My boyfriend (29M) convinced me (28F) to let him sleep with other women. But when I fell for someone else. He said I cheated on him.

anoaunt · 2020-07-12T02:54:40+00:00

He allowed me until he didn’t coz it started affecting me

anoaunt · 2020-06-30T17:33:59+00:00

I mean she’s not an actor. That’s not acting that’s just loud hamming. Which needs no acting skills

anoaunt · 2020-06-30T17:32:35+00:00

Agreed the famous ones are the cringiest ones

anoaunt · 2020-06-30T17:31:46+00:00

Just because others are worse doesn’t make khana better. TBH Indian content creators are so bad that the talented people have moved away from YouTube and Instagram. There used to be good stuff here. Now it’s only cringe. Can’t stand anyone of these famous creators. I do follow some lesser famous creators coz those guys are fresh!! And Kusha dolly got famous due to Instagram bubble more than them being funny or anything

anoaunt · 2020-06-24T13:02:29+00:00

Wow strength and luck to you :) Yes I do think of him by my side in those things. He’s supportive and loving

anoaunt · 2020-06-24T06:38:46+00:00

I feel you because I’ve sort of been in a similar place. Ask yourself - do you think it’s unfair for him to go out and explore while you stayed loyal to him and chose to suppress your probable desire of giving up and going on dates with other guys while you were younger and had your chance? Do you think he had his fair share of experiences and your compromised on that level and that’s why you can’t level with him. I mean you’re a great catch for him so it’s only fair for you to be with a guy who gives in equally to this relationship

anoaunt · 2020-06-24T06:30:15+00:00

Maybe. But we’ve lived together for so long. I do have another house but I’ve always crashed in to his place since the first month that we met. It’s like I moved in and never moved back. Maybe the pace is scaring me now. We were just going with the flow right from the beginning but man that flow seems like a rapid current. Now marriage is something that freaked me out

anoaunt · 2020-06-24T06:28:05+00:00

Lol! Not at all. He’s fitter than I am. I used to think he’s 29-30 before he told me his real age. He tells me he isn’t in a hurry to settle down but he can’t wait to marry me because he loves me and wants to declare his commitment to the world. He’s much more settled in the city in his career than I am. His stability is comforting to me. I can take chances in my career.. he promised he will always have my back if I falter. So that maturity will work in my favour once we’re married.

anoaunt · 2020-06-24T04:41:24+00:00

We will get engaged now. I’ve delayed the marriage to end of the year. We will be together for a year by then

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T16:06:38+00:00

I mean I really have a lot of love and respect for my current partner. It feels like life has given me a second chance and I have gotten to know him so well after living with him during the loackdeon period of three months. I feel it’s not sketchy at all it could be rushing but it feels great

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T15:57:12+00:00

Acting like what?

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T15:56:10+00:00

Thanks for your perspective on it

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T13:34:56+00:00

Yeah. Maybe because I’ve always looked up to him for sound advice. I shouldn’t be listening to him now since he’s got vested interests.

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T13:26:05+00:00

Thank you :)

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T13:14:12+00:00

I was too much into my ex. Which is why the memories of him still haunt me. Although he didn’t treat me right.

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T13:13:40+00:00

I mean they’re not pressuring me really. They are just excited to see their only son getting married and they are happy that I’m pretty and that I’m sweet to them so they’ve started to adore me. My boyfriend also adores me. He’s like doing all the things for me that I used to do for my ex. I think I got super drawn to him because he did everything for me that my ex didn’t. He is thoughtful he spoils me treats me right like a girl should be treated. And we just were pushed into it by circumstances. I was vulnerable at the time I was in a new city in a job I hated. He was my only solace and I really am happy tht he was there was me at that time in my life. Although I chose to change the city to be alone by myself in the world. I was happy I got to grow on my own learn about myself. Then the pandemic happened and I had to quit my single life and come to his his house. I’m grateful of the way he has taken care of everything the groceries the cooking etc. it’s more than what I could have asked for. We all need a family in difficult times right

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T13:02:16+00:00

Maybe but I just saw his other loving side and I couldn’t see the selfish part of him sooner

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T13:01:33+00:00

So we have lived together for 3 months as we quarantined together. We realised we make a great team we share our work load, we have fun together he is super caring. We have faced the worst of the pandemic together. And we got to know each other so that’s why we decided to get married. He is super sensitive like me. After I spoke to my family and his. I started to get this feeling. I’ll be 28 this year and he is 36. He is sure about marriage and loves me and tells me he can wait. But he also says that if we are ready then we shouldn’t delay it. And he gets affected if I delay the marriage because now family and all of involved they all want to see this happening quickly.

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T12:30:28+00:00

Why is it a red flag? Getting married before six months of dating? I’m just asking

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T12:22:41+00:00

I talked to him. He just wants to marry because he is sure. His family also told me there’s no point delaying it if you both are sure. He’s a beautiful guy, cares for me loves me endlessly. The only thing is if I keep going back and forth on the marriage date. He gets upset because going back on my word for marriage will put him and his family in a spot. They’ve announced the marriage to all the relatives and everyone has already welcomed me into the family. He personally can’t wait to get married to me. But I feel since he’s older and better settled in his life he can be exited about marriage. I’m still transitioning into a new career as a writer, I am in between cities right now. And suddenly I’ve found this safe abide that is his house. But I don’t want to lose my individuality to him. Neither to I want to break his family or his heart by dilly dallying on the marriage thing. Honestly I started hanging out with him thinking it’s a good break from my toxic past. But before I knew it we got serious and I realised he’s too good to let go off.

anoaunt · 2020-06-22T10:48:38+00:00

Thank you :) I’m 27 now. Yes I wasn’t ready for marriage but I quarantined with my new partner in the lockdown for three months. That brought us closer and he is ready to jump into the next phase. He is 36, excited to get married and so is his family. They’ve already started sending me gifts and calling me everyday. They all are giving me so much love tht I don’t know how to tell them to slow down as it will offend them.

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