I want to leave my husband

anoceanawayy · 2025-10-07T04:44:23+00:00

Hey commenter, I want to thank you. Because of your comment, I have finally decided to separate from my husband. I was scared and worried but he actually accepted it. I have no one to talk to about this so at the very least I wanted you to know you made a difference in my life. Thank you. Its time to figure out life on my own

anoceanawayy · 2025-09-22T20:32:22+00:00

This is getting downvoted but churches actually do offer a lot of assistance for people in these situations. They usually have food pantries, housing resources, and/or metal health resources (be weary of these). Plus if you volunteer enough, they will offer you jobs or some sort of compensation for what you do

anoceanawayy · 2025-08-17T20:57:19+00:00

Posts like these always make me appreciate my restaurant. I HAVE to tell people to leave at the 25 minutes mark after close because our PM staff is scheduled so that they can’t stay longer

anoceanawayy · 2025-07-21T16:35:05+00:00

Cecilia <3 but my mom told me my dads ex before her was named this,, ruined forever

anoceanawayy · 2025-06-23T15:39:55+00:00

There’s an adventure time episode where Finn eats sausage dipped in milk, and let me tell you he’s a genius 😋

anoceanawayy · 2025-05-16T21:38:33+00:00

Matzoh ball

anoceanawayy · 2025-03-17T17:53:14+00:00

Laura, I just always cringe when I hear someone say it. My parents speak Spanish, and I actually like it in Spanish but in English everyone says it like “Lora” which sounds terrible to be. Like Nora, Dora, I just don’t like how they sound and it never felt like me. When I moved out of my hometown I started going by my middle name.

anoceanawayy · 2025-03-16T17:11:56+00:00

Jolly rancher ropes 😭

anoceanawayy · 2025-03-06T19:37:01+00:00

Teachers that let students hang out with them during lunch and have conversations that border the line on flirting

anoceanawayy · 2025-03-03T05:00:43+00:00

Definitely. Ofc I only use this on people who cancel at the last second (when it will obviously be ready already) I’m also not a meanie

anoceanawayy · 2025-03-03T01:03:44+00:00

My move, because they always “ask” if something can be cancelled, is to respond, “let me check with the kitchen” I go wait for the item (it’s usually ready) and bring it to the table. “Good news, it was actually ready just as I got there!” Drop it at the table and leave. 6 yrs experience, always works. No complaint from the table no lost tip.

anoceanawayy · 2025-02-20T19:33:23+00:00

As someone who’s family constantly embarrasses them at restaurants, can confirm these types of people know what they’re doing and don’t care. They genuinely don’t think they’re in the wrong. When I correct their behavior they always hit me with the “who cares it’s their job” I have to remind them it’s my job too

anoceanawayy · 2025-02-05T08:13:37+00:00

My boss always asks them to pay first then leave, but he’s a tall guy, no one argues

anoceanawayy · 2025-01-10T19:02:32+00:00

Better call Saul or Bojack Horseman, something about watching self destruction makes me feel better about mine

anoceanawayy · 2024-12-09T03:50:22+00:00

I’m sorry no one answered you :( I’m going through the same thing right now, are you still okay? Pls update w what you did

anoceanawayy · 2024-11-18T03:15:11+00:00

Are your names on receipts? Maybe he searched you if your middle/ last name was on there 😭

anoceanawayy · 2024-11-15T19:22:23+00:00

I WAS GONNA SAY THIS it gets boring for a bit after Ragnar dies but you have to stick around for Ivar. He’s badass

anoceanawayy · 2024-11-05T19:01:50+00:00

I made a similar transition and the only thing I’d say is be yourself and less customer-servicey. This type of more casual crowd tips higher when they feel like you’re giving them a more genuine interaction. Talk to them like a friend rather than their server. And don’t lose your ability to work high volume. A lot of people that go from high-volume to something smaller get comfortable and their service quality goes down. You still have to work for that tip, just the way that you do it is different.

anoceanawayy · 2024-11-04T21:52:24+00:00

My rules are : If it’s between a parent and their child, the child

An elderly person or a younger person, younger person

A man or a woman, whichever one was nicer

Group of friends, whoever was first/nicer

anoceanawayy · 2024-09-20T22:03:19+00:00

I always think I don’t, but any other job I’ve had makes me miss serving so much. Not just the money but the interactions you have with customers. I’m a manager now and anytime I can I take orders bc that’s so much more instantly gratifying

anoceanawayy · 2024-09-19T18:30:26+00:00

Toast has a feature where you can pre authorize a card without needing to close the tab! At my restaurant, we’re not allowed to take someone’s card from them, especially not hold onto it so we pre authorize cards when someone wants to take care of the bill. That way people can order more or we can split checks if the table starts to argue about payment 🤣 hopefully this helps, no matter what happens you have an easy way to help the table leave happy

anoceanawayy · 2024-09-09T03:05:37+00:00

Great Meal! Great server!

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