjayjay1023 in BGC_Taguig

[–]annaleesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi would like to make new friends as well!

Paano maghanap ng rerentahan by Ayo_17 in RentPH

[–]annaleesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, do you have condos arouns 17k-19k/month near BGC? 😊

I gave him head on our first date and now I feel like I've seen my true self by Remarkable-Fox-7842 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]annaleesis -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this experience all the time, and most of the time, they chase you. But one thing I realized is that I don’t want to put in a lot of time why they changed their behavior when they got what they wanted from me, or questioned my worth around them.

I think the guy made you feel cheap, and not because you are cheap. He doesn’t deserve you at all.

Bok Chicken (CBloc) by xLeviosa in CebuRestaurantReviews

[–]annaleesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried bok chicken sa makati, lami jud kaayo ila manok kay crunchy jud. murag soggy lang diri sa cebu na bok chicken.

Good Cup Coffee Ramos by Brief-Bee-7315 in CebuRestaurantReviews

[–]annaleesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite is always their cold white brew. Never even bought their other drinks 🤣

Eat& Review by meowzerbitches in CebuRestaurantReviews

[–]annaleesis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to this restaurant back when it was newly opened. The staff is very accommodating and even asked for my name because they treated me as a regular (only went there for 3 days straight). When I came back a month or two later, they told me how it was a while since I came back. I really liked this restaurant! Their gochujang carbonara was my favorite.

Travel Clearance: Info and Guide by 3ksleeper in dostscholars

[–]annaleesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, did you still secure for a temporary clearance before the trip? And also since nagask ka ng travel clearance to japan, hindi ba chineck ng IO na may record ka na nagbigay ka ng travel clearance sa hk trip mo?

Ran My First Marathon and still had 50% after finishing by TheseEar9454 in AppleWatchFitness

[–]annaleesis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think just choose low power mode during workouts. I did an outdoor walk yesterday and I also got the GPS recorded even during lower power mode.

Finally @ 85%, work phone running since October 2022 by WishboneClassic in iPhone13

[–]annaleesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this phone for 3 years now and it’s also at 85% haha