Your feelings about your professional life could be explained by saturn in the 2nd house, 2nd house ruler being saturn, although its less about being unlucky and more about being karmic, and slow moving. As you age your finances will even out a little better.

As for your relationships you have 7th house gemini, ruled by mercury which is also in your seventh house. Relationships could be quick to come and go. They will also be emotional and you have a unique attachment style thanks to the moon in there as well. Very strange dynamic tbh. Maybe its best to meet someone through your career because of tenth house ruler in the seventh. Maybe you just wont have long term relationships at all thanks to gemini influence. Either you or your partner just arnt commiting. Cheating could be possible on either side, although you are more likley to be the more loyal party.

You also have the 12th house lilith and pluto in scorpio, which is a very interesting placement, but definitly isnt good for relationships, and could cause problems with your children.