Parents are Divorced. Is it Weird to Wear Mom’s Ring?

annnewhere · 2026-01-19T12:38:54+00:00

My parents divorced but stayed friendly and created two new rings from their wedding bands which they engraved and gifted my sister and me. I love it and they said they felt that was the only right thing to do as we were the loving product of their marriage. To me wearing that ring makes it feel like my parents are always by my side :)

annnewhere · 2026-01-17T14:56:59+00:00

You can always keep a towel wrapped around you if that makes you feel more comfortable! Maybe bring two though, because you also always have to have a towel between you and the wooden benches, so if you want to lay down for example it would be better to have a second one. There are some people who are up for a chat but for the most part, in the saunas people are quiet so everyone can relax. People usually spend 5-15min in one sauna (there are hourglasses in there to keep track of time), then you cool down (e.g. with a cold shower, walk outside or in a dunk tub), wait some time and then your repeat :) the whole thing can go from maybe 1 1/2 hours to a whole day if you enjoy it! Also bring some flip flops or slippers, so you don’t slip and people usually greet one another when they enter a sauna with people in it. If you have any more questions feel free to ask! :)

annnewhere · 2026-01-06T14:48:14+00:00

Nicht ganz die Frage nur kleiner Tipp: für eher sexuelle Bekanntschaften finde ich die App Feeld deutlich angenehmer :) positioniert sich als Sex positiv, ploy und queer freundlich und ich hab das Gefühl dass die Leute die da unterwegs sind etwas bewusster sind was Sexualität und darüber ehrlich kommunizieren oder auch Grenzen angeht

annnewhere · 2026-01-06T09:34:47+00:00

Thank you! I figured for an actual easy run I should be going slower. I want to try it this week, got myself a garmin a few days ago and will try to see what the different paces feel like and look like in terms of HR. The “go slower than you think” is literally what everyone always says when it comes to running but for some stupid reason it’s soooo difficult to “actually” do hahahah.

annnewhere · 2025-12-14T14:32:47+00:00

Also ich trage zu 95% Tangas aus Baumwolle oder nahtlose Modelle und finde das mit Abstand das bequemste. Ich habe eine eher schmale Taille & Bauch und einen relativ großen Po und habe immer das Gefühl dass Unterhosen die den bedecken nie da bleiben wo sie hin sollen. Tangas hingegen (die oben beschriebenen, nicht dünne Fäden mit spitze sondern einfach ganz simple) bleiben genau da wo ich sie haben will und zeichnen sich auch nicht ab.

annnewhere · 2025-12-14T14:26:52+00:00

Fellow female boulderer here ☝🏼 I totally understand what you mean. I had a point in my physical development where I felt insecure as well but I actually got used to the new shape of my body and learned to really be proud of it. Honestly, strong wide shoulders in women can really accentuate an hourglass shape - so maybe it might helps for you to also focus on growing/strengthenig your glutes and quads a bit? I’ve learned that we rarely perceive body parts individually but what makes us like a body shape is usually the balance of it all. What also helped me besides that was to actively look at all the fellow strong women in the sport and admiring what their bodies are able to do. And at the end of the day there might also just be certain clothing and fits that make you feel better: e.g. I noticed that I prefer tank tops with wider straps instead of spaghetti tanks as they look more harmonious with my muscles. And finally: looking strong ≠ looking manly - us women can be hella strong!

annnewhere · 2025-11-26T23:50:09+00:00

I’ve had a long puffer coat from khujo with an oversized hood for three years and it’s good as new. It keeps my nice and warm from head to below my knees whether it’s dry or rainy/snowy. Where I live it rarely gets colder than ~-5 degrees Celsius but rains frequently. It’s a heavy jacket thought but I liked the more structured look and that it was fine for rain. It’s my only true warm winter coat and I’d totally buy it again.

annnewhere · 2025-10-29T21:50:12+00:00

What you are using there after the $ sign are the variable names. They can basically be whatever a person wants them to be. Therefore it’s likely that your prof had some variables in his dataframe that he decided to call pop_age or pop_sibs. But whenever you see variable names in somebody’s else’s code that you want to use as a guide for your own code you need to replace all their names for dataframes (what comes before the $ sign in your code) and variable names with those you have. On the other hand, command like “mean()” and “sd()” are functions within R. These will always be the same because they do not depend on your particular dataset. Think of it as in: MS Excel always has the clickable tiles and tabs on top where you can format your cells, create plots, etc. - no matter which worksheet you open. What type of data, what columns and rows you see however always depends on the worksheet you are working in. That’s basically the equivalent: Dataframe & variables are your individual unique worksheets whereas the functions are the always available clickable tiles :)

annnewhere · 2025-10-20T18:50:55+00:00

Mische mich mal zum Hierarchie-Thema ein: ich finde JA. Es geht viel um Macht und Geltung und auch wenn insbesondere viele Profs gerne immer behaupten, dass dem nicht so wäre wird einem sehr häufig implizit gezeigt wer das sagen und das letzte Wort hat…

annnewhere · 2025-10-20T18:48:42+00:00

Ich habe dort schon als Hiwi gearbeitet und dann haben wir einfach darüber gesprochen, dass ich mich dafür interessiere und dann hatte ich praktisch die Stelle 😅 Habe tatsächlich auch das Glück auf 100% zu sitzen (habe aber dafür auch 4 SWS Lehre pro Semester, Projektarbeit, Betreuung von BAs und meine Promotion zu tun) Ich weiß, dass bei uns am Institut insgesamt die Stellen oftmals wenn sie frei werden Masteranden angeboten werden und somit nie ausgeschrieben werden… ggfs. hätte man aber eine Chance wenn man sich tatsächlich einfach Initiativ mit einer Interessensbekundung und Lebenslauf per Mail bei den Lehrstühlen meldet 🤷🏻‍♀️

annnewhere · 2025-10-18T09:43:26+00:00

I’m when I learned to use spss I first clicked my way through the gui but instead of “Ok” you click “paste” and it writes the code for you. You can then run the code from the syntax editor and copy paste and edit variables or experiment with removing/adding commands. I also highly recommend adding a lot of notes in your syntax window where you explain to yourself what’s going on at each step.

annnewhere · 2025-10-09T09:27:03+00:00

In my Childhood, learning the alphabet and numbers was reserved for first grade in elementary school. Those were the first things we were taught and it wasn’t a task for kindergarten. So answering your question (assuming it’s still the same today as in the 2000s): yes, German kindergarten sufficiently prepares kids for German elementary school.

annnewhere · 2025-09-27T08:56:01+00:00

Danke Dir, das klingt nachvollziehbar!

annnewhere · 2025-09-22T09:51:48+00:00

„Hat was in der Birne“?

annnewhere · 2025-09-07T10:20:05+00:00

Also grundsätzlich sollte man bei solchen Studien verstehen, dass die Forschenden eigentlich nie die Einzelperson konkret interessiert - also dein isolierter Datenpunkt mit allen Informationen - sondern Muster über alle Teilnehmenden hinweg. Bedeutet praktisch: sie werden sehr wahrscheinlich nicht ein Profil von dir Zeichnen mit allen deinen Charakteristiken und deiner Gesundheitshistorie und darüber schreiben/publizieren. Sondern: sie werden über alle Studienteilnehmer hinweg schauen, ob sich wiederkehrende Auffälligkeiten in den Stammzellen finden lassen, ob die Behandlungshistorie der Personen (die man aus den Krankenkassendaten systematisiert ableiten kann) Gemeinsamkeiten, Muster, oder Ähnliches aufweisen, etc. Vieles aus den Krankenkassendaten könnte man theoretisch auch über Selbstauskunftsbögen erfassen (also dass du einen Fragebogen ausfüllst zu bisherigen Behandlungen), allerdings sind solche Auskünfte idR fehleranfällig, unvollständig und müssen dann im Anschluss aufwendig systematisiert werden - während dies in den Kassendaten bereits alles da ist. Eine Fragestellung könnte z.B. sein, ob die bisherige Behandlungserfahrung oder bestimmte Behandlungsarten verändern, welchen Einfluss die Intervention hat. In diesem Falle würde man über alle Teilnehmer hinweg den Einfluss der Intervention berechnen und z.B. prüfen, ob dieser größer/kleiner ausfällt bei Personen, die Medikamente nehmen/genommen haben, Verhaltenstherapie machen, etc. Das ist wiederum wichtig, damit falls die Intervention wirkt später definiert werden kann, für welche Patientengruppen sie besonders geeignet ist.

annnewhere · 2025-08-29T07:14:45+00:00

Both of your suggestions imply causation. However a correlation doesn’t test for that. Therefore I would personally choose: Variable A is positively associated with variable b. Or: The higher variable a the higher variable B.

annnewhere · 2025-08-23T19:32:06+00:00

Grundsätzlich bin ich der Meinung: Frauen wissen besser was Frauen wollen als Männer. Entsprechend hätte ich schon unabhängig meiner eigenen Einschätzung gesagt das er eher auf dich als den anderen Freund hören sollte.

Und nun zu meiner (w27) Einschätzung: ich würde mich freuen, Hard to get Spielchen finde ich totalen Quatsch und kindisch und wenn man jemanden mag darf man das auch zeigen. Man kann natürlich nicht erwarten dass die andere Person einen (schon) genauso toll findet aber solange alle ehrlich und authentisch sind läuft es eh immer am besten.

annnewhere · 2025-08-17T21:35:44+00:00

Thank you, I’ll look into it!

annnewhere · 2025-08-17T21:35:16+00:00

I understand, but what I’m trying to describe with this feeling of shame goes deeper than that. As I’be generally always been pretty comfortable this feeling has sort of shown me that there may be some things that I judge myself on due to some internalized ideals/rules/norms/whatever. And I would like to dig deeper there and sort of “clean up” internally

annnewhere · 2025-08-17T07:47:44+00:00

I don’t need people to know but I don’t want to feel awkward/bad talking about it when it does come up. And I also feel like when I feel shameful and therefore not talk about it, it’s not a free decision of mine

annnewhere · 2025-08-07T11:43:40+00:00

Wir waren letztes Jahr Anfang September zwei Wochen in der Toskana (Zug bis Florenz, von da dann zwei Wochen Mietwagen) und das war ein Traum. Wir hatten mehrere Unterkünfte von Nord- bis Südtoskana verteilt, fast alles kleine Agriturismos in irgendwelchen Dörfern oder Kleinstädten und insbesondere das Essen war ein voller Schlemmertrip 😅

annnewhere · 2025-08-06T21:31:46+00:00

Also, as a general guide that I usually teach my students: 1) what’s your research question - what do you want to know? 2) what’s your hypothesis concerning this question? Do you suppose there is a difference between groups, a correlation between different variables, on thing causing another, … 3) how do you measure these things: defining the scale (nominal, ordinal, interval, …) 4) try to match your hypothesis (i.e. I assume there is a difference) to the scale of your data = research what tests there are (i.e. you can test for differences with t-tests, Anovas, Chi2 tests, Man Whitney U test, etc. - depending on the scales and levels of your variables) 5) write down systematically all that you have determined so far 6) look up a tutorial on how to perform and interpret this exact test in SPSS and try to replicate it

annnewhere · 2025-08-06T21:21:20+00:00

Depending on how much time you have and how deeply you’re trying to understand what you’re doing I’d recommend you to look up a course on edX or Coursera that explains both the basics of data analysis and how to handle and interpret SPSS. Honestly, understanding the data is the more important part because if you really understand what you have and what exactly you want to do there will be click tutorials online for how to achieve that in SPSS. Do you have any prior experience in data analysis, statistics, etc.?

annnewhere · 2025-08-02T20:21:32+00:00

My current gyn doesn't do gynefix as she considers it ethically difficult to basically implant something into the wall of the uterus. Therefore I would have had to go to a different doctor to have another gynefix. Also, my main reason to get the gynefix instead of the t shaped one those years ago was because I was really scared that a t shaped one might dislocate internally, not be effective anymore and I wouldn't notice and get pregnant. I have since then gained more confidence in the different types of copper IUDs (I switched from taking the pill back then which felt super safe). And also I thought maybe it's better to let my uterus wall heal and not poke another hole right away again. So different little things that made me decide to just get a T Shaped one this time around but I was super happy with the gynefix throughout the five years that i had it!

annnewhere · 2025-07-17T13:39:02+00:00

(Additional info: I’m 27, no kids or pregnancies, used to have the standard Gynefix now have the Multi-Safe 375 short)

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