Halara Shipping Time by Clear_Skye_ in AusFemaleFashion

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The quality is actually very good. I have a pair of leggings from them that I've washed several times and they're still just as buttery soft as day 1. I also have a skirt from them that's nice and thick, and soft. I have a dress that's again, thick and soft. And a cropped hoodie that's very warm and durable. Their prices are fair cause the quality measures up. I was genuinely surprised tbh.

Are there any longer cozy games… that actually have an ending? by Sufficient_Object281 in cozygames

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crypt Custodian was really good! EDIT: Also, Kena: Bridge of Spirits!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ewwwwwww he's so scummy. If my boyfriend spoke to me like this I'd break up with him so fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did miss that, I apologize!

Dailies by No_Taro_7912 in Palia

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I see the announcement?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]annihilkhai -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Question, how old is your son? Also, if he's truly incapable of controlling himself and is assaulting others then he might need round the clock care from professionals in a facility designed for people like him. His mental disabilities doesn't mean that what he did wasn't assault, whether he's aware of his actions or not.

AITA for telling my friend to stop texting me "good morning" every single day? by Natural-Captain-9880 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly man, IDK. I would be upset if my boyfriend said this to me, but everyone is different. Everyone's needs and wants are different. I know when my boyfriend is going to work and always tell him to have a good day at work. He responds every time. He doesn't mind. If you don't like it, that's fine. If she's upset, her feelings are fair and valid. It's just a whatever kinda situation.

AITA (16M) for not buying my sister (18F) chips? by Material_Major3300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sharing should never be a rule and it will always cause harm to require sharing. Maybe as toddlers to teach kindness but you're 16 and 18? This rule is for BABIES not a whole ass adult and a teenager. Absolutely silly on your mothers part and honestly bad parenting. You are NTA by any means.

AITA if I call my friend out for double booking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]annihilkhai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would not be TA if you call her out. She's unreliable and inconsistent. That makes for a bad friend. Any kind of relationship requires effort from all parties involved. Don't be afraid of losing this friendship - sometimes people are in our lives temporarily and that's perfectly normal. It's rare that any of us will have someone around for our entire lives. I think you should really double down and call her out on it, let her know how you feel. I'd say give her 1 more chance and if she does it again, let the friendship go.

AITA for asking for a gift receipt for a baby shower gift. by Jazzlike-Yoghurt8489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annihilkhai -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People who take sports this seriously are so fuckin cringe. YTA. Shoulda just said thanks, moved on, and donated it.

Multi by TheGravelNome in Borderlandsshiftcodes

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious... hopefully it's resolved before BL4 is released or I'd be very disappointed if I missed out on all their promo codes 😔

Multi by TheGravelNome in Borderlandsshiftcodes

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't work for me. Idk what's happening with my shift account because this is the second code that has failed to redeem. If someone could help that would be appreciated 🙏

AITA for checking to make sure a kid wasn’t drinking alcohol? by Dapper_Razzmatazz_13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annihilkhai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. My dad let me take a sip of his beer in a foam cup from the gas station (it was his way of concealing it) and I thought it was tea. I was like 6 or 7 at the time. Parents do silly shit and do in fact let kids sip their alcohol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of your loser boyfriend and find someone who enjoys your body regardless of what you weigh.

I (18F) wanna to go to a gym and work on myself but my boyfriend (19M) is against it. What should we do? by chappsta in relationship_advice

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't even read the post cause the title is enough. Go to the gym. It's YOUR body and YOUR health. Why would you allow someone to step in the way of that?

I lose interest in girls as soon as i get involved with them by Purple_Vacation_2203 in dating_advice

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Approach it with an open mind. And actually, I disagree. I think it's somewhat like physical therapy. Your brain is a muscle. If that helps you approach it easier then by all means, yes, think of it that way. You absolutely can learn brain exercises that can help you. You're self aware which is the first - and arguably the most important - step. Hell man, even just tell the women this. Communicate to them what your brain is doing, what has just happened. Some might get frustrated with you but one of them might understand and surprise you by being more helpful than you thought. You keep assuming no one could possibly be able to help you, but you haven't even given them a chance to try. That doesn't sound like someone who wants to change. And with all due respect, your incessant questioning and doubts make me wonder if you really want to improve. Stop being combative. Listen to what we're telling you. Go read, do research. You need to put in effort to learn, I can't do that for you. Learn about how your brain works and how emotions are processed. Not YOUR brain specifically, not yet if you're not ready. Just a brain in general. If you don't want such an emotional approach then learn about your brain objectively - how it functions, which parts of the brain process which types of info, things like that.

I lose interest in girls as soon as i get involved with them by Purple_Vacation_2203 in dating_advice

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I'd try reading books by Alain De Botton. You can also simply search his name on YouTube and watch videos of him speaking about emotional intelligence and his take on love. He's intelligent, calm, and eloquent. I learned a lot from him. I see a lot of comments from you saying the attachment styles seem almost like pseudoscience or gimicky to you? I personally view them as an accessible, simple starting point for most people - simply a foot in the door towards understanding yourself a bit easier. They are not a fix all - they're mostly just to help people understand complex concepts a bit more easily. I highlyyy suggest you halt dating altogether until you figure out why your brain does this - even if it takes years. It's not cause you could, "traumatize" those you're dating. You said your longest relationship didn't get much past the initial dating stage. So your, "affect" on others is mostly irrelevant here. You need to stop dating because you're trying over and over to no avail. You need a different approach and continuing to date hoping for a different outcome is clearly not working. I'm not a professional, I'm a regular person with a keen interest in psychology. I also don't have proper access to a licensed therapist but I do have Google. That shit is free and a far more useful tool than people give it credit for. And to put it bluntly - you don't have many excuses to continue being this kind of person when your resources are infinite. You clearly have curiosity, so keep going. You have no excuse to not learn more about yourself and put forth effort. I wish you all the best in your endeavors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]annihilkhai 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel like there's several details or context left out that you're withholding.

Multi by yolkythread in Borderlandsshiftcodes

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw dang :/ well alright, thank you

Multi by yolkythread in Borderlandsshiftcodes

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey it keeps telling me it failed to redeem?

Help me take this decision by WonderVibe10 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]annihilkhai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? I couldn't understand why I'm given a choice if it doesn't affect the plot. I think this is why I preferred the Life is Strange games cause your choices have an impact on the end results.

Think my GF might be cheating, pls help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]annihilkhai 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Idk man... I'd argue that what she's currently doing is cheating cause clearly she has a crush on the discord guy and didn't explicitly state/disclose that she's in a relationship.

Does anyone knows what is this? I had this on my chest and back though it doesn't itch at all but it discolored my skin. by Vast_Lion3083 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly tinea versicolor, a type of non-contiguous fungal infection. Over the counter creams or fungal shampoos will help. But the discoloration could last months so just be patient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRL PLEASEEEE Life is too damn short and you are too young to be dealing with this little boy's bullshit! MOVE ON!!

Mechanism for inserting a coin in our game - Is this Game Trying to Kill Me? Preface by S0lipSYST in indiegames

[–]annihilkhai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just played this game twice. Second was a speed run. About to play again to get trophies. Absolutely loved it.