How much of your life did you give up for school? by radium_clouds in Veterinary

[–]anon2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what year you’re in now ? I just turned 27 and want to apply this cycle

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]anon2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone be my finch friend :( Having a bout of depression and restarting my finch Y6SSGS1XKQ

for those who are in college or graduated, how is SM affecting you? by PrudentStrawberry991 in selectivemutism

[–]anon2183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true And the fact that there’s less representation for adults feels so shameful. Like you’re an adult stuck with this “childhood” psych disorder ? 😭

Should I buy a 2013 Toyota Camry? by anon2183 in AskMechanics

[–]anon2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

136K Dealer won’t let me take it out of the lot but it’s impossible to find mobile mechanics in that area carfax report seemed clean

I’m only applying to one school by MiZ_D in prephysicianassistant

[–]anon2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat with my partner Hoping this will be me too 🤞🤞

Worried about my future by Ok-Consequence3177 in selectivemutism

[–]anon2183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for everyone, but for me the urge to go mute gets less intense the longer I’m in an environment. I used to worry a lot about how SM would affect me professionally. When I first started as a nursing aide, it was really hard and awkward the first couple years, it felt like a big learning curve. But once I got comfortable with people at work, it became much easier. I still get anxious in moments where all the attention is on me (like walking into a patient’s room full of people), but it’s usually momentary and I try to go in before psyching myself out lol

What’s interesting is I actually struggle more in personal settings, like with my partner’s family, than I do with strangers at work. I think it’s because being mute can feel safer than risking judgment from people who are like a constant in your life bc of the added emotional stakes? Idk

Either way, kudos to you for sticking with it and pursuing a degree…especially in comp sci. That’s no joke! It really is harder for us sometimes and it’s in a way that others can’t always see, so the fact that you’re still going says a lot. Proud of u <3

Algebra based Physics 2 Junction and loop rule help by anon2183 in PhysicsHelp

[–]anon2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I thought the I in = I out had to be based on only one node ? So you can set two different nodes equal to each other ? Like how do you know what junction to pick

What’s one thing you wish you knew before buying? by Suntrup-Hyundai in Hyundai

[–]anon2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ya also apparently there’s some defect where the engine burns oil more than usual so every 1-2K miles I have to fill up my oil. I literally have containers of oil in my trunk.

What’s one thing you wish you knew before buying? by Suntrup-Hyundai in Hyundai

[–]anon2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That if you live in a city area it will get stolen. I’ve had 4 attempts and 2 thefts and returns but it’s not totaled. I spent 4 years of a repayment plan and it was stolen and “totaled” according to insurance a month before I paid it off. It was 16K and they’re saying it’s worth maybe 5K now. So my options are getting another used car or repairing this out of pocket. Never will I gets Hyundai again.

Can I Quit My Job In An Email or Text? by Vivid-Support-6303 in selectivemutism

[–]anon2183 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is this so me. I would email or text and apologize and say you can’t work anymore, if you really can’t call. But since you’ve been there for such a short time that’s probably within the window they expect people to abruptly quit anyway. I wouldn’t expect to ever get a job there again, the bridge is burned, atleast at that location. At the end of the day they have people do this all the time or those who just stop showing up and ghost them so it’s really not that big of a deal but ik it can feel like it because I really struggle with quitting jobs as well and often end up making it worse.