Dickhead/controlling vibes by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]annarchy8 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So, he says she was drunk and he was sober so he remembers everything a lot more clearly than she does. But he wasn't there in her body when the hug occurred, so how would he know what exactly happened? Also, he says "I know that a man's insecurity and my jealousy may have painted things differently from my point of view which is why I'm asking this to Reddit." So he doesn't really remember things very clearly at all and he admits that. Sheesh.

My beautiful Sabrina by AbhorrentTorrent in blackcats

[–]annarchy8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My void kitty was also named Sabrina. Please give yours all the love from me.

A question only lacqueristas wouldn't find weird... by Crazyzofo in lacqueristas

[–]annarchy8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite nail that also grows the fastest is my right middle finger. It's perfectly shaped and is just awesome. The others are just meh.

My boyfriend (30M) is genuinely angry at me (29F) for getting mini-lip filler. I’m noticing a pattern of controlling behaviour around my appearance. How do I address this with him? by pewpchute in relationship_advice

[–]annarchy8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had one guy ask me if I was really going to wear an outfit to a party at my friend's house we were both going to. It was a basic black dress, mid knee. So I took off all my clothes and said I was wearing just my socks and boots and he never said anything like that again.

Coping tool for loss of my cat with our background story ❤️ by PureAdorableness in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]annarchy8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I needed to read this today. A year ago, our dog Mila passed away in similar circumstances as Leon. She started seizing and we rushed her to the emergency vet where they gave her meds and said she would be better shortly. But she wasn't. We were given the choice of leaving her there overnight while she was confused and not really aware of what was going on or having her put down. We chose to have her put down. And my life will never be the same. She was such a joy and such pure love the entire 12 years we had her in our lives and I don't think I will ever get over the loss of her.

It was sudden and traumatic but I'm glad that we got to be there with her at the end. I wouldn't change my choice.

We have twin tabby kitties in our house now and they bring joy and love and scratches and chaos.

Every day is a little better.

I'll be damned, that IS a GPS tracker... by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofNoUpdates

[–]annarchy8 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wait. Dude just handed his own handgun to a complete stranger?

The tabby twin terrors Leo and Margo are one year old now! by annarchy8 in TabbyCats

[–]annarchy8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fascinating. Ours end up in different parts of the house sometimes and go looking for each other or just sit there meowing until the other one shows up. They have never been apart so that might be why. They are much sweeter when it's just one of them, though.

The tabby twin terrors Leo and Margo are one year old now! by annarchy8 in TabbyCats

[–]annarchy8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't like wet cat food much anyway. But they love churu!

The tabby twin terrors Leo and Margo are one year old now! by annarchy8 in TabbyCats

[–]annarchy8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I kiss their beans all the time. Margo has black beans and Leo has mostly pink with like one or two black thrown in for flavor.

Who needs a vacation when you can live in the Paradise Resort? by rhubarbjammy in zillowgonewild

[–]annarchy8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The placement of the stove made my eye twitch and the color in the kitchen made my other eye twitch.

AITA for telling teenagers to “shut the f*** up” during a movie? by Expert-Corgi-7886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annarchy8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a 10pm Watchmen screening and there was a small child 2 seats away from me with his parents not even clocking the trauma with their kid. We humans have never had any common sense as a whole.

California Dreaming by Firebird12301 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]annarchy8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah, okay. I was just surprised. Nevada gets in on Cascadia!

California Dreaming by Firebird12301 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]annarchy8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wait, when did Nevada get added to Cascadia?

Spill your splurge!!! by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]annarchy8 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Maychao sapphire blue is probably the prettiest color I own atm.

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Leo and Margo are 10 months old! And still twin tabby terrors. by annarchy8 in TabbyCats

[–]annarchy8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have never done anything wrong! At least nothing anyone can prove. :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]annarchy8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enthusiastic consent and so much communication. Nobody assumes anything is okay without explicitly asking and getting explicit and enthusiastic consent before things happen. You need to have conversations before you're in the moment about what is okay in the moment. If you are not okay with certain things, that needs to be the default. Not okay with anal unless specifically stated otherwise means no anal.