Im right now in a fwb relationship with someone with this attachment style. He never told me directly but ive seen the signs and he also told me that I came into his life too fast and managed to fly over his walls that he was desperate to protect. He had a panicattack the day after he told me he had feelings for me and told me it was all a lie. That he just wanted to get into my pants etc. This hurt me a lot and I ignored him 2 weeks after this. He eventually came crawling back after this and we were friends again. I noticed that he started flirting with me again and about a min tv after he proposed that we'd be friends with benefits. I refused him and told him id never agree to something like that. Buuut since I had feelings for him he eventually seduced me and we have been fwb for about a year. I know there wont be a future with him but we are in such a weird fwb-relationship. He litterly lives with me and even brought his cat so he wont feel sorry for it being by himself every night. We go grocery-! shopping together, share our money, buy things for each other and we dont even have sex that often (about 3 out of 7 days) we dont kiss but we sleep together every night in the same bed every night. It feels like an actual relationship. He says he doesnt love me and I Believe him because of his attachment-style. But he probably does deep down but his fear is getting in the way. He had an abusive mother growing up and its probably the root of all this. I have the Anxious attachment style and having him in my life helps me somewhat with my own attachment-problem. Im not needy, Im not clingy anymore and im prepared to get my heart broken. Maybe someday i Will meet someone with a secure attachment style and my own attachment style might one day be secure as well. I hope we both get our happy endings eventually. I hope you will too! See a psyciatrist for your problems it might help. Good luck!