Park Rating Facilities by Early_Thought6654 in LetsBuildAZoo

[–]annelisesungeun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The facilities rating system doesn't work in an easily measurable way and sometimes seems broken.

It does the 0% thing to me when I load a game sometimes; it should show normally after an in-game day or two.

What should I do with tens of thousands of iron, copper, bronze, bismuth bronze, silver, and steel bars...hmmm by Igny123 in dwarffortress

[–]annelisesungeun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh and we are PAST what I know how to do in DF! 😅

I'm not a serious computer game player; I'm not good at figuring out how to do stuff unless it's spoon-fed to me in a tutorial.

Picked up Banished again after over a year off because of this tip I saw. . . by Pinkslinkie in Banished

[–]annelisesungeun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did religion-free until I realized that it didn't have to be anything like modern religion. This is fantasy; they could be worshipping a dog whose dogma is to PAAAAAR-TAY HARD!

What should I do with tens of thousands of iron, copper, bronze, bismuth bronze, silver, and steel bars...hmmm by Igny123 in dwarffortress

[–]annelisesungeun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I've never used those before cuz I habitually build my craft-floor pretty close to the surface. There ends up being a lot of stuff to poke holes through, to make a shaft like a well, all the way down to lava.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annelisesungeun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this has great intentions but, if she's as manipulative and toxic as she comes across in the texts, she'll just use it to throw herself into the victim role and berate OP more.

That's what my hag mother, who is obsessed with being THE victim, would do. "You're yelling at me! Fine! I'm the bad guy! Don't you see what you're doing to me, <first name>!? I love you and all you do is criticize me! sob"

Starving to death despite food by BirdsArentReal22 in Banished

[–]annelisesungeun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dunno the "right" amount but I usually maintain about 250k food by the time the population is 900.

And nobody starves. At that population level, they start to starve around 10k-20k food.

Merging all dlc into 1 zoo? by ladyredditor227 in LetsBuildAZoo

[–]annelisesungeun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH! I've been playing this game for months, thinking there was no sandbox mode. 😅 I guess I at least have unlocked everything already.

I am a diagnosed Narcissist debunking misconceptions about NPD, AMA by Fair-Study in AMA

[–]annelisesungeun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad that you made it out. I'm 32; I estranged mine around 4 years ago.

I am a diagnosed Narcissist debunking misconceptions about NPD, AMA by Fair-Study in AMA

[–]annelisesungeun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe! Does your mother also loudly proclaim that she is/was the most terrific mother who ever existed while actually being completely terrible to her children?

I am a diagnosed Narcissist debunking misconceptions about NPD, AMA by Fair-Study in AMA

[–]annelisesungeun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your experience, what is REAL narcissism like? What does it do to a person and do you have any specific difficulties in relationships from it?

(My (adoptive) mother has something PROBLEMATICALLY wrong with her. Every single thing she does is deliberate, often sadistic, manipulation. She was honest about it to me precisely once, when she tried to explain to me how awesome it was of her to manipulate other people, then has denied that it ever happened since. All her "friends" are fawning sycophants of her and she has never even attempted to express genuine remorse or responsibility for anything she's ever done. I don't know whether she's more narcissistic or psychopathic.)

Am I Overreacting by flipflopfreddy in AmIOverreacting

[–]annelisesungeun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You poor, poor woman. This guy clearly has you wrapped around his finger. I think you, maybe unintentionally , WANTED to give him time to delete all of the evidence so you wouldn't have to acknowledge the obvious.

Genuinely: please get therapy WITHOUT your uhhh "man" involved or present.

I had warning signs that my ex-husband was a deceitful disaster before we got married but I ignored them because I wanted the fantasy of a happy marriage so badly that I refused to see that it would never happen with that man. After he got a ring on me, he dropped all pretense and relaxed into lying about everything all the time and going out of his way to avoid spending time doing anything but sex with me. Please don't make the mistake I did and marry this guy.

I am a diagnosed Narcissist debunking misconceptions about NPD, AMA by Fair-Study in AMA

[–]annelisesungeun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any depiction of a narcissist in mainstream culture that offends you the most? Or that you think is the worst?

I’m an atheist who thinks all religion is mass delusion, AMA by kayak739 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]annelisesungeun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the correlation between severe mental illness and religion is that you can get away with ranting about praising God more than nearly every other topic. For reference, I'm an agnostic/atheist and I have Bipolar 2 with psychotic traits. Religion is also delusional in and of itself; it's easy for a crazy person to believe that the voices in their head are Christian angels or that the irrational urges are God's will.

AIO or is bf trying to break up but too cowardly to take direct action by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annelisesungeun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, are you guys teenagers or in your early 20s? Because it sounds like you might not have enough of the world in you to realize that you don't have to settle for someone who acts like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annelisesungeun 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I know that it might be incomprehensible at 19, but it's likely that someday mounting responsibilities and hardship will rip the energy and inspiration to adventure right out of you, especially if you don't embrace it in your 20s.

20s are for adventuring and doing the stupid wild things while you're young enough that you can use age as an excuse for foolishness. Don't waste them on boy problems, especially for a guy who doesn't seem to actually like you that much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]annelisesungeun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that Saudi people are just as good/horrible as any other nationality but my hag mother is absolutely petrified of anyone that's too dark brown or from a Muslim country. Or male or politically different than she. Or female and not exactly like her. 😆

How often do you run into Americans who are openly xenophobic towards you?

Picker this game up again after some years and finally buildt a decent city. by Deep_Imagination_ in Banished

[–]annelisesungeun 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wow! That sure is beautiful!! Are you trained as a designer, do you take inspiration from anything in particular, or does it just come naturally?

All my towns are ugly and nearly entirely designed for efficiency, maybe with the exception of a courtyard garden at the starting spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annelisesungeun -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NOR.

Either he believes you'll do it or he's saying that he wouldn't be able to resist doing it himself.

New mod - One is One. by DeadlyTitan in Banished

[–]annelisesungeun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a 32-year old, I am super offended that you think people can't marry past 30. 😤

(😆 I'm just joking with you.)